Eventhough she knows I have a girlfriend. She says that she won't tell and that I can sneak over as often as I want. She says we can even have a baby together if I want to. I don't know because she keeps calling. What should I do?
2007-12-29 04:30:25 · 23 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude do what you want but do not have a baby with her. remember to wear protection, if you choose to have sex with her, because you dont know if she has any STDs. also having a baby with her would just piss off your current gf so you'd lose her for this other girl.
id say if you must, wear a condom.
if you dont feel you have to, then dont!
2007-12-29 04:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you f*ing serious, dude. The ONLY reason you have the guts to come on here & ask such a thing is because no one knows who you are, which makes you a coward!
AND, considering that you are even contemplating this, makes you a potential cheater. Do you have a conscience?
How would it make you feel if you were to find out that your girlfriend was sneaking over to some guys house to have sex & got pregnant with his baby.
The other girl (CLEARLY YOUNG) wants to have a baby for whatever (IMMATURE) reason & she WILL trap you by getting pregnant on purpose. Trust me, I know, because I got pregnant on purpose when I was 15 years old. My intention was not to trap the guy, just to get the love I was not getting from my family.
You are playing a very dangerous game with more than one life & if you do this with the sneaky girl, you WILL be VERY sorry.
2007-12-29 12:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you wanna cheat on your girlfriend? And make a girl a mommy? Wow gosh your a jerk.
Say no! You know i think this girl is really wanting some attention. Tell her that YOU WON'T cheat on your girl. Maybe you should just be a light friend... don't ever go to her house,,, see her at big gatherings.
You know i think you should think about this- if she's immature about sex she'll be stinker of a mom.
And of course she's gonna tell everyone and there grandma.
2007-12-29 12:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by klarebear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games with you. She is clearly jealous of your girlfriend and the relationship you have. By offering secret sex she is simply trying to prove to herself that she is more desirable and has more control over you. The fact that you are considering this means you need to have a serious look at your relationship and where it is going. You need to sort that out before getting involved in anyone else. To be honest this girl sounds like a tramp. She is using sex and ridiculous promises to snare you knowing full well someone else is going to get hurt by her actions. Is this really the sort of person you want in your life?
2007-12-29 12:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by * * Princess * * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay... first of all any human who wants to have yor child should be evaluated by a professional .she is trying to steal yoo away from yor current girl. decide who is best in the long run and who will take better care of yoo and yor child because if yoo decide to make life with her "she will always be there" PERMANENTLY till yoo die or she expires!!! only have children when yoo know that the mother or father isnt a LOOSER!!! dont get caught up in "feelings and sh*t" keep fuking girls till yoo cant get it up no more then get one pregnant!!! wait till yoo are ready for kids
2007-12-29 17:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by knobulation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might think that sex is a way to keep you from your girlfriend, and if she wants a baby with you.. then I think she might have some SUPER strong feelings for you!!
If you don't have feelings for her, i suggest you run away, and change your number because that is not a healthy situation.
If you do like her, end the relationship with your girlfriend now. Because cheating isn't nice.
2007-12-29 12:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I believe that this woman could possibly be setting you up for disaster. DONT BE A VICTIM! First of all, that's considered cheating -point-blank- if you love your girlfriend...dont cheat on her. Second, do you even know this woman well enough?---if you dont know her history----dont put your health at risk. Third, change your number or dont answer when she calls.
2007-12-29 12:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU UNHAPPY WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND ? IF YOU ARE, THEN YOU SHOULD TRY AND WORK OUT THE PROBLEMS YOU HAVE WITH YOUR WOMAN. IF THAT DOESN'T WORK OUT, THEN PERHAPS YOU NEED TO MOVE ON. EITHER WAY THAT SNEEKING OVER AND HAVING A BABY STUFF IF JUST A RECIPE FOR DISASTER.... ESPECIALLY FOR A BABY TO BE IN A MESSED UP SITUATION LIKE THAT. I KNOW IT'S TEMPTING BUT DON'T DO IT! RESOLVE YOUR SITUATION WITH YOUR WOMAN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER!
2007-12-29 12:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by THE ONE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is crazy. She is not even with you and she is willing to have a baby with you? I would stay away from her. As soon as you get over there, she will blackmail you into leaving your GF or let your GF know to ruin your relationship so she can have you for herself.
2007-12-29 12:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by whowhat? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think she may be desperate cuz she should find her own man and then second of all Don't have a baby GOD thats one of the worst mistakes you will make at your age wait until you are ready.
P.s.
Be smart =)
2007-12-29 12:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by Angel M 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋