Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

How do I find a person that is more interested in me more than himself?In my last relationship I was used by feeling unattractive,my credit card,telling me the problem with our sex life was that I had gained weight.I weighed 155 when I met this guy and I gained up to 168.West arted having sex every night and then it went to once a week and then to every three months and finally the last two years it was every eleven months.He came home later and was drinking and staring at the computer or tv.he told me that my weight was part of the problem when I told to leave because he became very abusive withhis words to me.Then he tells me it isnt me it is his problem.He livsd in my house all this time.I later found all kinds of things he did.he owed the government back taxes,he had lived with other women and used them.he ran up my credit card .In the begining of the relationship he asked me to marry him several times.Thank God I didn't.

2007-12-15 15:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1 4

2007-12-15 15:47:23 · 23 answers · asked by strawberry 2

My friend says that i shouldn't go out wit him b/c he broke up wit her and he says everything u can imagian that is sweet to me and idk if i should break up wit him or not cuz i like him alot and he went to a party wit girls and idk if i trust him wit girls and he lives like an hour away and he only calls me like 2 times out of the week and idk if he has a gf b/c he is a big flirt and idk wat to do he says he likes me and it is soo hard to hang out wit him and i am soo confused right now plzz help me

2007-12-15 15:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i am having trouble right now, please can anyone help?

Suggestions or comments?

Thanx

2007-12-15 15:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by AFox 3

do you have a problem with strech marks? i have a few really red ones on my love handels and heaps of them white ones on both my innder theights, and some purple ones there too. and i have aquite a few moles/beuty spots n my face is that grose?

2007-12-15 15:34:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok if you go and read this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhBMncjBfSaczEXxEy2ktxzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071215195902AAvKKwp
you will know that I m having trouble with the guy I was going to marry. every guy I have ever met cheats, lies, or is a mental or pysical abuser. WHERE IS ALL THE GOOD GUYS!!

2007-12-15 15:31:16 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

Look I'm in my mid twenties. The love of my life is two states away.
I have to see him. It has been 3 months. Long story how I got out here. I have no friends or family here. My family lives half way across the country. I am dying to see my soulmate. He is dying to see me. I do not have a vehicle right now, because it is states away at my dads and I am letting him use it for work, since he is real hard up right now.

My question: How with no vehicle, only a couple hundred bucks. Do I get there?
I can't take the bus or train, because there is no way that I will leave my dog behind.
I can wait no longer, I have to see my love.

What would you do? If I wait one more month,I will have my truck back and my license back and can drive up. However, it has already been nearly 4 months. I can wait no longer.

Should I hitchhike? How safe during the holidays is that-for a woman to do?

Thanks.

2007-12-15 15:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 15:29:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanna know from the fellas...be honest and realistic please

2007-12-15 15:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by RARE GEM 4

When a boy is taking a girl's virginity, can he actually feel the hymen breaking? And is it painful for a boy when taking a girl's virginity?

2007-12-15 15:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 15:22:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex bf and i want to be together BADLY. but we did alot of things this yearthat made us get into HUGE amounts of trouble and our parents wont let us see eachother. we still wanna be together and im not sure what to do! its getting to a point where im so miserable every night crying cuz im not with him. so im thinking of asking my mom if she'll talk to him; if they'll try to talk things out, but i dont want to get my head chopped off for even considering that. any help?

2007-12-15 15:19:28 · 1 answers · asked by Halley T 2

I woke up Saturday morning to find this guy left me 5 voicemails since Friday afternoon. I've been on ONE date with him.

The first one was pleasant. The second one he mentioned how this was the 2nd voicemail he left. On the third on he told me he was "annoyed." On the fourth, he said it would be "common curtesy" to call him back. The 5th one was downright hostile. It was especially funny since I listened to them all in a row.

I thought it was the girl that was supposed to be needy.

2007-12-15 15:19:12 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. So I always see the guy of my dreams, nice and funny, in passing. I usually only see him that one time then he is gone. How can I get his attention or talk to him without it making it seem stalkerish? For a girl in college.

2007-12-15 15:15:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really hurt my girlfriend and we broke up (obviously) and two weeks later i REALLY want her back. her friend likes me. i dont wanna get the title of a user but wud it b a good idea to get her jealous via her friend? if not, what are some other good ideas on how to get her to like me again? she also kinda likes my friend and her friends are just starting to trust me again. help is greatly appreciated

2007-12-15 15:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so here's whats up. I have met this girl 3 weeks ago at school during a swimming class and ever since then she has flirted with me every class. She holds my hand every class for almost the entire class and likes to act really playful as she hangs on my back...but now there is a complication....

ever since then people who know her personally and people who know of her tell me how she is always with different guys every 2 days. they tell me how she likes to "get together" with other guys and how she cheats on people.

Now she knows people are saying this but tells me not to believe them...but every time i ask about something concerning her relationships past, she tells me "dont worry about it"

so ladies/fellas...am i being played or should i give her the benefit of the doubt?

2007-12-15 15:11:28 · 18 answers · asked by D 2

Where is a good place for girls 19-20 can go to meet guys that are down to earth?

2007-12-15 15:11:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy..ALOT..I used to get mixed signs from him or he would "play games" and say how much he liked certain qualities from me and stuff like that. Well one day i heard he was moving to Washington and i thought 'oh no ill never get to tell him how i really feel!!!' So I confessed my undying love for him and he shot me down by saying he "thinks im a really cool girl and that we should remain friends especially since that is all he is looking for." He moved back and now im in the same predicament i was in and dont know what to do..should i go for it again or let it play out on its own..or should i drop him and move on to the next??

2007-12-15 15:09:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 15:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not talking to my boyfriend of 2months, cos after we love make without any protection, he says i wont get pregnant, but i was just asking him, what if i did become preg, he said u better get an abortion, and he thinks I should still stay? do u think thats rite?

2007-12-15 15:02:56 · 16 answers · asked by VIPER 1

How do I put myself out there as like an available girl who is willing to have a boyfriend?

I've wanted one, and I've been single for 2ish years.

Yes, It sucks.

I have potential to have a boyfriend, I just don't put myself out there or make guys think I like them.

In other words, I'm not affectionate.

What should I do?

2007-12-15 15:02:50 · 5 answers · asked by Hi There :) 1

i hav given the signals 2 evry guy i hav liked but none of them seem to lik me bak n i mean evrybody at school always tells me how heka pretty i am n a couple of the guys in the grade below me hav told my firends dat im hot but i cant get a guy in my grade 2 lik me n it really sux so i wana kno wat can i do 2 make them lik me i mean i flirt my butt off 2 da point where im known as a flirt but i mean i don kno how 2 get jus 1 guy 2 lik me HELP HELP HELP!!!
n plz giv any advice u think of

2007-12-15 15:02:17 · 10 answers · asked by blumunke93 2

I told this guy that I liked him, and he seemed ok with it. We laughed and talked and he was acting really flirty, messing with my computer; taking my pencil/book/papers; etc. so anyway, we'll usually have mini conversations during the few classes we have together. One of the most recent being "Hey isnt this game great?" I replied, "No, I hate this game" and he says, "I know me too" and such. then in a writing class we played another game where we were versing each other and we were making fun of each other's answers and stuff like that. That night we had a dance and we talked a little and he made fun of me because i brought my iPod because the music they play there always sucks. Now, my question is why will he go days without talking to me? why does he all the sudden decide to back away just when we're getting close? It's always two steps forward, one step back, literally. what can i do?

2007-12-15 14:59:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there was a really hot girl, naked and willing to **** him and not tell anyone (or get found out) would he do it?

And he said no.
(which is really cute!) and he also said that he would feel really hurt by doing it. and that the relationship wouldn't be the same after.

BUT ive asked other guy friends and they said the opposite. Is he just trying to make me feel better or do you think hes telling the truth. What do you think?

2007-12-15 14:58:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a bf but when i am around him im so dam shy i hate this shyness..... so ya one time he tired to hold my hands but i didnt let him n then he wanted a kiss but i said no but i really love this boy im crazy over him so what can i do about this dumb shyness:(

2007-12-15 14:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by nyc latina 1

I am virgin and he told me he is too but he already had few girls before and the the last girl he he had was kind of wild......... who liked to sleep around wth other guys.

2007-12-15 14:56:46 · 14 answers · asked by nanu 1

this totally sucks or it did anyway...i knew this guy for two yrs and we were friends and all...but this yr. we started datin' and we've been together for 4 months now and its crazy b/c he was right there in front of me the whole time. and i had to go thru all that heartache and misery with all the other guys, i dont feel alone anymore and i am truly being loved by someone else

2007-12-15 14:56:14 · 7 answers · asked by itz meeeeeee 1

White guys, asian guys, mexican guys, etc.?

2007-12-15 14:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by Mika 1

2007-12-15 14:51:29 · 45 answers · asked by she.fielding@btinternet.com 2

I think I'm a pretty good guy: ok on looks, a little chubby, good job, some college, paid for Camry, have an apartment.
The last girl I liked thought I was kinda a loser for not having a house but she also lived in an apartment. She was also concerned that I haven't finished my degree and I'm making the same money that she makes with her Masters. Other women have told me they only date tall guys. Another one says she wants someone more established, but she complains to me the older guys she dates often leave her home on a Saturday night. So I'm 33, 5"4", can't be too poor if I've traveled 3 other countries on two continents, I dress nice, am respectful to women, nice and helpful. Am also Loyal to friends.
So what the H-LL I am missing here? Is there a secret quality women are looking for that they won't tell us? What is wrong with me?

2007-12-15 14:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by TONY H 2