Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

Ok, there is a slight issue. I like a girl at my school, and the thing is, now that I have noticed things, I realize that I have been too clingy. You know, Instant Messaging while she is online(or not), talking to her any chance I get, and other annoying stuff. The thing is, I have done this in the past, but the girls I liked, well I got over them, but she is different. I dont know why I keep doing this, but I need to fix things, before the new year preferably. I really like her, and I dont want to ruin this chance. I need help from all sources. I am losing it here, I cant figure out how to fix things. I need some really good advice here. I just want advice, not criticism, so keep the harshness down please. I have even bought her somehting for christmas, but I need the next step in my plan before giving her this gift. I have 6 days to do this before the new year(before school lets out), help me!

2007-12-15 14:47:35 · 1 answers · asked by Mr. 3.14™ 7

Doing something romantic with him? Since we plan on doing this anyways at this certain time , and he told me he only wanted 'me' for x-mas. hah , i'm just trying to lighten the spirts,and for peoples information this isnt my first time with him, just something cute haha .

2007-12-15 14:44:09 · 5 answers · asked by StandStillLookPretty. 2

my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I am not looking to date yet..but I fear that any 'good guys' won't want to date a single mom. I am 25 and I have one child. I consider myself to be good looking, I work and am just finishing up a certification program. my question is will guys run when they find out that I have a child?

2007-12-15 14:43:00 · 3 answers · asked by redsox fan 4

2007-12-15 14:42:42 · 6 answers · asked by bria422000 2

it s always the ones you like that don't like you and the one you don't like that do like you. can someone explain why this is.

2007-12-15 14:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm having conflicting thoughts. I have a serious crush on a guy. It is so serious that even talking to him is a task that scares me to tears (although I try). So as a (n unintentional) dare, a friend tells him that I like him. He says that he's not looking but he'll "keep me in mind". There's a part of me that believes him, and then there's the other part that's like "it means that you have no chance in hell".

Is this one typical hidden message of a guy that means "You stand no chance", or is it not one whatsoever? Guys, have you ever used this on a girl before? Like I said, I'm leaning towards the positive. And yes, I'd ask him myself if I didn't go all socially inept in his presence.

2007-12-15 14:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by nyree.kage 1

ok so this is the story i know this girl for like 2-4 months and it's almost christmas and she wants roses. The problem is that she lives in cali and i live in MA and i told her that and she say well send it for me. i really like her. she sent me pics of her in my email. and i don't want to sent her roses just don't ask me why but i just don't. so how can i tell her that i can't send roses and not make her mad or never talking to me again. she was mad when i say i don't know. i was thinking of writing her a poem and sending it to her in her email. i dunno what to do and i don't want to lose her! she gave me her address and everything and i don't want to lose her. i'm moving to cali hopefully in 1-2 years to see her and we'll have a realtionship there for real. So what should i tell her that i can't sent her roses and that she won't get mad. is a poem nice to wirte to her? i don't want to sent her anything yet just don't ask me y.i told her when the roses reach her it be ruin,she say np

2007-12-15 14:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Richard 1

my ex and i broke up bcuz he liked another girl.i was cool with it and moved on too.but after awhile when my current bf and i are goin out still i started missing him.what do i do?

2007-12-15 14:37:25 · 4 answers · asked by Ace2 1

2007-12-15 14:36:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl has a lot of guy friends but doesn't have a boyfriend and she doesn't like any of the guys she hangs out with... is she cosidered a 304?

2007-12-15 14:33:38 · 3 answers · asked by Blondy 1

I think the question is pretty self-explanatory, but what are some activities you could do with your partner whether it be offline or online, that doesn't have anything to do with seeing each other in person. Some things we currently do are play games on Yahoo such as checkers, domino's, etc. We also get on cam for each other and just talk to each other in IM while doing that. But I want to try and keep this relationship alive without it getting boring and up until we can see each other for the first time.

2007-12-15 14:33:28 · 23 answers · asked by youresoscene_xxx 1

This girl is sick and she looooves texting. Any funny/cute text messages i could send?

2007-12-15 14:33:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend i never have good sex any more what can we do to make it enjoy able again

2007-12-15 14:32:19 · 34 answers · asked by playergirljustice 2

I've heard you can put a quote before and/or after your name in an internet search or something like that. Does anyone know how to do it?

2007-12-15 14:28:37 · 3 answers · asked by Cheryl C 1

serious question. its really cliche but i think im in love. am i? im always thinking about my best guy friend. i never try to impress him, but i think that part goes vice versa... how do i make the first move? are there any indirect ways of asking a guy out without embarassing myself? i dont want to ask him directly for fear of being hurt, but... i think i really like him more than a friend. help!!!

2007-12-15 14:27:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never have anything goood to say, all i can say is that i'm sorry, but i want to say something that is actually meaning ful to them, that will help them get over the heartbreak!
any ideas?

2007-12-15 14:22:57 · 17 answers · asked by noneyobeeeeeswax 1

So there is this girl i met online through my cousin we have known each other online for about 2 years and recently have become very good friends. She is wanting to meet which I really want to as well since we both do have some feelings for each other but we want to meet in person before we make things go any farther of course. My problem comes in for one since I know her so well and even though we are friends I will turn into the person I hate being and thats the shy/quiet me and whenever i talk to her on phone or online I got no problems but i do know when we meet I will freeze up. (reason we haven't met yet live about a hour and half away from each other and just haven't made it happen although soon I'm moving near her.)

So any tips or suggestions how to overcome this basically anxiety because I am holding off meeting her till then because I want her to meet me not the mime I become and I really want to hit it off and see if we can maybe be compatible.

2007-12-15 14:22:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why did you do it? What happened to the guy, and was it fun for YOU?

2007-12-15 14:21:51 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 14:20:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you ever sleep with someone who you have feelings for as a very very close friend but not acutally love them?

Shes intimate with me but i guess its for company because she is lonely? I have asked her whether she loves me, she says she only likes me as a very close friend. The problem is that i am starting to love her and she is not feeling the same towards me.

I am wondering what peoples opinions are about this? Is it right to be intimate with someone who you do not love?

2007-12-15 14:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by jewellui 2

my friend just asked me back out. we have went out 2 times before this. he broke my heart both times. this time when he asked me out i still said yes. was that a good answer?

2007-12-15 14:19:28 · 31 answers · asked by brittbritt 1

okay so here's the problem..
this guy and i like each other. but his friend likes me. and my friend likes the guy i like. we're all friends and that's good. they understand that we like each other. but his friend is kind of over protective of me.. he started yelling at the guy i like telling him if he hurt me once he'll hurt him. and i got really scared. but he told me he was joking. and i hate it when he jokes around like that..
well, i really want the guy i like to ask me out.. but he's really shy and he gets nervous around me. all my friends say i should ask him. but i don't think that's right.. i don't know why.
what do you think?
do you think i should ask him?
or should i wait..

2007-12-15 14:19:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 14:18:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my cousin is in vietnam and she wants to chat with me. she doesn't know english. I know how to speak in vietnamese but i can type. how can i chat to her? is there a website where you can transalate it?

2007-12-15 14:13:39 · 2 answers · asked by Justme 3

i wanna ask this girl for her nuber but im to embarrest wat should i do

2007-12-15 14:13:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 14:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i used to be loud, funny, and perverted according to all of my friends.. now theyre saying that im quiet, boring, and mature.. EXACT OPPOSITES!! idk wussup.. when i go out wit hang wit my friends, if theres people i dont know like new people that i could meet im shy and i dont talk at all!! i used to have no problem!! every time i try to be funny and crack a joke most of the time no1 laughs!! and i dont know bout the perverted thing but i keep it inside now.. i used to be so outgoing and idk what happened i didnt want this to happen but it just did and its making me mad and causing me to lose friends and causing me to have a hard time making new ones.. how can i be more social cuz im losing it here and can you guys tell me what you say when you meet someone new cuz im jus like this -_-.......... thanks

2007-12-15 14:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so this girl i like is in my pe class and i like her she sits right in front of me and after that i told my friend i like her and then he went up to her and he was like hey this guy likes you and i said wtf are u doing he said talking to a old fiend and i said lets go!!!! then i wrote a love note put it in her locker and she didnt say anything so 2day i went to the locker and gonna put another one then when i put it in the locker and after that i looked and saw the other one stuck iin the locker then today earlier in the day i saw her when we were doing a special strech i faced her way then she smiled and said ure supposed to be the other way then i said ok sorry so what should i do!!!!

2007-12-15 14:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, guy I was afdating always wanted me to have oral sex with him. He'd push me down and I'd always push back up and say no. However, one Saturday, I did relent...not to completion, but just a minute or so before I stopped. That evening, while I was sleeping, he climbed ontop of me, inserted into my mouth, and I literally woke up with him finishing on me...though he "did his business" outside.
I didn't give him permission, and I felt slightly violated...but not to the point that I would call it rape, because I mean, we were dating each other. I put it in the back of my mind until now, as last night while we were in a group of friends he called me such a "prude" while we were dating...and I remembered the incident, and felt weird about it.
Anyhow...what does this count as?

2007-12-15 14:01:02 · 44 answers · asked by RaimundoL 1

Last night my boyfriend tried to have sex with me. I wanted it too but I tried to tease him to say "no", "stop it" and moved away his hand. Then he stopped and became so mad. I tried to touch him back but this time he stopped me and said he didn't want anymore. Actually I feel so sorry to tease him this way but I just feel so shy to say "yes" each time we have sex. This morning he insisted to leave me. He said this is not sexy to do that and he will not ask for sex from me anymore. Any guys can tell me what I should do?

2007-12-15 13:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous