With three kids my husband and I have needed a little more us time so we are planning to book a cruise for "us" time. With me being a huge romantic and my husband not he actually said he wanted to plan a romantic getaway. My mind got lost in thoughts of endless sex and white sandy beaches. Now he tells me he is planning on inviting other couples. I agree everything is always more exciting with friends, but I am not sure they fit in my vision of a romantic getaway. Is it ok for me to ask for him to have a romantic trip alone or am I being too boring just wanting to spend 4 days reconnecting in every which way possible?
2007-12-29 05:10:07 · 14 answers · asked by Doll_Partz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that wouldnt be the "us" time you wanted
2007-12-29 05:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by loves brown eyes♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I totally relate..married almost 15 years..5 kids and hubby and I are also planning a romantic getaway for a week. Finding something we agree on is the trouble. I want quiet, relaxing maybe a cabin on a lake while he likes that idea he thinks he will get cabin fever and bored. We threw up the option of taking another couple to hang out with and such. I told him I want to be alone with him. No kids, no friends just he and I. Someday our kids will be all grown and we are going to be alone together and we are going to have a tough time of it if we can not be happy if we are alone together. So anyway we decided on a cabin on a lake in the Adirondacks so there are things to do if he gets cabin fever yet still quiet and relaxing if we choose and no friends.
2007-12-29 13:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by now_finally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go with the other couples. You can still break away for a few hours each day for private time to reconnect and have 6-8 hours each night alone together to sleep and or have crazy wild passionate beach sex. He can enjoy a few hours of "guy time" and you ladies can sit on the beach and tan together. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so when he finally gets back from a 2 hour session of golf (para-sailing, or whatever other "guy" things he wants to do that you wouldn't necessarily be down for) all sweaty and tan you can jump his bones since you'll probably be ultra horny.
2007-12-29 13:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by thegrassisbrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, it seems that if he was planning the cruise to spend time with you he wouldnt be thinking about inviting friends
just tell him you wanted to spend time alone, and he should understand (do this BEFORE he invites anybody)
2007-12-29 13:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by mushy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't understand that w/ only U 2 it would be the U time you wanted! find out if he plans on mixing? :~)
2007-12-29 13:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by shastacat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know ID want as much time alone with my girlfriend as possible. i agree with you. it should be time just for the two of you
2007-12-29 13:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by AHMED A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know ID want as much time alone with my girlfriend as possible. i agree with you. it should be time just for the two of you
2007-12-29 13:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by <provo> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-12-29 14:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by All the age a lek y 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him the truth you want to spend time alone with him.that's call communication lol.if you could say that on yahoo!Answer well you could tell him what you like and talk about it.good luck.
2007-12-29 13:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, goodness no, what is he thinking. To be alone in paradise, that is perfect for a couple !
2007-12-29 13:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gust wear a sexy underwear and tell him that u wanna him in bed advanture
2007-12-29 19:57:02 · answer #11 · answered by deeds not words 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋