I am a 28 year old, single, straight, successful, independent, educated, male. I have a great job, which I am quitting soon to pursue a better one and/or more education, I have no financial worries as I live at home with my parents and other adult siblings. No rent! LOL! I am also pretty decent looking to boot! LOL! Am I too much of a perfect package or do people simply date and find love later in life. And no, I don't advertise this in real life, I know this seems arrogant, but I am just laying it all on the table for you to have the true story behind my situation! I know in the movies people date and even get MARRIED around my age, but that is largely fiction. Heck, I haven't even experienced my first kiss yet or even first girlfriend, so I know MOST people are lying when they say they have experienced real relationships at my age or before. An when people learn about my situation in life, they actually mock it? Why are they so jealous? Anyone else see this in their lives?
2007-12-29 19:24:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know tons of folks that were married and had multiple kid by your age.
Because you're not capable of having a relationship doesn't mean the rest of the world isn't either.
You may have things going for you, (good for you), but if you try to impress a woman with the fact you have no rent, (yea, babe, I live with my parents........), expect them to RUN!!
I wish you luck in life, but you need to go out and live it as an adult. (you know, living on your own, having a relationship.....)
By the way, they aren't jealous, they just have not basis to relate to you, (just as you have no basis to relate to them, if you question this, read your question and the majority of the answers...........)
Luck
2007-12-29 19:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say man but your bitter perspective towards those that HAVE experiance REAL realtionships before age 30, even before age 20!
Im 21, student, never had a GF, dont want a GF b/c I have other things I want to pursue 1st.
I say GET OUT OF YOUR PARENTS HOUSE.
you've done the smart thing and stayed @ home to save $, you are 28. get out and be individual.
next thing: you go to this site thedatingwizard.com and have a read.
then realise you're warped perspective and begin finding the woman of your dreams.
2007-12-29 19:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by roll ova rova 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! that is not normal to be 28 and never even experience you first kiss. That usually happens in the teen years. You need to change something or you'll end up like the 40 year-old virgin. And have fun with that.
2007-12-29 19:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand maximum of my acquaintances who married youthful divorced interior 5 years. i grow to be certainly one of those. i stumbled on genuine love, my soul mate, etc.. quickly after. we've been married now over 20 years and are nevertheless very plenty in love. the very undeniable fact which you're nevertheless residing at domicile could turn off some females, (continually point out which you're saving for a house) possibly it may help to lease a place with a sibling. you assert you're valuable and knowledgeable, which says you're working or in college alot. attempt volunteering to coach to fulfill females. You in no way understand, she could prefer help with a topic you're good at! you besides mght asked why they're so jealous which says you're content textile in the place you're at for now, yet searching for exchange...do no longer complication approximately assembly the acceptable one, whilst the time is physically powerful, she'll be there and so will you! good success! =)
2016-11-26 20:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by picart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married by age 23. Had my first real boyfriend (not playing around or kid stuff) at 19. I have no friends or acquaintances who made it to your age before being in a relationship, if not married (with kids!)
I think your point of view is somewhat skewed.
2007-12-29 19:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You knowing that the situation narrated seems arrogant is correct.
2007-12-29 19:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not jealous. They're laughing at your lazyness and inability to take care of yourself. One day your mom will die and then who will do your laundry and cook your meals?
2007-12-29 19:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm....rare breed.... care to email?.....he he he he
well, granted its all true then congratulations for not falling prey to peer pressure. Smart *** u are for standing up to your principles. Now, its time to get some ka-booze... *&^%$#@ wink&*+%^$#@wink
2007-12-29 19:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people are just different....do u get a lot of negative comments about it? nothing wrong with it!!!
2007-12-29 19:29:29 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋