Did i screw up?? ((Guys plz ))?

Question

Ok, so am in high school. I met his guys and we became frinds for a year now. I want you to understand that he like-alomost the cutest guy in the skool ( small school) and he kind of cokc. Any way, through last year he atced like a complete jerk at times. and this year i just had enough so i wrote hime this letter sayiing EVERTHING that i dilike about him. Alos, my mother called his mom saying that i've been crying over him. And not onl that but he has a gilrfriend who is in a highrer grade who now think s that am jealous out her( but am really not) and not only that but i use to have sort of a lil crush on him..now we barely talk but i dont want this tension between us to be there. Plus i kno w that he's one of those guys who like guys casing after him..but i just regret doing what i said and rightnow i dont know what to do :(. What do you think is going on in his mind. His mom said that in his house he aslways talks about me too..i dont know how to take that

Answer 1

you might talk to him and find out. he would talk to you since he talks about you. get some things straightened out wouldn't hurt any.

Answer 2

It's weird... It's not your fault because all you did was write to him telling him that he was being a jerk. Now it's on HIM if he decides to take it as it is and change for the better or stay the same. And as for your mom calling his mom, you guys must be really close to your parents for you guys to be that open about things. That's cool i guess, since you can go to your mom for advice or help on anything that is troubling you. But that's just a bit too weird for me. If he has a gf already then he is just thinkig of you as a friend. Don't put too much thought into it. Unless he says something that will make you think that you like him or acts a certain way.

Answer 3

dont complicate it he has a girl so relax if he wants to ask you out cool but if not just be friendly and stop getting upset look around maybe if you go to a movie with someone else he could suddenly see you as a girl friend ,get it right now you could be his back up plan if the other girl isnt cool

Answer 4

Make up your mind and stop pretending that you don't like him, unless your one of those dopey girls that are a sucker for bad boy jerks then there's no point giving you advice

Answer 5

sounds like he likes you, dont feel bad about what you did although I admit that was a bit odd, it will work out for the best in the end I am sure

Answer 6

well that kinda sounds like he has a thing for you, and just is keeping his gf cause he doesnt know how to tell her, hey i am leaving you for another girl. i guess he just doesnt want to hurt her like that. but that remark form his mom is a definite, yes he likes you. in my book

Answer 7

hi steven here from ireland no you did not screw it up move on dont think about it for another second move on and dont try to be right just be you

Answer 8

ok what you need to do is tell him what you think instead of letters and don't cry about it it will just make things worse

Answer 9

well that seems pretty tough...
he probably thinks your hot and he likes you but doesnt know what to do!'
so be nicer to him but not to niceso he wont suspect you.
then finally ask him out when you think he likes you back!

Answer 10

he is thinking that you like him a lot.

your mom may have goofed when she called. but more than likely she was trying to help.


a question for you:

if he told you he liked you and wanted you to be his girlfriend would you have said yes or no?? please email me.