real real short shorts & dresses, I think she about in her 30's.
Someone told her that she looks extremely nice in those real short clothes, but she doesnt know that they'r laughing at her behind her back. Saying really nasty things about her. But to her face they said, "oh you look like Beyonce or Chaka Khan", and she is believe these MEN.
They ve set-her up as they put it, "a clown". Should I tell her what these men are saying about her????
2007-12-29 03:57:08 · 36 answers · asked by jjewelzs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Don't say anything to her. She should know better then to wear clothing like that. She deserves it.
2007-12-29 04:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Telling her that would probably embarrass her and chances are she already knows. I guess the upside from telling her that is that she might stop wearing that stuff. I'm sure if you thought about it a little harder, you'd be able to come up with a more constructive way to get her to dress better.
Instead, why don't you try telling the guys at work that though you agree that she should not be wearing those clothes, you don't think it's right what they're doing to her. Tell them you think they're awful people for setting her up and lying to her like that and that they need to stop.
2007-12-29 04:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why not suggest that you think she would look nicer in something longer or something different? She wouldn't have to know how evil and wicked these people are. I just see no need to hurt her.
Obviously she is in need of approval. Ask her if you can go shopping with her as you have some neat ideas that would make her look really sharp.
I would sit on that nasty truth as long as I could - use it only as a last resort.
2007-12-29 04:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by pinky 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i were u i would go to the jerks that get there kicks off of making fun of here probally due to there LACK OF MANHOOD, be a better man and confront the jerks to layoff....of course its possible that the large woman doesnt care and has extremely high self esteem and would pass it off as the guys being the losers
its no ones business how she prefers to dress, she obviously likes to look that way....you could contact stacy on the tlc show what not to wear...she will hook her up then she can strut her stuff in front of these jerks while there tongues hang out there mouths......
2007-12-29 04:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Dave B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea man..thats pretty messed up
you guys should just tell her whats up
and that the short stuff isnt working so well.
2007-12-31 20:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by ╚»LaDy 0F GLaM«╝ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really hurt her if you tell her the truth, but I think she'll appreciate it. It also depends on how close you are...if not so close, maybe you could say something like don't wear short clothes, it might not be suitable to where you're going...
2007-12-29 04:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
yes thy have clothes for big women I know because my cuz. is 275 lbs. and she wheres sexey outfits 4 her size & she looks goooood take her shopen
2007-12-29 04:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by SUPER H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a life
2007-12-29 03:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
If these clothes make her feel good does it really matter?
Mind your business. If, and I say if, you want to approach anyone, talk to the people who are making comments about her.
2007-12-29 04:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I would tell her that these men are just not being nice and she shouldn't wear these clothes anymore. Don't tell her everything just let her know that they really don't think the clothes look good and try to get her to wear clothes that are more flattering.
2007-12-29 04:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
You didnt say what your relationship is with this woman.... if she is your sister you have no choice..... if she is a distance aquantaince, you need to ases the possable damage if she doesnt believe you. remember she would rather believ them since it is what she likes to hear....... aslso take into consiteration that if she is happy, let her be happy
2007-12-29 04:01:45 · answer #11 · answered by Joel 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋