Singles & Dating - 29 December 2007

I was going to call my boyfriend but when I picked up the phone, I heard my younger sister whose 13 and her boyfriend talk about sex. I was being nosy and listened to their conversation. This is how it went. James(boyfriend)-So, uh, I was thinking. I know this is pretty random and stuff, but do you want to have sex, you know. Just for practice and stuff? Lacey(sister)- Yah!! Sure! But, we should probably do it at your house. My parents are really strict and wouldn't let any boyfriend of mine come in my room. James- Okay. Yeah, are you free ....Saturday night? My parents won't be home.... Lacey- Yeah. Defintily.

and then the conversation ended. I hung up the phone. I didn't walk in on her and start talking to her. I didn't want to embarras her.

I don't want to tell anybody about it, because Lacey will never trust me again...and I don't want to lose our friendship as sisters.

How should I react??

2007-12-29 17:20:23 · 16 answers · asked by KeepXholdingXon 1

i was trying to make people laugh because all this stuff thats happening at my house and i needed some laughter,,u know,,but some people were very rude and said stuff like thats not funny go kill urself,,well u get what im saying,,most people thought it was funny tho,,but my question is why r some people so mean on here ,if they dont like ur quesion they shouldnt answer it,,am i right?

2007-12-29 17:18:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I´m learning english from the kinder garden and all my basic education, I can read an transalte but is too dificult to me to speak english. I´m from México. The Korean guy invites me to go out and he wants to knows my city.,,,

2007-12-29 17:14:50 · 1 answers · asked by cerr33 5

So I have been going out with my girl for almost two years, and I know there's a few guys she likes to hang out with. She's a senior in HS and I'm a freshman in college. Lately when I visit I feel like she's pushing me away from cudling while we're watching a movie and other small gestures she used to like. Earlier today I found a picture of her hanging out with her friends. She is laying on top of a guy I don't know (looks like between his legs) him holding her gently and she looks very comfortable. She says it's nothing and she does it all the time? Do you think she's gone over the line. I think she has and I need help on how to approach her with this when she feels like it's no big deal and completely normal and I feel cheated on. She looks more comfortable laying on top of this guy that I personally have been her comfortable with me for a while now. Please help. Guys? Women? I love this girl so please be serious. I want to keep this relationship going.

2007-12-29 17:12:27 · 6 answers · asked by SomeGuy 2

If you were drunk guy with a drunk girl, but you had a serious gf, would you accept a "blowjay" from the drunk girl? this is under the circumstances that your gf wouldn't find out...please help!!!

2007-12-29 17:11:40 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its all over

I finally opened up to someone after a long time of building walls and never allowing myself to get hurt, always keeping one foot on the ground...I thought I had finally found someone really special...

Sadly it wasnt to be....he couldnt give me what I wanted and rather than hurt me any more, he made the right choice and said goodbye

He wanted to be friends still as he feels thats the most important thing and he doesnt want me to not be a part of his life at all....but right now I cant do that....seeing him will break my heart all over again

I am not a fool for love...I know its for the best and that what we had was really really good and that I should be greatful for the fantastic memories....its just not the right time for him...and maybe not for me either...but it doesnt stop this ache

I know it wont last forever...I wont always feel this way and maybe someday someone will feel the same....but right now I am broken and I dont know quite what to do

2007-12-29 17:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by sweetnlow 3

this question has to do with the same person:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmRj5.8t8qYZvz1D1mGiJmzty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071123201220AA1vwPY

I've been talking to this guy for a while and although in the beginning we had conversations about movies, w/e, later on we started talking about things that were more meaningful, like issues i've been having with my family life and stuff like that. i realized that by talking to him i've gained so much, because he actually gives me honest, insightful advice, and i feel like i've become a better person by listening to him. he always makes me think about things in a new and different way. i dont always like the way that i am, because i can freak out about the stupidest things, and i can be a spaz, but he is the total opposite from me and i feel like by talking to him i've been able to learn ways to improve myself. the bad thing is that i feel like i need him now, if i dont talk to him i dont feel right but i know he doesnt like me

2007-12-29 17:07:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let this guy I know I'm interested in him and he too said he has interest for me and finds me attractive. We began communicating via the internet and then he gave me his cell phone. He calls a few times a week and we have great conversation with no awkward pauses, a lot of laughing and witty humor. When I see him where we met we greet each other with a combination of a handshake and a kiss on the cheek and he spends time around me talking, laughing, etc. He works where we met so I understand he also has to be professional in his work environment. He mentioned to me 2x via the net that we should hang out and even though I volunteered some ideas, after about 4 weeks of just talking casually on the phone, communicating via the net, and seeing him where he works; we still have not "hung out." You see, he works 12 hours a day: He also has a weekend job Friday and Saturday evenings. Sunday's he sleeps most of the day because he works too much and doesn't have enough time to himself. So, basically he does not have time to hang out with me. He only gave me the number to his prepaid cell (not his home #). Though, he has called me from his home phone before; I know because it shows up as a private #. Every time he calls me, he calls me from his home phone and I hear him walk around his apartment freely. So, this guy is not making time for me, calls a few times a week, and although he spends time around me where he works I feel he feels obligated to do so. I think he’s just t not that into me and I don’t know if I should send him a message via the net asking him in what way, if any, is he interested in me, and/or if we should just go back to the way it was before we expressed a mutual interest in each other and just stay friends. What do any of you think?

2007-12-29 17:06:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you be totally"smitten" and "enamored" and "in love" with someone and cheat on them?

2007-12-29 17:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by fluffy 1

just wondering what guys find attractive in a girls personality... im a shy girl. do guys like more outgoing girls? (among other qualities)

2007-12-29 16:53:45 · 19 answers · asked by daydreamer 1

I grew up ugly...no other word to say but ugly. Very chubby, very weird looking, with no fashion sense. I didn't have many friends for that very reason...the few friends I did had were very kind hearted people who liked me for what I was on the inside.

Around junior years things started to change. I lost a good deal of weight, my face changed (sounds crazy but I swear to it), and I started taking care of myself. Got nice hair, nice clothes, nice makeup. I'm not hot stuff or anything but I'm not ugly like I used to be.

Now I'm almost 20 and I don't know how to act around certain people. Girls who made fun of me in high school and boys who wouldn't give me a second look are now trying to be my friend. They give me more attention now than all four years of high school.

But I don't know whether to be friendly back or treat them the way they treated me when they thought I was not worthy of their attention.

What do you think?

2007-12-29 16:50:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I attract very young women 25 and younger. I am an articulate, well educated, confident guy. I am fit, groom myself well and know how to attract women. Since my divorce 2 years ago I've been struggling with lingering emotional attachment with my ex. lately I've been going out. My issue is I am more comfortable to approach younger women. When they respond by showing me clear interest or allow themselves to be seduced I can't do it. This noise in my head shouts "WRONG"
so I back out. I am sexually stranded currently and long for a feminine soft body next to mine. I see older women as judgmental snobs, too formal and demanding. I know I am wrong here but that's how I feel for some reason. So not easy to approach them. What do you guys suggest? Is it wrong for me to date say a 22,21,20 year old ladies?

2007-12-29 16:42:00 · 32 answers · asked by joggoBonito 2

This guy hit me up on a social networking website, and I told him I was a little bit older (27). Do you think dating a 20 year old is way too young?

2007-12-29 16:35:42 · 14 answers · asked by Dannicka D 84 1

like for example- I was with my fiance tonight shopping and he ran into this beautiful girl and gave her this huge hug and forgot to introduce me! Well after we walked away together he goes she is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen- she is literally perfect!

Unspoken rule number 1: Introduce your fiance to a good friend of the opposite sex

Unspoken rule number 2: Dont put some random girl up on a pedastool like that, who you didnt introduce your fiance too, and then go on and on about her

2007-12-29 16:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by boots4939 1

i have a fiance, we live apart. well we got in a huge fight about how i always drive over to see him(everyday) and he never comes to my house. he makes more than i do! i had asked him to come over tmw and he said i don't want to, you can come over here, and i told him i was tired of driving over there all the time. we got in a huge fight and then he tried to apologize and suck up by saying he would be over at my house @ 12, but i told him i already made plans (we got in a little argument about it the night before) to go to my friends house. well he completely blew up and asked for the ring back and we exchanged a lot of words, and now he wants me back. idk wat to do, he always does this and then when we break-up he says he'll change and everything, but never does. i do love him, but i am tired of doing all the work.( he never takes me out anymore, says he can't afford it but yet buys me lv purses all the time or buys a ton of tools) i have to pay when we go out. should i stay with him?

2007-12-29 16:32:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think i like my friend
but im not sure
i mean ive seen her like twice
and i talk to her in msn
sometimes i look at her pics
and ni think shes perfect but
other times im like ehh

I don't know if i really like her
i mean..
like is there any phobia
dealing with someone
being afraid of not likeing
anybody...


What's wrong with me?


sorry stupid question i know i just wanted to open up to somebody =]


please no mean answers im really confused right now

2007-12-29 16:17:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go out with this girl last night ice skating, to dinner and to a movie and we had a good time. So I run into her tonight and we begin talking and flirting but the whole time she is getting text messages. She then says she is going to the movies tonight. I curiously asked "with who, is it a guy?" She hesitantly says yes and tries to change the subject by asking me about coming to watch football at her apartment's lounge area. I tell her I might and then I leave. When we first met it seemed as though we clicked very well together and had a ton in common. We still do enjoy each others company but now I'm thinking I should back off. Me and her acted very much like a couple the night before and the next night she's going to the movies with some other guy. We're not in a relationship or anything and I don't want her to feel any pressure to be in one. I do really like her but I'm not sure I should keep spending time with her. Any thoughts?

2007-12-29 16:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by Sub Xero 2

my x boyfriend treated me like his slave are all guys like that

2007-12-29 15:59:18 · 1 answers · asked by countrygal 2

she is sooo amazing! i love her to death! if i never saw another person besides her for the rest of my life i would be in eternal bliss! she is THE perfect girl for me!

and the best part is, she loves me back!

2007-12-29 15:56:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love you!!!!

2007-12-29 15:51:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its all I think about, I can't focus, everything seems so horrible without a girlfriend, Ive never had one before and I'm 19 ******* years old, I NEED HELP

2007-12-29 15:48:23 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so am in high school. I met his guys and we became frinds for a year now. I want you to understand that he like-alomost the cutest guy in the skool ( small school) and he kind of cokc. Any way, through last year he atced like a complete jerk at times. and this year i just had enough so i wrote hime this letter sayiing EVERTHING that i dilike about him. Alos, my mother called his mom saying that i've been crying over him. And not onl that but he has a gilrfriend who is in a highrer grade who now think s that am jealous out her( but am really not) and not only that but i use to have sort of a lil crush on him..now we barely talk but i dont want this tension between us to be there. Plus i kno w that he's one of those guys who like guys casing after him..but i just regret doing what i said and rightnow i dont know what to do :(. What do you think is going on in his mind. His mom said that in his house he aslways talks about me too..i dont know how to take that

2007-12-29 15:37:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a pretty girl trying to get through college and i dnt have time 2 hold down a 9-5 so dnt judge me just help me find the richest bacholers that dont mind spending like hey should!

2007-12-29 15:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by la la 2

and he is really cute and stuff and like we smile when we pass eachother but how do i make it go further i want him to do seomthing!!!

2007-12-29 15:35:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 15:34:10 · 3 answers · asked by Romeo 3

I always just said thank you because that's how I respond to compliments but I think this is a special case because he should only be complimenting his wife. What's a good response that would make him stop?

2007-12-29 15:29:37 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

cause I can't love what iz love mortalzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz bwahahahahaha

2007-12-29 15:29:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned 18 a few weeks ago, and he just turned 23. We have known eachother for about 4 years, and have been really good friends, and we have been dating for about 6 months. He is stationed in Cali, and I live in New York. We are from the same town, that's how we know each other. So anyway, he is here on vacation, and his friend Stephanie flew up from North Carolina to see him for a week, and he is here for only a week. He says he has to hang out with her on New Years because she has no one, but we planned this vacation for us. I feel like she is invading, and I don't feel like I am over-reacting. He got here today, and we hung out, and she flies in tomorrow. She leaves the 5th, he leaves the 6th. So far, he is spending every single day with her, and only coming out here on the 2nd. Am i wrong for feeling like she is invading and am I wrong for being angry?

2007-12-29 15:22:08 · 1 answers · asked by Celia 1

i like this girl alot and iwas jus lookin for a song that i could like dedicate to that or somthin that smular to falling in love with someone and then somthin split you apart...i kno it sound stupied but i dotn kno somethin bout that girl i jsu want a song thats kind of simular to that ok thanx..._ im 15)

2007-12-29 15:19:26 · 18 answers · asked by wrtaft33 1

can anyone tell me how a 19yr old good looking male can become a porn star in nyc. how do u go about it ? what are the steps ? where do u go ?

2007-12-29 15:18:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous