my new man says he has never been able to *** when a girl stimulates him manually/orally.is that normal?

Answer 1

sorta of most men know how to manipulate their phallus organ to satisifcation. he can teach her how he wants it.

also performance anxiety maybe playing a part.

two-two has spoken

Answer 2

TOTALLY normal some guys are self conscious just like girls are and cannot *** when stimulated manually or orally. Also, some are really gentleman and will not unless she says to in her mouth or on her hand. reassure him you want that (if you do) and let him know it is ok! Keep reassuring him! Men love that, too!

Answer 3

Exactly what is "normal"?

The direct answer to your question is that it is not uncommon. Some guys will go off like a short-fused firecracker with only minimal stimulation of the type you mention. Others won't. Some consider it nothing more than a nice warm-up to the main event.

Unless you've convinced yourself that you must, without fail, get him off with your oral or digital techniques, then you shouldn't worry about it. Just enjoy whatever works!

Answer 4

It sounds such as you're blockading your complete take excitement in intercourse. you could no longer even use the word orgasm. and that i do no longer think of that some adult males are all that stricken if their better half does not come, except it makes them sense insufficient - which it many times does! What I propose is - it does not sound like your husband is that stricken, except you're faking of direction. the very undeniable fact which you're very almost coming yet no longer rather means which you're warding off excitement. possibly you're feeling in charge or embarrassed. the very undeniable fact which you almost get there shows that that's all working purely positive, and you purely have a sprint block it fairly is scuffling with you letting bypass.

Answer 5

Well, my bf took YEARS to be able to *** when getting oral sex. I dont know whether it is that I am doing it better now or he just is learning what he likes and doesnt like while I am performing oral sex to him. It was the same with me...it also took years for me to have a big O when he gave oral sex to me....I guess we are learning little by little. Ive never tried to masturbate him...it would probably take too long to make him ejaculate... I guess it can be somewhat normal. Maybe you should try to do different techniques while masturbating him or giving him oral sex.

Answer 6

If the girl doesn't do it right, then yes. I've only had three out of a lot of girls actually be able to make me ***, and when they do, it's better than sex.

Answer 7

My boyfriend used to be like that, its just that the guy has taught himself to hold it in as long as possible so it takes a while. That or he just can't trust a girl well enough. My boyfriend was like that, it took about a year for me to actually... um, fix it.

Answer 8

Maybe hes just used to the way he does it and isn't used to you.

But if it was me I wouldn't rest until I'd done it, I love a challenge and hate being told I can't do something :)

Answer 9

Your new man or your new "client?"

You sound like a real player there in which case it really doesn't matter since they are all just mere digits in your collection. You got some rare as well as common ones--just like any collector or "men" or women or both which ever the case may be.

Answer 10

Maybe he just doesn't have enough experience with it and can't relax enough to enjoy it. If you both like it I'd keep trying and it will probably happen. Then he'll really think you're special cause you were "the one" to make it happen.

Answer 11

Depends what he feels comfortable with. I've never *** solely through oral, but I have after manual.

He may just like his own hand, or be using it as an excuse to get into your knickers!