Singles & Dating - 29 December 2007

ok so this guy im really close with act like he likes me i mean he is always asking me to go with him to the movies, parties, or just to lunch or hang out, and he flirts with me all the time,
like one time we were sitting together sharing a blanket and he picked up my legs and put them on top of his and had his hands all over my legs and we were like cuddling but then his friends ask him oh do you like her and hes like no way, but then he keeps on doing these things! what the heck? can you help me/give some good advice please? should i move on to some one who will commit? or just go with it?

2007-12-29 20:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if there was a teacher about 39 years old, and he had a student in about grade 11, who was a virgin, and felt that she was madly in love with him, and wanted to have her first time with him, and wanted to be with him, is it ok for him to go for it?

of course right there your going to say... dude, thats illegal...

but here's the thing, wut if she was to die of heart problems ((for sure)) within a year or two, and love was one of those things that she wanted to succeed in and to have before she died.............. then would it make it ok for him to be with her to make her last bit of life her best? (if he had feelings for her of course!)

2007-12-29 20:39:20 · 4 answers · asked by Deviant Fish 3

Even though she is fat. People say I would look so much nicer if I lost weight. I like myself the way I am. Why don't they accept this? If a girl has a nice smile and a nice face, guys would you go out with her, especially if she had a sweet personality and was quiet and shy?

2007-12-29 20:28:07 · 11 answers · asked by Janina 1

2007-12-29 20:24:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

its kinda depressing, especially when you realize the decline in attention that starts to occur -.-'

2007-12-29 20:19:47 · 9 answers · asked by neffyiffy 2

I cant tell if im kinda cute, hot, etc. or plain ugly hahaha
But no really, i can take it. I'm fourteen, so no 40 year olds or 12 year olds because that wouldnt be accurate because i wouldnt be dating them. not my best pic, but not my worst. id say ive looked better minus the doofus smile haha

http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f380/SpeedyYoshi/1006072130.jpg

2007-12-29 20:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by quickshift 2

Here's how it works: I list some "types" of guys, and you reply with what you think of each type. Which is your favorite? Which is your least favorite? What do you like/dislike? OK--here we go! Assume all guys are attractive, kind, and intelligent. Have fun!

1. Nice Guy
2. Jock
3. Bad Boy
4. Strong Silent Type
5. Manly Man
6. Pretty Boy
7. Class Clown
8. Brain

2007-12-29 20:11:41 · 21 answers · asked by YearoftheRat 5

How do you feel when you find out that a white guy likes Asian girls? Do you worry that maybe he'll like you JUST because you're Asian, and not because you are who you are? Do you think that it's cool? Or do you just not care?

I ask because I'm white (ethnic Swede from the US), and for pretty much my whole life I've been into Asian women,
but I haven't made much of a mention to this to any girl I've met because I don't want her to think I'm some creepy, anime-watching guy who wishes that HE was Asian. I'm content with who I am, happy even. Friends of mine who are Asian women will say that they're stoked that they met a white guy who doesn't care that they're asian only to be pissed off that he doesn't respect their culture or will even insult it; ones who are stoked that they meet a guy who speaks their language and is culturally aware are freaked out when they discover he has a set of swords, has every anime on DVD and a stack of comics three feet high.

What's your take?

2007-12-29 20:08:26 · 13 answers · asked by Mysterious Racer P 7

if ur kissing ur boyfriend. and its not pecks but its a normal kiss,
will u loose air ?
will u like run out of air and breathe harder?

2007-12-29 19:54:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there any way out there possible?

2007-12-29 19:42:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months but there are a couple problems so i don't know if i should break up with him, i really like him but (1) his name is mackenzie so i get made fun of a lot by my friends because it is a "girl" name but he goes by mack (2) its been 5 months and we kissed once (only 2 weeks ago) and it was not romantic and it was really fast (3) he kissed another girl once before he kissed me while we were going out. he kissed her on a dare by his friend and i wasn't there but his freind told me cuz he was mad at him and it made me upset but when i finally asked him about it he at least admitted to it and said he was sorry but it still bothers me sometimes. So i don't know if we really have a working relationship, we talk on the phone and hangout all the time but it doesn't really feel like we're going out cuz he hasn't kissed me so i don't know what to do. Please help and only good answers please, not ones telling me i'm too young to worry about this

2007-12-29 19:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by gurlygurl 3

2007-12-29 19:31:01 · 5 answers · asked by CECELY M 2

About six months ago I made the mistake of cheating on my boyfriend. We weren't doing good, and he had been treating me pretty badly. I had talked to him about it, and he didn't change. I met someone at my job and we saw eachother for about two weeks until my boyfriend found out. YES, I know that this is one of the worst things I could do, but the way that my boyfriend reacted still bothers me to this day. The day that he found out, he took my body mirror out of my room and threw it off of our third floor balcony. He wrote "WH0RE" all over my pictures and all over the cereal boxes. He also called up the guy I had been seeing threatening to beat him up. Although I was the one in the wrong-the way he acted scares me. He also admitted to have been talking to another girl a few months before [although he never cheated on me]..To this day he says I deserved what he did. What do you think?

2007-12-29 19:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by jenn a 1

I am a 28 year old, single, straight, successful, independent, educated, male. I have a great job, which I am quitting soon to pursue a better one and/or more education, I have no financial worries as I live at home with my parents and other adult siblings. No rent! LOL! I am also pretty decent looking to boot! LOL! Am I too much of a perfect package or do people simply date and find love later in life. And no, I don't advertise this in real life, I know this seems arrogant, but I am just laying it all on the table for you to have the true story behind my situation! I know in the movies people date and even get MARRIED around my age, but that is largely fiction. Heck, I haven't even experienced my first kiss yet or even first girlfriend, so I know MOST people are lying when they say they have experienced real relationships at my age or before. An when people learn about my situation in life, they actually mock it? Why are they so jealous? Anyone else see this in their lives?

2007-12-29 19:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

over the stupidest things. I am getting really tired of it. We have been dating for 9 months and i really love her. What can i do.....i have tired talking to her about it she says that she will try her hardest to not make me mad(I am a very irratable person). Less than 5 minutes later she makes me mad again....(I would like a females opinion on this one)

2007-12-29 19:19:45 · 6 answers · asked by tu_chingas_mucho 1

I was out drinking with friends when they had to go home i stayed i was outside a club and they would not let me in becouse i was to drunk NOT couse i was onley 15 witch i found funny anyway i woke up the next day in someones house she was really hot she was from russia she had taken me off the street where i had passed out she thinks i am 18 and texts me she ask if i am going out clubing this weekend what should i tell her?

2007-12-29 19:16:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

so he'z dateing a f**ken whore and he knows that i luv him and we uesd to date but somethings came up and then we broke up . i told him i wanted to get back to gether after a few weeks cause my life way off track and i know he still luvs me and i really do luv him but i don't know what to do ..... help please!

2007-12-29 19:14:45 · 2 answers · asked by olivia c 1

okay two parts.
1. do guys prefer girls that are shy (like me) or ones that put themselves out there for sex or make out

and

2. do guys prefer a "chesty" girl or one that is considerably flat (like me)

in addition, judging by the info about me i just told you, shy and flat chested, what can i do to improve to attract a bf?? i appreciate all help!! :) o, btw, i am 14.

2007-12-29 19:11:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. This girl I really like, we were chatting.
And she told me about her first time.
She said that she didn't bleed so the guy thought that she was not a virgin.
But that it came out later when she was in the bathroom.
Has this ever happened to any other of you women out there?

I told her that I thought this happened because he probably had a very small one!!! :)

2007-12-29 19:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

been with my bf for almost 3 years. about 3 weeks ago we decided i should move in w/him (my apt lease is up in Feb) so i gave me apts my notice to move out. i have 3 girls part-time ages 8,6,and 5 that he's very close to (i'm 28). he's 29-no kids,never married or lived w/anyone.

over the past 2 weeks-the kids and i have been spending everyday/night there. we spent christmas at his sister's house.

tonite about 10 mins before i was supposed to leave for work-he tells me that he's not ready for us to move in!! I was SO upset. he said that he just needed more time to get used to the kids being around 24-7 and since work has been really stressful for him (which it has)-he hasn't had time to focus on getting used to them. i started to cry and got up to leave and he said he was sorry. i got so angry at him for waiting to tell me right before i had to go to work and he said there wasn't really a good time TO tell me. please read rest..important

2007-12-29 18:59:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright this isn't a question i had to get this outta my system

To the guy i like:
*you dont know i like you
*your eyes are amazing
*you're hilarious and can always make me laugh
*i want you, but i dont know how to tell you
*you're gorgeous by the way
*you need to check your email more
*i miss you even though you arent mine
*i need to make it more obvious that i like you

alright here's the question: HOW DO I TELL THIS GUY I'm CRAZY ABOUT HIM?

-he's in 2 of my classes
-we just finished a powerpoint together
-he asked me for my email
-he seems shy around me
-at a dance he caught my eye from across the room
-his friends asked if i like him

what do i do?

2007-12-29 18:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got it off a hair dryer.

2007-12-29 18:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by refuse2lose_2006 3

which one works best u think for couples?

2007-12-29 18:26:01 · 8 answers · asked by luhb u much!! 4

i know its legal lol, but do you think it is morally "correct" or morally "wrong"??

2007-12-29 18:15:58 · 33 answers · asked by ILoveGreen ZipZapZop 4

This is about dating and relationships.

2007-12-29 18:01:37 · 83 answers · asked by syl 2

see im 17 and i got pregnat how do i tell him and i think he'll freak out.

2007-12-29 17:59:15 · 20 answers · asked by Sirena G 1

don't you think it's frustrating that you'll never know if you bumped into that perfect person for you this morning? or if you brush past them every day before school/work, etc.
just want to see opinions.
it's something that really bothers me

2007-12-29 17:55:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

... I have seen him twice (hanging with mutual friends) & it has been totally platonic. I really, really felt a connection with him. He is a super nice guy but just went thru a divorce. So I have backed off & gave him his space. ProbIem is I can't stop thinking about him ... i think about him like every day. I haven't felt like this about anybody in a while. I think he may like me but then it may have just been a hook up for him. I want to pursue something with him but am afraid that its too soon for him, or that he may not feel the same. But then what if he does? I've been dating other guys recently but none of them make me feel like that. I just keep thinking of him. I've been trying to just push my feelings aside & see what happens in the future but it doesn't seem to be working. Is a hook up just a hook up and am I being silly to think of it as more? It felt like there was an emotional connection. Too naive? Should I just talk to him about my feelings? If so what should i say? HELP

2007-12-29 17:27:36 · 12 answers · asked by michelle s 1

My lover just told me that our light has run out of energy and I cant bare the thought of being without him!!! I would rather die than lose him, so what should i do??? Should i jump off a roof or something???? Have i done something wrong??? HELLLLLLLLLPPPPPPP?!?!?!?!?!?!?????!?!?!?!

2007-12-29 17:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl i've been seeing won't give me a ******** without a condom coz i've slept with a lot of people. she is scared of getting an std even though i think i'm clean. this has never happened to me. is she weird or is wearing a condom during fellatio quite common? lemme know...

2007-12-29 17:25:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous