First of all thanks for taking an interest. Second of all - this doesn't have naything to do with me, but my bestie. There is this guy that i believe she likes, even though she's uncertain herself. The only reason she doesn't want to accept it is because she is afraid of getting hurt, because believe me, you don't want to fall for a guy like him. I think, despite the fact he can't stop dissing her he actually does like her. It's like whenever she's around he tries to be cool, loud..NOTICABLE! He is not the usual 'nice' guy, but when she is around he tries to be slightly more mannered and less pimpish. It's like whenever she's not in the room you see him sorrounded by girls and enjoying their company, but when she walks in the room he chucks them away. What i think, is that he doesn't want to accept the fact that someone as cool/bad/popular (whatever you call it) as him, has fallen for a generally nice girl, and the only way he can show his feelings is by hurting her. Any thoughts?
2007-12-29 14:32:55 · 7 answers · asked by iLOVEhugs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not that.
You don't choose who you fall for.
Sometimes it can be rather strange and unexpected.
2007-12-29 14:43:00 · update #1
Jus't don't say it;s abuse.
BECAUSE IT'S NOT!
I'm sure your parents used to spank you as kids.
Doesn't mean they hated you, did it?
They only wanted YOU to be better people.
So see, someone pain is love. (Y)
You should only see the way he acts around her..
..nothing else.
2007-12-29 14:48:26 · update #2
Ahaha XD
Excuse the typo.
I meant sometimes ^^
2007-12-29 14:49:05 · update #3
i have had this happen to me. i c a guy noticed him b-4 he noticed me and i saw who he really is but somehow fell for him b/c he waz sweet to me. i would tell ur frined that if hes trying to stand out to u then play a little hard to get. somehow make him wonder if shes notices him. make him wanna walk up to her and talk with her. and by doing this u can also c if he really likes her b/c if he dose then her just taking a quick look at him with a smile as she walks past will make him wonder and take a chance and talk to her. thats wat i did and somehow i fell for the guy and is currently dating him.
2007-12-29 14:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The only way he can show his feelings is by hurting her", would you want to be with someone like that? Tell your friend to have more respect for herself and move on.
2007-12-29 20:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, people have been emotionally hurt and sometimes they don't know how to express their feelings.
BUT a question for a question...
Why would you/she want to like, or have a relationship w/ someone who doesn't know how to treat you right?
Please dont say she thinks he'll change they never do!
2007-12-29 14:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by SARAH W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend deserves better. Tell her anyone who can only show their feelings by hurting her is not worth it. She can do much better. Good luck to her.
2007-12-29 14:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer... no. If u love someone , u don't want to see them hurt. She should probably stay away from him
2007-12-29 14:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what I think is this man is showing sign of abuse. that she should not be with him if he is rude to her now it will get wroste if he has a lot of women around then he still will when their together
2007-12-29 14:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by no1peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e.g! some shy people get over being shy by being rude and aggressive!
2007-12-29 14:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋