I just turned 18 a few weeks ago, and he just turned 23. We have known eachother for about 4 years, and have been really good friends, and we have been dating for about 6 months. He is stationed in Cali, and I live in New York. We are from the same town, that's how we know each other. So anyway, he is here on vacation, and his friend Stephanie flew up from North Carolina to see him for a week, and he is here for only a week. He says he has to hang out with her on New Years because she has no one, but we planned this vacation for us. I feel like she is invading, and I don't feel like I am over-reacting. He got here today, and we hung out, and she flies in tomorrow. She leaves the 5th, he leaves the 6th. So far, he is spending every single day with her, and only coming out here on the 2nd. Am i wrong for feeling like she is invading and am I wrong for being angry?
2007-12-29 15:22:08 · 1 answers · asked by Celia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what should i say to him?
2007-12-30 14:17:29 · update #1
He should have told his friend he'd love to see her but he only has a week and has to spend most of it with his girlfriend. I think they are both being insensitive, she for taking up the whole week and he for allowing it. I would be more than upset; I'd be hard put to continue the relationship if he's this considerate of her and so inconsiderate of you..
2007-12-29 15:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋