Would you ever sleep with someone who you have feelings for as a very very close friend but not acutally love them?
Shes intimate with me but i guess its for company because she is lonely? I have asked her whether she loves me, she says she only likes me as a very close friend. The problem is that i am starting to love her and she is not feeling the same towards me.
I am wondering what peoples opinions are about this? Is it right to be intimate with someone who you do not love?
2007-12-15 14:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by jewellui 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was in the same spot sleeping with my bestfriend and we was closer then then what we are now as boyfriend and girlfriend i say stay close friends as long as you are the only one she is sleeping with.Maybe after awhile she will see what is right infront of her and share those feeling too
2007-12-15 14:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by locababiegirlangelad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be intimate with someone even if you don't love them, it's natural. But be careful, you might get your heart broken if you love her, and she doesn't love you.
2007-12-15 14:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Freedom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea break it off now.If she gets pregnant that will make things a MILLION times worse.She will end up with some other guy while you pay child support.
2007-12-15 14:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happens everyday all around the world.
I've slept with people I didn't love, or even like....
2007-12-15 14:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'll sleep with a friend if she wants it.
As long as we have protection and are both clean and single.
2007-12-15 14:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by IrishFan2011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with that scenario is that one person wants more out of it than the other, and eventually that person gets hurt.
I think that person is going to be you.
Do you want to get hurt?
2007-12-15 14:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by Clueless Dick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in it for strictly love don't do it. If you don't really care, do whatever is in the moment, but don't expect too much.
2007-12-15 14:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a very very good friend....
keep the emotions away... one thing leads to the other...
DO YOU LIKE THAT BENEFIT AT LEAST....
do you thinkg she will get jealouse if you introduce her another girl?
2007-12-15 14:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels right... it is right. but be careful not to set yourself up to get hurt. if you're getting attached... rethink the situation
2007-12-15 14:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it ull only fall worse
2007-12-15 14:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by SM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋