Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

Okay, I've been recently referred to as "FREAKY" in a good way by you (a man). What does "freaky" mean to you? I would like to just refer to myself as being "FIESTY". A "Gentle fiesty" to b more exact.

I've also been referred to as "scary" but he has clarified that as a "good thing".

So, What am I????? if unsure, refer back to my previous post: Why do men get intimidated by a profesional women, etc.

Honest answers only please.

2007-12-15 09:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

all he seems to care about is sex, but i really feel for him and have for a while....but he makes me feel used and tells me he wants to be in a relationship with me but he is still getting over his last relationship, its been 2 months now and im tired of playing games how can i tell him that without severing our relationship completely? how do i say no when he tries to make a move on me? i can never seem to resist
Cait

2007-12-15 09:14:36 · 17 answers · asked by Complicated_and_Confused 2

he is single nevr married.but he told me he had lots of gfrnds.... honestly, i have feelings cuz he is sonice to me...

2007-12-15 09:14:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 09:11:13 · 15 answers · asked by Michael M 1

i've known this guy for about 3 days and he asked me out to the movies and we went. he didnt do anything at the movies we were just leaning on each other with only our arms touching then that night online, my friends messaged him asking if he was dating me and how the movie went and stuff he asked me if alotta ppl knows that were dating and i said no, only two and i asked him why and he said jw. but then 30mins later he asked me to be his g/f so i said yes then right after i said yes he said he had to go and signed off then today when he signed online again, he was acting weird so i told him we should be friends for awhile and get to know each other better. Any clues to why he was acting like this? and suggestions on how to play hard to get???

2007-12-15 09:10:17 · 1 answers · asked by xblondatheartx0x 1

2007-12-15 09:09:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like a shy guy. im sure he likes me to.he would always stare at me, accediently take my thing, then come to give them back, lingering smiles, long eyecontacts across the room, even when we are close, always smiles then looks at the floor smiling, shy hellos etc

anyway i sent him an email to join myspace.he never replied. he stopped saying hello and looking at me to my face. but he still keeps looking at me, staring at me when he thinks im not looking.

then one time i saw him in the libary, he was standing like a meter,behind me. i saw him starring at me in the reflection infront. he didnt know i was looking at him. but he stood there starring at me for like 8/10 sec straight. then he started saying hello to me again from that moment on.

does he still like me?
im really shy to. but what can i do?
whats the right thing to do? seems the email scared him away. so? what now?

i really really really like him. we are 21/22

2007-12-15 09:09:12 · 1 answers · asked by girl 2

my gf is coming over in 1 hour. she sent me and email that she was horny and is "cummking over soom" i dont know what to do. i have done other girls but not like her. pleeeez help. i dont want to mess this up.

2007-12-15 08:59:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it's a party, you're supposed to have fun but he was flirting like a real player... when usually he's quite normal. I was really surprised. we're together for some months now. he said he was doing nothing wrong... but I really was shocked when I saw all this. too much for a quiet and nice bf he always used to be. he talked so much about being true to each other and now this... I know it's nothing important but can't help feeling hurt. Feel like he lied to me about his true self

2007-12-15 08:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by ania361 4

If you think about something better, please suggest!Thanks

2007-12-15 08:52:36 · 2 answers · asked by Jim 1

a guy that is smart or a guy that makes a lot of money?

tnhey have the same personality

2007-12-15 08:48:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 08:47:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had one girl friend and i feel in love with her and i mean this girl got me bad she turned around and back stabed me i don't know why but she said she loved me and she broke up with me and and turned around and told almost everone in school that i raped her and it's not true i would never do that to a girl and besides that im still a virgin and tryed to get a restraining order on me saying i was stocking her that i forced her to do things with my temper and she's only seen me lose my temper once cuz of some kid that didn't like and still lover her and it's been about 3 year's i don't know why i still have feelings for her and she's the only girl i have ever had feelings and now a day's i heard from so far 3 people say'n that she want's me back im lost im confused i need help so somebody give me some real answers cuz i really wanna know what's her deal thanks

2007-12-15 08:45:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night was a school dance and my guy friend (my crush , Zach ) was thair and my friend ( Dezi ) told me she has liked him for a long time . So the night went on and I did my first Dirty Dance ever and it was with my crush and then I called him when i got home and we talked for like 2 hours and in that time he told me he liked Dezi and he wanted me to tell her . So I did and she was all like ohh ya and super happy and im all like ohh no and crying and they want to go out . WHAT CAN I DO , DEZI KNOWS I LIKE HIM AND ZACH KNOWS I LIKE HIM .

2007-12-15 08:43:44 · 31 answers · asked by Stubby hashbrown 3

2007-12-15 08:42:59 · 23 answers · asked by kjessjess 2

ok now...me and my boyfriend are getting a little tired and bed and need some new moves! Just send me some crazy ideas!

2007-12-15 08:40:03 · 9 answers · asked by music chick 1

there is dis guy who hugs and holds me like we are a couple but we aren't. and talks to me, not at me...but he ignores me around his friends, even if they are mine too. i've know this guy for a while 2 years, he is black but acts white and emo-ish kind of, i'm black and kind of act white. anyway, sooo he ignores me around his friends, but is really nice when we're alone, and its genuine, b/c i can tell when a guy is fake. like he'll remember if i was sick and ask me if im doing better. he waits for me at my friends locker and puts his arms around me, but i can't get over the fact that he ignores me and some times gets really moody and won't even talk. what does this mean?

2007-12-15 08:37:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys are always talking privatly and say they are having "guy talk"

is it about girls?? cuz i heard like a million times that guys talk more about girls than girls about guys?

when guys talk about girls what do they say and point out?



tanks

2007-12-15 08:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of them don`t have photos in their profiles and the ones that have look terrible.And it seems most of them have only one thing on their mind.
I have been chatting with one guy for a several days and at first he seemed ok,but he asks toomany personal questions and I don`t even know what he looks like.Should I quit this? Or should I continue being very careful?
I am also a conservative girl,so it is really hard to talk to those men,always having to explain your choices and beliefs,I am starting to feel uncomfortable.What should I do?I don`t really need dating sites to meet people,but i really thought it could be interesting.

2007-12-15 08:33:14 · 3 answers · asked by faro 2

2007-12-15 08:31:41 · 6 answers · asked by Sexi Lightskin 1

a woman, and he didn't tell his friends is that respectful or is he embarrased. He had an erectile problem, so Im thinking that might be why, but Im not sure either way.

2007-12-15 08:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by Dani 1

I feel sorta harsh about what Im about to write.
But Im gonna say it anyways:

I really like my best [guy] friend,
for more then a friend obviously.
And hes told me alot that he likes me too.
And that he wishes we could be together.
Last night we went to the movies,
and he held my hand.
This is the second time this has happened.
I feel so close to heaven when Im around him.
But then,
he likes other girls.
Which,
yeah Im aware thats gonna happen.
But(for guys)why does he do and say all this stuff,
If he probably does it to other girls to?
(for ANYONE)Should I tell him it bothers me or just get over it.
I know my time to really be with him will come soon enough,
but my jealousy is getting in the way of my feelings,
and I dont want that to happen for him too.
Since hes gone to a different school now,
its really hard to try to keep our relationship "alive"
since I only see him every couple weeks.
I just get so jealous.
Because I honestly feel like Im "better"

2007-12-15 08:18:16 · 2 answers · asked by Ashleigh(: 4

what is the difference between loving someone and being in love. My friend says I'm in love with this girl, but he says he loves his girlfriend. what's the difference?

2007-12-15 08:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like I lost this boy I care for a lot. We got into a fight last night... he bailed out on me and I got very upset. But now I feel like it's all my fault that I even got upset and I feel like I lost him over it. I just want him back but I don't know what to do. I know that he won't come to me in a while... he would love me but he just wouldn't make a move. He won't apologize but I am just so sad and at this point he doesn't even have to. What do I do? I don't WANT to lose him and I dont WANT to find someone else. I just don't know what to do. I called him and he said "I guess" when I asked if we were ok... I don't know what to do... please help. I'm very upset. It took us such a long time to get to a good place and now it just feels ruined. I asked him to see me tomorrow and he said he would if he can... that's a bad answer I know but.. what can I do?

2007-12-15 08:13:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you think?

2007-12-15 08:11:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thank you.

2007-12-15 08:08:39 · 51 answers · asked by Laurie 5

Ok i am 14 and this guy i really like seems to like me?! What do i do!!

>he is always turning around in his seat
>he stares at me during choir sometimes
>he gives me some of his candy
>he is constintly stealing my stuff in a teasing way
>he tilts his head backwords to look at me during class
>he is always turned sideways during class with his arm on my desk just a few inches from mine
>he gives me high 5s in the hallway
>he was talking about me at his friends house
>all his friends say he should go out with me
>all my friends say i should go out with him

2007-12-15 08:05:28 · 48 answers · asked by ? 2

I know that I am older now, but this is something most people in their 30's and 40's can relate too. I remember one time when I was with a date, and at the end of the movie I pulled away from the Drive In and forgot to put the speaker back in the slot!! OPPPSS! How about you, anything you can remember from back in the day :P

2007-12-15 08:04:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i just met this boy, hes very very smaart.
and hes not like other guys i've been with
hes in the top 10% in his class.
hes already started on college, won in the homecoming.
and is cute. im usually with the bad guys.

well we hung out this week alittle bit,
but my moms outta town today, and she took my phone cuz
i went over my minutes.
he asked if i wanted to go outta town with him..
and i know im gonna have to lie if i doo.
but i really like him, and hes a good guy.
my plan is to say im spending the night with my friend,
then have him pick me up there...
but i dont have my phone for my parents to calll so theyll
call her, but i wont be there..???!!
ill be bacc around 8-9 tho i hope,
he wants to leave about 5-6.
i dont know wat to do, but i wanna go with him.
HELP?!!

2007-12-15 08:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello!

My wife and I just had our first child one week ago exactly, but today she was saying to me how thankful she was she would have a period for a while. She just kept saying things about it and i did not know how to answer. Does this annoying you too guys?

2007-12-15 08:01:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous