I mean think about it, do they not know or realise from analysing other rships tht if they had chosen the nice guy in the beginning they wouldnt be in this mess with possible their luggage (kids, financial woes)...? Why didnt they choose the nice guys first?
2007-12-29 14:26:50 · 14 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cuz nice guys are usually shy...its only the jerks that are forward and outgoing...but theyre usually the ones who dont care for women in the end and end up cheating on their girlfriends...but they have what younger women think they want at the start...theyll figure it out in a few years...just go for older women...they're more experienced in bed anyway
2007-12-29 14:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by kinsact 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of women do choose nice guys first...a lot of women never choose bad boys at all...be careful about making generalizations and realize that just because a dude is a 'nice guy' doesn't imply a relationship with him won't end with "luggage" just as it can with a bad guy.
Being a nice guy doesn't mean a guy is perfect, nor that he and any particular woman will be a good match forever. There are no guarantees.
2007-12-29 22:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't recognize the difference in the beginning. They fall for a guy not being mindful of their level of kindness until they've been hurt by a similar group of guys. Then they open their eyes and look deeper beyond the external stuff that causes them to feel. In other words they get wiser and think with both mind and heart and make choices in love rather than falling.
2007-12-29 22:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it but i know i wont make that mistake...i am going for the nice guy from the beginning cause i am smart and have self-respect
everyone has to learn somehow and for some people the only way to learn is to make mistakes in the first place
2007-12-29 22:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason guys dump nice girls for girls who put out then settle down after college.
2007-12-29 22:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard this once: Girls love to date men that they think that they can improve on, as if it was their god-given task. If the guy has nothing to improve on then there is no reason to date them."
They start to date the good guys after they realize it is more difficult to improve the bad ones.
2007-12-29 22:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because before you're ready to settle down you look at the guys who are in the top of the pack - the popular jerks - and thats who they date because its all about status.
2007-12-29 22:30:10 · answer #7 · answered by Virginia Chic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most of life's lessons are learned the hard way. Hands on.
2007-12-29 22:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ravë Øñ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the realize they need to be treated better and find better than what their last mate was
2007-12-29 22:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tigress1208 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz in life, we'll always meet the bad ones before we know how to appreciate the good ones..
2007-12-29 22:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by paris_asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋