Singles & Dating - 29 December 2007

just wondering i am, and i thank god for it every day. virginity is so not cool to have these days. it so stupid the way that your purity is taken. once its gone its gone. you will never physically get it back. but spiritually you can be a born again virgin.

2007-12-29 05:27:53 · 19 answers · asked by will987456 2

When he tries to penetrate me I feel all my muscles contract and the pain is unbearable.I want to do it.I love him very much.He's pissed off and I don't wanna lose him.I'm desperate.Got any tips and tricks?If you can't post here - email me.I don't want to break any rules

2007-12-29 05:20:24 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

Im a virgin and im planning on losing my virginity to my boyfriend on new years eve. He doesnt want to wear a condom and im really worried about perhaps getting pregnant from the condom splitting and stuff anyway. He says it wont feel good to wear one and that his hard on will probally be gone in about 20 seconds. I dont know what to do. I love him very much and i know he loves me but this is a big issue for me. I dont want to end up pregnant. Im too young! also the fact hes been with other girls without a condom so i dont know if he has anything! How am i supposed to deal with this? Hes being so stupid about it.

2007-12-29 05:15:58 · 26 answers · asked by rockandrollcliche@btinternet.com 1

Is it true that guys don't like tomboys, cause I'm 15 and i like to play basketball,( i am not very good at basketball) football, baseball, socker, ect

2007-12-29 05:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

With three kids my husband and I have needed a little more us time so we are planning to book a cruise for "us" time. With me being a huge romantic and my husband not he actually said he wanted to plan a romantic getaway. My mind got lost in thoughts of endless sex and white sandy beaches. Now he tells me he is planning on inviting other couples. I agree everything is always more exciting with friends, but I am not sure they fit in my vision of a romantic getaway. Is it ok for me to ask for him to have a romantic trip alone or am I being too boring just wanting to spend 4 days reconnecting in every which way possible?

2007-12-29 05:10:07 · 14 answers · asked by Doll_Partz 2

This guy I've been seeing is in love with my hair ..plays with it all the time and now he's growing out his hair to copy my hair...

He once told me " Your HAIR is so hot" ..

I feel like I'm being objectified and only liked for my hair. I'm not sure if he finds the rest of me as beautiful...He's crazy about my hair.

Does he have a strange fetish or something ? Can a man like one part of woman's body and that's it ?

2007-12-29 05:09:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

some people say tht love is sacrifice...if u love somebody den y giving life for him..is'nt dis foolishness? m confused plzz respond

2007-12-29 05:02:24 · 24 answers · asked by *~*indian*~* 2

cos i heard that men only like younger woman

2007-12-29 04:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright. Im turning 15 in June. he turned 17 in November. I have both parents approval, and his parents approve too. Can we stil date when he turns 18? We have not had sex. So is it ok to contiune dating?

2007-12-29 04:51:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so my friend likes me. i've always liked him but lost interest. he commented my picture the other day saying i was beautiful. he calls me like evryday now i told him i dont like him but i think he thinks im lieing. do i like him? idn i will never let him get off the phoe with me. i say it becasue im bored. i act sorta friendlyaround him but i always say i dont like him but nothing ever shows i do. but do i? idn confused!!(i kno im prabably confusing u guys to sorry)

2007-12-29 04:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

theirs this guy i like and he likes me but he wont ask me out..what should i do??

2007-12-29 04:48:38 · 14 answers · asked by bufu_you 1

My dad caught me i.m.ing late one night, so he told me to give him my computer... he read everylove message that me and my friend sent to each other... he took away my computer and phone for a week, and now I have to show him my messages before I delete them.... My friend and I aren't going out yet but my dad thinks we were... the love I have for my friend will never change because of my dad, I just have to be sneeky about it... so I talked to my friend about it and he's planning on asking me out, he said he's just waiting for the right moment.... we plan on making out next time we see each other after break... My question is : am I doing the right thing by living with the principles of love conquers all, and not just giving up on this guy I love just because my dad says so? What should I do about the whole situation?Please help!!!

2007-12-29 04:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by amber211 2

My boyfriend and I had a great relationship we never fought, could always talk things out, could always count on one another. The problem was his mom, I'm black, he's white she wasn't too happy. We broke up Sophmore year because they had fight about me. She told him he couldn't be with me anymore. Now we're Juniors and even though we broke up last year I still Love him . . . alot. We haven't had a real conversation since last year. He WON'T TALK TO ME!!! But he's always staring at me. If I look at him he looks down, I walk past him he looks down, he follows me around the halls acting like he supposed to be going that way when he's not. Why is he doing this? Neither of us have managed to get with anyone else, but we've tried . . . it didn't work. it didn't feel right. Could my ex still love me? Or am I just imagining things? Should I try and talk to him . . . Or should I just let it go?

2007-12-29 04:47:04 · 52 answers · asked by writingblack 1

I am not talking from a racisim point of view. I mean are you attracted to people of other races and if so, is it all races, or just a few. Myself, I am white and find some indian and pakistani girls very attractive, I also like a lot of mixed race girls. But i am not at all attracted to east asian girls or very dark ladies. I do if I'm honest feel a much stronger attraction to white girls.

2007-12-29 04:44:57 · 19 answers · asked by SMGFAN 3

It's my girlfriend's birthday next week - we've been together for three months and I think she could be the one. I asked my mum for birthday present advice and she suggested this. What will it cost me and where can I get one?

2007-12-29 04:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by raspberry_to_you 1

Ok, there's this guy I'm into..we have been friends for a couple of yrs and have flirted in the past. His family moved to another state just after we met but he always keeps in contact by chat and sometimes calls. So then we got together a while ago and kissed. Now he called and said he wants to come visit me. thing is weve never discussed our feelings..then a couple of days ago I was chatting with a friend of his and he asked how my love life was. I told him I liked his friend but not to tell him as I think he must have lots of girlfriends. He said yes, he used to envy him, he had so many female friends & also said that he sure knows how to flirt! He said that he had suspected that I liked him and I said 'how'? He said that he had picked up on the chemistry in the atmosphere. Have I done something stupid..to tell him this? ps I am a girl

2007-12-29 04:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my guy friend and i studied together for the first time. I was wondering what usually makes up a study date...I know it wasn't an official study date per se, but just wanted to see if that was the direction it was heading in. Obviously I've never had a study date before. So what are things that usually happen or say that it is more likely a study date?

2007-12-29 04:42:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-29 04:41:22 · 13 answers · asked by SMGFAN 3

I've known this guy for about 2 years now. We talk on the bus almost everyday, and on msn. I have just started to like him, and almost everybody says that we would be the perfect couple.This might sound really, really weird but one day i was talking to him on msn and out of no where said :I LOVE YOU. then he said he was joking, and that we are very close friends. I was extremly confused and I don't know why he said that.Do you think he likes me?

2007-12-29 04:37:30 · 23 answers · asked by Cassie 2

for a right good laugh

2007-12-29 04:35:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Eventhough she knows I have a girlfriend. She says that she won't tell and that I can sneak over as often as I want. She says we can even have a baby together if I want to. I don't know because she keeps calling. What should I do?

2007-12-29 04:30:25 · 23 answers · asked by John 1

There is this guy that I know, and I'm pretty positive that he knows me to, but we have never really spoken[let's call him F]... I always see him in the hall staring at me and so do all my friends, even the ones who don't know what he looks like. They say, "Why is that guy staring at you? Who is he?" He talks to his friend[j] in my grade[F is 2 years older], but I was talking to j today and F avoided talking to j. F started staring at us and it looked like he was really angry. Do you find this weird or what? HELP!

And also I know this is nothing, but I wore my soccer sweatshirt to school and he saw me. The next day he wore his.

I'm in 7th grade and he is in 9th grade.

2007-12-29 04:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with a guy and we call each other everyday, sometimes, its work related sometimes not. I do have feelings for him, but i consider him as friend. A friend who i confide in, he gives me good advice and also helps me alot at work. He is married and so do I. We have a special relationship. I want to buy him a present to show him how much I care. What should i get him?

2007-12-29 04:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Michinha 1

what should i do to make her more comfortable when we're having sex?

2007-12-29 04:16:23 · 8 answers · asked by kenny G 1

And if so, how can I do it safely like without getting
in trouble with police or anything. The girls I meet
give me their number, but when I call they say
they're busy and don't call back. What should I do?

2007-12-29 04:16:13 · 15 answers · asked by John 1

It's not what you think. He found out that he had kids as well. A five year old and a ten year old, from two different women. He only found out because he was being sued for child support. By the way, he was 26 years old.

I stuck with him for about a year, waiting for him to do something about it. Either go to court and get a DNA sample or attempt to meet the kids or... something. Anything. But he sat around and did nothing. I had to call a lawyer for him. Finally, I woke up and just couldn't believe that he didn't know he had two children, so I broke it off.

One of my friends was giving me problems over this, saying that it wasn't his fault. Was I in the wrong? We had been together for two years.

2007-12-29 04:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by harperbrandyalexander 2

Do you think two people who are in a serious relationship should see if they are sexually compatible before thinking about getting married?

2007-12-29 04:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

2007-12-29 04:08:34 · 39 answers · asked by mj 1

real real short shorts & dresses, I think she about in her 30's.

Someone told her that she looks extremely nice in those real short clothes, but she doesnt know that they'r laughing at her behind her back. Saying really nasty things about her. But to her face they said, "oh you look like Beyonce or Chaka Khan", and she is believe these MEN.

They ve set-her up as they put it, "a clown". Should I tell her what these men are saying about her????

2007-12-29 03:57:08 · 36 answers · asked by jjewelzs 1

i like this guy hes so cute and we have never talked before but i ive seen him looking at me in that flirty way and i wanna break the ice so i can at least talk to him i onley see him at school and hes not in any of my classes i see him all the time inbetween classes HELP ME!!

2007-12-29 03:55:18 · 10 answers · asked by surferpunk321 1