Singles & Dating - 29 December 2007

and he sent me a naughty nude pic of himself, do i have the right to show othres this pic too? can i post it on my blog or elsewhere online with his username on it. I also know him offline and think I might try posting it up as a flu=yer in the local gay bar. Is this wrong or, since it is my pics folder on my laptop, i have a right to use it as i please. He does have a pic of my face and bra. I feel he may use my pic however he wants, as i am sure he does, if u know what i mean.

2007-12-29 15:17:55 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

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This has bad lighting, but you get the idea.
I'm really scared that I'm not pretty enough to be choosy with men.
I'm one of those unfortunate looking women who are stylish and really smart and from a good family--meaning that I do want someone on my level in terms of profession and smarts.
But I'm really young and really scared and so very sad. I've been depressed since I was 13 and I think my life has no point if I'm never going to be happy or satisfied with love.
I'm really in need of help. I have pinpointed an area of plastic surgery which I would benefit from--eye-lid surgery and a nose job, but that is for when I'm a little older.
I'm a totally screwed? Am I not pretty enough for someone decently attractive or should I just learn to live with myself for the rest of my lonely workaholic life?

2007-12-29 15:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean I like other kind of men but i'm more attracted to asians.

2007-12-29 15:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best guy friend and I fell in love with eachother (we are mid 20s) a few months ago and have now been in a relationship for two months. I still feel in love with him, but I just don't feel like the relationship is working out and I'm not sure if I want the relationship anymore. Are these normal feelings? Have you ever felt that even though you still love someone that you don't feel like the relationship is worth it and that it is too much battle to withstand?

2007-12-29 15:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany H 1

guys- what do u look for in women?
gals- what can i do to show my crush i like him?

2007-12-29 15:10:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have alreadly attempted to call it quits but he begged me not to leave..I stayed. Im bored with him..what can i do?

2007-12-29 15:10:35 · 1 answers · asked by atoctod 1

I mean I see these people at my church who are so happily married and I am so wanting the same. I feel so unworthy to men. I mean no man wants a overweight woman. Face it!!! It doesn't matter if I have a good heart or not. Men look only on the outside of a woman. I am getting really tired of it too. It just isn't right. I try so hard not to let it get to me but it does. I talk to my friends but it seems I just get over this hump with this on teh way I feel. I feel so alone. ALL the time!! I know this is a pity pot but it gets unbearable sometimes.

I am just venting, Thanks for listening

2007-12-29 15:08:57 · 25 answers · asked by conny 6

My bf wants to kiss me but im really nervous?? Any surgestions for the first kiss? tongue??? ahh!! I have asked this before but i still need surgestions..cheeks or lips?? and we are always with his freinds..is it a good idea to be alone?? He always touches my butt..is that bad?? What should i do back....???

2007-12-29 15:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

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I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I absolutely love everything about him except how he handles money. About a year ago we laid everything out on the line about our future. One of the things we discussed was money. It turns out that he was about $20,000 in debt (credit card) which shocked the heck out of me!
He owns his own condo and has a roommate. His roomate gives him $400 for rent ( believe his mortgage is $1200) his roommate does not pay him utilities (which I think would help big time!- he's too afraid to ask now because he has lived with him for 3 years and he's afraid he might altogether move out. The $400 a month really helps.)
My concern is that I truly do see a great future with him. I am in no position to move in or get married just yet. I would like to start/finish grad school. I hope to start school next fall and the program is 2 years long-very intense and you cannot work. If I cannot work I obviously can't contribute financially to a marraige- so I plan on waiting to advance our relationship further until I am finished with school.
I realize that he has plenty of time to change. His consolidated his credit card and is really trying to save money (though he hasn't). With his work schedule he cannot go back to school and persue another career at this time. He has too much to pay for. I don't mind helping him out but I am so sick of paying for everything because he doesn't have any money. -- does that sound bitchy?
The other day I looked at his cable bill and he pays over $140 a month for cable and internet! I think that's outrageous. I know he can get that for cheaper.
How do I express my feelings about money without hurting his feelings? I know that money is a really touch subject in relationships- I do make more than he does.
What should I do?

2007-12-29 14:49:57 · 3 answers · asked by CJ 1

Ok, so i really like this boy, right??? idk, when he has a girlfriend, he goes all the way. he gets attached, when they break up with him, he is like a sad puppy. His gf just broke his heart, my best friend likes him too (theres no jealousy, we are still bestfriends, it wont get between us, weve talked about it) so, i know that he is very ... fragile right now. my other friend, allie, comforts him, and i am afraid that he will start to lean on her becuase she is there for him. i have tried to console him, but allie seems to one-up me. i know she doesnt like him, but she is a shameless flirt. she is giving him the wrong idea, and i dont want him to go wiht it and get led into a false trap! i really like him, and allie is just always there for him, and it makes me feel like i cant help him at all. HELP!

2007-12-29 14:41:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Compliment" meaning being vocal about the physical attractiveness of these women, who are not his wife, to these women's faces. Only when the wife's back is turned though.

Oh, and I am not the subject of this question so please answer it like the hypothetical situation it is.

2007-12-29 14:36:42 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

First of all thanks for taking an interest. Second of all - this doesn't have naything to do with me, but my bestie. There is this guy that i believe she likes, even though she's uncertain herself. The only reason she doesn't want to accept it is because she is afraid of getting hurt, because believe me, you don't want to fall for a guy like him. I think, despite the fact he can't stop dissing her he actually does like her. It's like whenever she's around he tries to be cool, loud..NOTICABLE! He is not the usual 'nice' guy, but when she is around he tries to be slightly more mannered and less pimpish. It's like whenever she's not in the room you see him sorrounded by girls and enjoying their company, but when she walks in the room he chucks them away. What i think, is that he doesn't want to accept the fact that someone as cool/bad/popular (whatever you call it) as him, has fallen for a generally nice girl, and the only way he can show his feelings is by hurting her. Any thoughts?

2007-12-29 14:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by iLOVEhugs 2

PLEASE!!!! o man im 4 months pregnant and me and the father of my child had a really bad thing happend and i hurt him sooo bad i need sumthing that really says im srry for hurting him.

2007-12-29 14:30:36 · 27 answers · asked by Rebekah L 1

...if you stumble across his myspace page and a bunch of his "friends" are porn stars and 22 year old hot chicks from the other side of the country that he doesn't know but flirts with telling them how hot they are? I have nothing against porn by the way but c'mon who does that? I had to laugh but now that I think about it I kind of lost some respect for him. Don't think that's the kind of person I'd want to be dating...I feel like he's an internet creep now! lol. None of my guy friends and brothers are like that on myspace so...what do you think? Is this guy a weirdo? btw he is 35.

2007-12-29 14:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by Shera 3

Why why would he do this?????
he's one of my best friends. he says he dosent like me and he's always like i know you like me (maybe cause i havent admitted that ilike him) but he does all this, he looks at me during class all the time. I see him check me out. Some times he calls me for no reason. If feels like he finds ways to touch me (like when he laughs his head is always touching mine.) and it feels like he finds ways to touch my hands. hes an outgoing/flirty person btw. But he's really sweet and nice to talk to. he also hangs out with me the most. he always tries to make me laugh. Ive heard from friends that he pushed them just to try to talk to me. and people always say we like each other and were such a good couple

2007-12-29 14:29:18 · 38 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1

ok so my family is messy except me and it is bugging me. I used to love the computer game the sims and i bought the new one because i love it and wanted it to play when i am bored. My mother has lost it in her messy study and i have looked everywhere. I even tore the whole thing up so i can find it and still cant find it! SHould i buy a new one or not?

I dont know what to do , i am so pissed?

2007-12-29 14:29:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in love with this one girl and she says I deserve someone better, because I'm perfect and shes not. She also said she is sorry.

What does this mean?

2007-12-29 14:27:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean think about it, do they not know or realise from analysing other rships tht if they had chosen the nice guy in the beginning they wouldnt be in this mess with possible their luggage (kids, financial woes)...? Why didnt they choose the nice guys first?

2007-12-29 14:26:50 · 14 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2

I have known the person that i am dating for about and year and some, and we have been dating on and off for 4 months ( =[ ) But Her aunt (whom she lives with) Says she can't date, so everything we do is always low key so basically i can only call at certain times (rarely) and when we go somewhere friends have to go as well. And i was fine with it and so was she. But then before the christmas break (i am in high school) we made plans to hang out and do things together but we couldn't do it since she could not stay with her friend/cousin again , but instead her aunt. so over the break, we have not been able to see each other or even communicate with each other! So i thought to myself it is always going to be like this and i think i made a mistake. So my real question is, do i stay with her and possibly wait to see if things get better. Or do call it off with her? please answer
also ( if i do break up with her, is it wrong or right to go after a friend of hers???)

2007-12-29 14:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by TheReallyCoolGuy09 2

Ok, so I know we are not the only people that have had these thoughts but.....well, ok.....me and my boyfriend are planning on getting married by next Aug. we love each other very much and have had a very honest relationship from the start we have never kept anything from each other. I told him when we first got togeather that I liked girls as well and had dated a few(so I guess I am bi) well anyway I brought it up to him about being with other people as a couple. We have done it a few times now since I have told him(both men and women) and there has been no problems at all we are wonderfully happy but I guess I am just wondering I am weird or do we have an odd relationship?

2007-12-29 14:22:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got this girls number about 2 days ago. While she was telling me her digits, she started with a different area code. She said she moved here a while back but hasnt decided to change her sevice so she has kept the same out of state number but still lives here. So I call her number the next day and I get this "The number you have dialed is either out of service, has been changed, or has ben disconnected." How messed up is that? Do you think she did this purposley? I mean, the only reason I asked her for her number in the first place is because I know she likes me. What are your thoughts?

2007-12-29 14:21:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to a New Year's Eve party, which is being hosted by a guy and woman who are living together...but they are not really a "couple" in my estimation. He doesn't seem to be interested in her and I think they might be living together for convenience sake. I have been lusting after him for a long time now and he seems to have some interest in me. Be my crystal ball and give me your prediction as to whether they will stay together in the new year, or will he move out and ask me out.

2007-12-29 14:20:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been together for over a year now. I love him and he said he loves me. we don't live together I see 3 or 4 time a week and there is no intimacy we kiss hi and bye and I think we have sex once or twice a month. It's like I have to start touching him for us to do anything he never says no but i don't want to alway be the one that start 4 play. I have talked to him I don't want to brake up with him so plz don't say that I want to know what to do

2007-12-29 14:16:48 · 22 answers · asked by no1peaches 2

he also hasn't been talking to me like he used. Should I just ignore this and wait for the busy holidays to pass, and see if it fixes after we're back into normal schedules and give him space right now? Or does it seems like he's trying to break away? I really want things to work out, but I don't wanna keep nagging him to hang out.

2007-12-29 14:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by jennyyy 1

Everyday i think about her specially know that i am in vacation and everytime i see her my heart starts beating faster and i feel like just walking towards her and just hug her which most of the time i do because she let's herself get hugged by me and let's me hold her hand while i talk to her but since we are in school i really don't have much time to talk to her because we have to go to class Please give me Advice to get a little closer with her. THANX.

2007-12-29 14:11:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am ginger and hate it, everyone says i am lucky to have such a light ginger, but i aint sure, i hear that red heads are ment to be feiry(well i am ;-) ). i am just curious, i am quite a confedent girl and have had a LOAD of boyfriends, but does it bother blokes/boys coz of the ginger pubes?? PLEASE be kind, i feel really self-concious!!! thanksxx

2007-12-29 14:09:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

to date him. The guy who likes you ends up dating one of your good friends for a while. You eventually break-up w/ your bf and are single again. Any chance you would go out with that guy once your friends dated him?

2007-12-29 14:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by KID87 1

I need some flirting tips. I see this guy only once a week: on sundays for church. he's a ninth grader and im an 8th grader. what are some great flirting tips that will drive him crazy? I'm pretty sure he likes me. Give me all the tips you know please.

2007-12-29 14:06:34 · 11 answers · asked by Shadow 4

I really like this guy....im kind of shy but i do write notes to him. when anyone asks me if i like him i am shy to say i do. the other day he got suspended for 6 days. i will not see him until we go back to skool. he also just broke up with his gf. i dont know what will happen or what to do any further but i really like him....can someone plz help me.

2007-12-29 14:06:28 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa 2

My girlfriend is going to a party. Allot of guys are going to go. I know there is going to be freak dancing and slow dancing. What should I do if she freaks on another guy and slow dances with him???

2007-12-29 14:05:21 · 20 answers · asked by christopher b 2