Ok, so i really like this boy, right??? idk, when he has a girlfriend, he goes all the way. he gets attached, when they break up with him, he is like a sad puppy. His gf just broke his heart, my best friend likes him too (theres no jealousy, we are still bestfriends, it wont get between us, weve talked about it) so, i know that he is very ... fragile right now. my other friend, allie, comforts him, and i am afraid that he will start to lean on her becuase she is there for him. i have tried to console him, but allie seems to one-up me. i know she doesnt like him, but she is a shameless flirt. she is giving him the wrong idea, and i dont want him to go wiht it and get led into a false trap! i really like him, and allie is just always there for him, and it makes me feel like i cant help him at all. HELP!
2007-12-29 14:41:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your friend aside one day and ask her if she likes him. If she says "no", tell her you think she's going to give him the wrong idea. Simple, right? Something else you might try is getting the guy's number if you don't have it already. Then you can arrange a meeting outside of school or something where Allie can't interfere. Good luck!
2007-12-29 14:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL what a mess people create for themselves! Now don't get me wrong Im not saying you created it, but all the otehr obviously did!Life is so much more simpler than what people make it out to be. Insted of trying to be their for hima nd get his attention and worry about the compition, just fkn go to him and say look Im tired of you acting like a weiner and getting over attached to girls who dont care about you and dump your *** and leave a sad sad wreck of what should be a man. Seriously put your foot down, then express your feelings for him and all should be well. Anyone else is going to feed you the awwwwwwww wblah blah blah! Screw all the sappy crap that gets you nowhere but hurt. be real about this (unlike most people) and just go do what needs to be done. then and only then will you truly be happy. remember if you spend all your time wondering what couldve been, youll be missing out on what shouldve been.....
2007-12-29 14:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by I Love Me a Freakin Good Burrito 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know he is in a fragile stage but tell him how you feel, just tell him " I know what you are going through but I wanted to say that I really like you.. If you don't want to try anything (girlfriend and boyfriend wise) then I would totaly understand.. I thought I would just tell you and whenever you need a shoulder to lean on, come to me and I'll be glad to help you.." Then give him a big smile and see how he respones..
Hoped I helped!
2007-12-29 14:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by amcfemale 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-20 08:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Allie is your friend then you should be able to confront her with one side of the problem. That would prevent him from being hurt by Allie.
2007-12-29 14:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Allie to lay off him a little bit. Tell him she can still help him, but don't make him think she's there for him all the time.
2007-12-29 14:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hav u talked to ur friend allie......cuz if u dont she is just going to keep doing it tell her to mabe giv u some tips if ur that shy mabe she can help u out but i hav to make sure u talk to over the fone or something and tel her how u feel cuz if u dont u very well just get over him. (hope u get him!)
2007-12-29 14:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know.
Well if Allie's your friend then maybe talk to her about it if you haven't already.
Just casually tell her, if you want to.
Otherwise, just keep trying and trying.
I mean there's no other way.
If all else fails just tryyy to find another guy, but I know it's really hard when you like them a lot.
Hope that helps :]
2007-12-29 14:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by SistaFromAnothaMista 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all, he is obviously in an unstable mind set as of now...
You Should give him time to clear his mind and rid himself of the his Ex...don't be the "rebound" chick...let him be and disregard your friends flirty personality, you said so yourself that she doesn't like him, so she's obviously not going to "steal" him from you...
be there, show him you care...and wait it out...
good luck!
2007-12-29 14:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to him right now, if his gf just broke his heart getting into another relationship will most likely just be rebounding; which is never good.
2007-12-29 14:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Ravë Øñ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋