either sex can answer...?

Question

guys- what do u look for in women?
gals- what can i do to show my crush i like him?

Answer 1

I'm a guy. I look for the ability to hold an intelligent conversation and decent looks. Even for a short-term relationship, the conversation is important because even if we DID have sex, it wouldn't last ALL night. (We would have at least a LITTLE "down" time, if you get my drift.)

For long-term relationships, I would listen to the girl talk. If she sounds like a valley girl with too many "I was like.... and he was like...." instead of "I said..." and "he said ...." - that is a total turn-off. I can endure lots of things but if I had to endure a long-term relationship with a chowderhead, I would probably want to puke.

Understand, I'm not talking about "current events" or "politics" or anything heavily technical. I just sometimes want to talk to someone in a way that isn't going to end up in bed instantly.

Short term, there is always duct tape, I guess.... (Just kidding.)

Answer 2

you could spend more time together and drop some hints with out being to desperate that helped me