he also hasn't been talking to me like he used. Should I just ignore this and wait for the busy holidays to pass, and see if it fixes after we're back into normal schedules and give him space right now? Or does it seems like he's trying to break away? I really want things to work out, but I don't wanna keep nagging him to hang out.
2007-12-29 14:11:40 · 10 answers · asked by jennyyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and he has been trustworthy so far, give him some space. My son has a girlfriend that is calling all the time and worrying him to death and ruining their relationship because she won't allow him to have time to take care of stuff like having his car fixed, going on appointments (like ortho), and even his work. He really cares for her but her actions are totally obnoxious. He really IS trying to take care of obligations that require his attention and it isn't that he doesn't want to see her. She is really blowing it with her jealousy, whining and nagging though. Example: his car broke down and she called about 10 times that night complaining about the fact that "he promised he'd come see her that night". She didn't try to have any other conversation - just kept calling back to whine and complain at him. He could not help the situation! He most likely is caught up in a span of "everyday situations" and things will level out in the cycle of things in a few weeks.
2007-12-29 14:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by KDHaroundtown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's busy with someone else. My bf could never tell me he misses me and he won't even find time to see me i would kick his sorry BUTT to the curb. Further more if he doesn't even talk to me like he use to he's sending me a memo which is saying I FOUND SOMEONE ELSE. Sorry if i may sound harsh but that's reality MEN ARE DOGS they will always be dogs. So b4 he breaks up with you, you break up with him if you feel that's the right thing to do. Nag him if you have to let him know that is either he finds time for you or your going to leve his sorry BUTT. BE STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-29 14:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he is distancing himself so it is easier to break it off. You need to show him your better qualities and why he is going out with you in the first place. If he has just forgotten the love you guys share then he will act normal after you remind him of that love. If he still seems distant than go on with your life, chances are you will find somebody way better!
2007-12-29 14:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by khutchpw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a little faith in him, but if you think youre just setting up for heartbreak, then be careful....give it a little time...dont take it too personally as of right now...when you want to hang out, ask something like this, "are you still too busy to hang out?"
Give him a little patience, but don't set yourself up to get hurt
2007-12-29 14:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by sexyfingernails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gve him time maybe he is busy coz the holidays and other stuff....then after the holiday maybe u guys talk and back to normal again...
wish u all the best...wait until he calls u...
2007-12-29 14:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by capricorn girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying new territory and wants to keep you on the line in case this new adventure doesn't work out.
2007-12-29 14:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes actually telling the truth give him a few days and if his attitude changes then ur good if not then i would leave him unless he gives u a good reason not to
2007-12-29 14:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait till the holidays pass then see wut happens. I mean he could be just busy with that. But if things are just getting worse then you need to talk to him seriously
2007-12-29 14:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. If i were u I'd hire a private investigator to see if he's cheating
2007-12-29 14:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I lke a girl, I will make time to talk to her. If I don't care, i make excuses.
2007-12-29 14:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by sarin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋