What do guys prefer?

Question

okay two parts.
1. do guys prefer girls that are shy (like me) or ones that put themselves out there for sex or make out

and

2. do guys prefer a "chesty" girl or one that is considerably flat (like me)

in addition, judging by the info about me i just told you, shy and flat chested, what can i do to improve to attract a bf?? i appreciate all help!! :) o, btw, i am 14.

Answer 1

I'm a guy who is 14 and I have a girl friend who is flat chested and a little shy but i still love her more tan any one. (we have been going out for 2 months) she first came on to me by talking then she came out and told me she liked me and we started going. i learned to talk to her with ease but i have to admit it was awkward at first.Now after 2 months we make out all the time. so if a guy likes you just for your chest you relation ship is not going to last and if you pick up good vibes frome toe one you like tell him you like him and i know how hard it is but do it.

Answer 2

it all comes down to preference.
What is attractive to a guy depends on 3 things:

1) cultural influence ie we are socially conditioned by the media and culture that blonds are hotter.
which is not true (most guys will find blonds more attractive- almost every woman that has dyed her hair blond can tell you the difference in attention she recieved.

2) preference:
I like women who arent just thin, but work out because 1) its more attractive, and 2) it shows that she has a healthy self concept and lifestyle.
I like girls that are confident, IF A GIRL IS FULL-ON SEX AND MAKING OUT I *WILL* question how healthy she is emotionally, since most girls that just put out like that have low selfesteem and are insecure - very very unattractive.

and finally 3) biological: basically, this is the whole hip-to-waist ratio (dont worry about this, you're hitting puberty, so you're womanly curves are just coming out.

DONT be easy.
but also DONT be that so so shy girl that it makes it difficult for the guy to talk to yo - approaching you women is tough enough!!!

MY advice is that you take advantage of the male brain: we like the female form. Im NOT saying and DO NOT take responsiblity for what ever diet or exercise program you take, but I KNOW (because IM a DUDE) that if she has a nice body, she will get more attention.

but most important of all DONT BE SO FORWARD for SEX and MAKING OUT because all you will attract are the kind of guys that WILL break you heart.

Answer 3

ok I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm telling u that it doesn' t matter. Different guys like different kinds of girls. Yeah sure, if u offer to make out with any guy that walks by u'll certainly get more attention but not nessrsarily a lasting relashionship. Just keep being who u r and eventually u'll meet a guy who is perfect for u. U don't need to anything to improve ur chances I'm into shy btw :)

Answer 4

OK
Take it from a male point of veiw


1. I dont really care, the fact that your shy maybe unattatractive so be friendly, get talking, but dont put yourself out there, some of us dont like the girls what come on too strong, makes them look like total sluts.

2. I personally dont care, breast size is least of the things but i have to admit a decent size breast for me, is just like a handful, having HUGE boobs isnt attractive. Not all guys care about the breast size if they truely love you.

im also 14 :)

Answer 5

guys are much more shallow than girls, but despite that they are shallow about different things. Some guys prefer specific types of girls. I think most guys prefer a girl who is not completely quiet, who are able to communicate socially. And I don't think any guys like flat girls, but if the rest of your body is pretty slim and you have a nice figure, lots of guys will like that.

Answer 6

Do not worry about your body type. You would want a boyfriend to like you for your personality not just your body. And shy girls are fine. I'm one and I'm ok. Also I think a lot of guys get tired easily of girls who "put out" easy. You're fine. Don't worry.

Answer 7

Shy girls seem more innocent which is cute to me, cause i dont know who they really are inside ;) thats how i view it. If you want to find more bf's you can just be more outgoing. Not like, the girls who use their bodies, but use your mind. Be witty and funny and be outgoing is a major part in all of it.

Answer 8

well most guys will just want one thing so i would watch out but it depends on the guy some will only go out with u if u have boobs others will go out with u just cause they love being with u and dont care if you are flat chested

Answer 9

meh shy girls wont get anywhere same with guys (like me lol) im 14 too =o

i dont know really it depends how flat chested and if your short and cute

girls that put themself out too much are just slags with hiv

Answer 10

all guys are different in everyway,its the right one you choose that'll stand out the most from all other guys..be who you are and dont try to change anything about you coz the time for growing boobs will come and being shy is ok,im shy but i'v got someone really special and loving who loves me for me!!so you too will get that special someone of yours,when its time ok...dont rush it-guys will notice you for being yourself rather than trying to be someone you cant be!your guy will come to you,just wait and see!!