I work with a guy and we call each other everyday, sometimes, its work related sometimes not. I do have feelings for him, but i consider him as friend. A friend who i confide in, he gives me good advice and also helps me alot at work. He is married and so do I. We have a special relationship. I want to buy him a present to show him how much I care. What should i get him?
2007-12-29 04:23:08 · 8 answers · asked by Michinha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please guys jus answer the question
2007-12-29 04:29:48 · update #1
hia jus get him a nice shirt of aftershave or something. i dont think its fair calling each other as you both have partners because your partners may take it a different way cause i know i would, but it your partner trusts you and you are faithful well then it does not matter. hope i helped.
2007-12-29 04:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are confusing the relationship. I only believe deep in you, you may have feelings for him that you are unaware of. I also have many good female colleagues. They also helped me many times. They also gave me good advice. But after work, it is home straight home. Through this, I could keep the peace and remain faithful to my partner.
I personally feel you should start keeping your distance from him. If you think you already have, you should keep a bigger distance. It doesn't sound quite right to me.
With regard to your present, you DON'T NEED to give him one. He is ONLY a helpful colleague.
2007-12-29 04:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sleuth! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, This is omair
As for your answer, just tell the guy straight that you like him and want to keep in touch and maintain a relationship in a limit, like it should not hurt the married life of either one of you.
Buy him a good nice tie, as a friendly gesture.
2007-12-29 04:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Omair N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh come off it ... a 'friendship?'....
It so obvious the two of you are having some sort of sleazy affair! Or are about to embark on it!
Looks like another divorce statistic for 2008! Or make that 2!
Lx
2007-12-29 04:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think your verging on an afair! and im not sure both your partners would aprove or like of the giving of presents!
2007-12-29 04:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by mince pie! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt buy him anything maybe a card to say thanks, but thats it. how would you like it if your husband's co worker bought him something? that would make you wonder about his faithfulness. and i dont think that you wanna break up a marriage and certainly not yours.
2007-12-29 04:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Niccole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something his wife wont see.
2007-12-29 04:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by projectg3000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy him a fragrance.
2007-12-29 04:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mr-Kay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋