My bf wants to kiss me but im really nervous?? Any surgestions for the first kiss? tongue??? ahh!! I have asked this before but i still need surgestions..cheeks or lips?? and we are always with his freinds..is it a good idea to be alone?? He always touches my butt..is that bad?? What should i do back....???
2007-12-29 15:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok. first. its better to be alone for sure. because its sorta weird when other ppl are around and its your first time. so plan a date or sumthing.. some where that you guys can go and you wont be with anyone else.. and i personally think yu should do it with tounge. like you should make out.. cuz its a good experience and dont worry.. dont be nervous. and also.. he is probably at that age where he will touch you and i dont think its a bad thing when guys touch a girls butt.. like.. just play along with it. just laugh =P but yeah ok.. be alone.. makeout.. and i know this sounds dorky... but if your that nervous.. try practising on sumthing.. remember not to open you mouth too big and close your eyes. once it happens.. you and him will do what each other is doing... like.. so it wont be too bad.. i hope you arent too nervous and i hope this helped
2007-12-29 15:15:57 · answer #1 · answered by nicolecm3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One suggestion, your body is your gift to your husband, try to keep it all for him. Your boyfriend will respect you and trust you immensely. He may even dump you to go get it from someone else, but then, hey, he's not that valuable if he does. I promise you that I will be judged as old-fashioned, etc. But I don't see society problems with divorce, affairs, abortion, std's etc, improving as time goes on. Think about it...For great advice call 1-800-AFAMILY. It is good that he wants to kiss you and touch you (what boyfriend wouldn't?) but he has no business taking what belongs to someone else. (your future husband) You can do things the way everyone does right now, but you will end up with all the problems everyone these days does too. My husband and I are young and were both virgins when we got married. We have been married 14 years now, and the statistics show that our chances of remaining married are better than if we had shared our bodies with other people before we were married.
2007-12-29 15:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by bloogirl777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. If you feel weirdly embarrassed, tell him it's your first kiss and you are weirdly embarrassed. Then kiss him again. It'll be better because you'll have had that little bit of practice! Tongue or not to tongue? Try it and see if you like it. If you want to invite him to kiss you, kiss his cheek and he'll get the hint. Be alone if you want to be alone. One kiss doesn't mean he'll try and rip your clothes off. Get his hands under them, maybe, but it's up to you whether you let him or not. A guy will push as far as he wants to. It's up to you how far you want to allow. It's ok for him to touch your butt if you like it, it's not ok if you don't.
2007-12-29 15:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should kiss him tongue so you have a good expirence..Lips of course..Try not to be completly alone cause you don't want anything to happen..He's just showing affection when he touches your butt..You should do the same back or just kiss him when he does or just hug him really tightly to show him you feel the same way..
2007-12-29 15:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ciara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him...let him decide and just follow him. You will know if he wants a lil tongue cause he will part your lips and you will feel him. Just relax and go with the flow. No kiss is the same. Enjoy the first one...you will never forget it!!
2007-12-29 15:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by Amy . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO TOUNGE!! GOOD GOD!!!!! Kiss on the lips because then it really doesnt count as a first kiss if its on the cheek. and dont kiss him when you are around his friends. then there will be too much pressure. get him alone. and about the butt thing...guys like butts. my guy friends have given me complements on mine and talk about my friends butts too. its a guy thing. they arnt trying to be rude, its just their nature. and if you want to touch it back, more power to ya!!
2007-12-29 15:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you comfortable with him touching you like that? Because if you are not you should let him know ASAP. For the kissing thing, just let it flow. It'll come.
2007-12-29 15:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by OverTheRainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad if he touches ur butt god kiss him already and you can french kiss or you can not french kiss but make it last more than 3 seconds and i would prefer you guys be alone
2007-12-29 15:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was nervous too... But the best way to do it is to just do it! Its fun once you get it and if he says anything just say that it was your first time and that you didn't really know what you were doing
2007-12-29 15:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Victoria <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him give him a regular kiss simple and sweet on the lips but your probobly too young to be alone with him if he toutches your butt hes probly proud to be with you and thinks you got a cute butt /DONT HAVE SEX INTILL AFTER MARRIAGE
2007-12-29 15:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋