...if you stumble across his myspace page and a bunch of his "friends" are porn stars and 22 year old hot chicks from the other side of the country that he doesn't know but flirts with telling them how hot they are? I have nothing against porn by the way but c'mon who does that? I had to laugh but now that I think about it I kind of lost some respect for him. Don't think that's the kind of person I'd want to be dating...I feel like he's an internet creep now! lol. None of my guy friends and brothers are like that on myspace so...what do you think? Is this guy a weirdo? btw he is 35.
2007-12-29 14:30:24 · 16 answers · asked by Shera 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know, I know. I am no longer interested in this guy. But I literally burst out laughing when I saw what he was doing on myspace because..who does that?? Thank God I found out now!
2007-12-29 14:39:27 · update #1
he sounds like a perv that has to use the internet to meet women or people
2007-12-29 14:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by kinsact 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FACTS:
1. He's only interested in you for one thing.
2. You have nothing against porn, yet you lose respect for him because he has porn actress myspace friends.
3. You don't think he's someone you want to date.
4. He's 35, and you're probably 16.
Take the facts and find your answer.
2007-12-29 22:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i 1st read ur question, I thought he was like a teenager who is horny and has nothing better to do ...... but heck, a 35-year-old man should be more mature and cares more about his career than doing this crap on myspace ... This is not weird, some ppl r like that. Those kinds of guys dun wanna grow up to be a real man .... and you should not be dating him .... he is not a good type of boyfriend !
2007-12-29 22:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 35 and still interested in myspace, he is definitely immature. Creepy too - what normal, rational, 35 year old man would bother with that kind of interaction? All 35 yo men I know are entirely more interested in the real thing than what myspace has to offer. I'd stay away, plenty of more fish in the sea my dear. Set your sights higher. :)
2007-12-29 22:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by pumbakitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone like that. He has a myspace with the same kind of friends... and u know what, all he is is a wannabe... u know want to be cool etc.. He's probably a lonely ol loser, that has no real life..
2007-12-29 22:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his character doesn't scream itself out at you, I would definitely say you are smart in asking for a good judge of character. Unfortunately, the definition of character isn't what it used to be...when men used to not cheat on their wives (and the other way around and when men sacrificed their desires for the good of their wife and children. I can guarantee you that this guy would cheat on you, most likely divorce you or dump you, and continually place himself above you, his children and his family. He sounds like he has no moral compass. Yes, I sound judgemental, but the question asked for a judge of character, and it doesn't take a genius to see red flags (or can I say blaze orange flags the size of Texas) here. There are good men out there that try to keep their minds clean so that they aren't tempted away from their wives and families. What kind of man do you want? Set your standards high and refuse to give in. Meanwhile, have high standards for your own character as well and you will attract the good men. Associating with men like the one you mentioned will make good men run away from you like the plague. I promise.
2007-12-29 22:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by bloogirl777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he's 35 on myspace, second if he's so insecure that he has to pretend to have female friends then you should move on. Just by questioning this you should have your answer. Move on and find someone that has real friends.
2007-12-29 22:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think you should date him. Remeber if you want to marry some one you have to spend the rest of your life with them. Find somebody perfect. Its worth the wait
2007-12-29 22:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does sound like a weirdo...and u sound like a really good gurl who deserves somebody great and this guy is totally not for you.
2007-12-29 22:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being a guy. There are millions of guys out there that do stuff like that. If it really bothers you, tell him.
2007-12-29 22:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by Panda Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he actually does seem kind of like a creeper. i think you should stay away from him, he doesn't seem like the kinda of guy that would like a relationship with only one woman
2007-12-29 22:37:21 · answer #11 · answered by *~*Volleyball player*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋