Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

Is this a good way to find out if he likes me?

My friend is going to call my crush and say: Haley and I are going to the movies tonight and so is Blake and Molly.

But you need to sit by Haley and I because Blake and Molly will be making out the whole time.

And if he says no then he doesnt like me. Is this ok?

2007-12-15 07:56:29 · 24 answers · asked by iLoveHim<33 1

thnx

2007-12-15 07:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in the 8th grade- 13 yrs. old. i have never had a boy like me. all the people in my class had at least had a boy like them. i'm not a big jerk, i'm actually pretty nice. i'm not the prettiest girl in school, but i don't think i'm completely ugly! i'm so upset! everytime i like a guy, they never like me back! i don't know what to do about it! does anybody have any advice?

2007-12-15 07:54:29 · 3 answers · asked by anonymous user 4

well i was wit my ex for 6 months n then we broke up cuz he was goin to a different skool, well 5 months later i started dating my current boyfriend and have been with him for a lil more than two years....but my ex still has feelings for me and he has tried to get back with me since then. my boyfriend and i had problems cuz of so i stopped talkin to him. but now he wants to JUST be friends! but im not sure thats right! wat should i do?

2007-12-15 07:51:02 · 4 answers · asked by *~dOrKaMoUs~* 1

i dont want anything to do with him anymore because he moved away .. i just wanna return the small favor of saying happy birthday bcuz he wished me on my bday 5 months ago .. WHAT is better?

saying happy birthday online or txting or even saying happy birthday .. i just will feel guilty for not saying anything cuz last year i didnt say anything n it hurt him

2007-12-15 07:51:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to tell you my story...
when am 15 old i loved old girl (25) then she married now...
then i love when am 18 agirl and she left me for alot reasons..
so i stop all relations. Now am 32 age and I met girl with same age in the net . we can call here (x). we start new relation but she had a lot problems with here old lover … she don’t love him as she said.. but that guy have other lover girl and just want the (x) just as wife.
My (x) girl wana leave him now . but she don’t know what to do coz it is 4 years relation, she don’t know what to say to here family and what to tell them why she wants to end it now? I don’t know maybe she love him, or maybe coz she have relation 4 years. for me I start love (x) to much and now I have problem with here, I need here but I don’t know if she loves me or not or just respect me. i don’t know what to do to be with here with here problem then what. am so tired now. I want here to be happy . some time am thinking to love here from my side only.

2007-12-15 07:47:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night was a dance and me and my bf went. while we were there we danced alot and had alot of fun. after 2 hours the last song was always a slow song and we danced during that one too. at the end i kissed him (we just started going out and never kissed before) in front of his and my friends and the song ended and we walked outside together. all this morning he hasn't called or anything and he was all quiet outside. we're both in 8th grade and are really great friends. he's a bit of a dork and i doubt a girl ever kissed him before. what does he saying from being all quiet and not calling me for once?

2007-12-15 07:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by Coraloni 4

Iam going out to dinner with a female friend for dinner tonight. We have known each other for a year and are pretty comfortable with each other. We have never hooked up or anything.. just friends (for now) Should i pay for her dinner tonight.. would it be weird if I let her pay? Iam going to offer to pay at first and I know she will try and pay too so should i let her? Thanks for the help.

2007-12-15 07:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was overweight when he met me and fell in love with me. He told me once that he didn't care about my weight he loved me for me. Then he told me that his friends were saying she's so pretty if she'd just lose weight. Now he bugs me about my weight constantly and complained that he hates to see me stuff my face. The worst part of it is I hardly ever eat in front of him. He's turned me into a closet eater. If he fell for me overweight why would he change & start bugging me. I weigh 200 pounds and before I met him I had lost 85 pounds. He asked me to lose weight for him and I said I would never lose weight for a man I lose it for me and he was offended. What are your views on this?

2007-12-15 07:42:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it slutty if I want to see the goods berfore I buy them? You know what i mean.I've been dating this guy i dont really love but i still want to see if i take it to a diffrent level will it help? I dont know if it will or wont. I want it to but I'm not sure.I say i love you all the time but i really dont mean it. Am i crazy for wanting this relationship to work? The truth is i really do love him like a brother. And that sucks! What if i do see the goods and dont like them? I'm totally clueless!

2007-12-15 07:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by tiffinynb93 3

well im twelve and myy bf asked me if i could show him my pussy.
should i??

2007-12-15 07:38:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I knew this guy at work for a few months, but we really got to know each other a few weeks ago. We would talk alot; he told me that he had never had a serious gf before, and that he really wanted to date me. I'm 17, not allowed to date, so I told him I'd try to work something out.

He told me that he could never do a relationship that was just over the phone and at work, so he said, "let's be friends with benefits." I did sexual stuff to him once, for a few hrs... not all the way, but close... it was my first time doing anything like that, i didn't even enjoy it...
Afterwards, my emotions were really messed up, i was feeling horrible and i told him.
Things were weird, he didn't talk to me as much afterwards...

He didn't act totally like he wanted to date me anymore... we didn't talk as much, but we still talked.

2007-12-15 07:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by Just a Girl ♥ 3

well my friend likes this guy and the guy is my friend too.
he wants a sweet way to ask her out and he is asking me.
at our local zoo they set up lights in the holiday season. he knows he is gonna do it there cause it is pretty romantic. he just wants more than a simple "will you go out with me?"

any ideas

2007-12-15 07:33:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so my friend has like this guy for over 2 years. he is a guy in my school who is one of the guys who thinks he NEEDS a girl friend. so once he dumps one he goes to a new one.but my friend really likes him.and i dont know how to tell her that he's probly just going to end up using her or dumping her after the first day.should i tell her or should i just do nothing and help her win her guy?? beacuse if i tell her i will be a good friend but she may get mad at e for crushing her hopes.but i know if i don't then she WILL get hurt.

2007-12-15 07:31:50 · 19 answers · asked by Loverr 1

HEY iiZ iiT BAD iiF ii LiiKE MA BF BUT ii LiiKE ANOTHER GUY BETTER BUT ii DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WiiT MA BF FO DA NEW GUY ii LiiKE, iiZ DAT BAD???

2007-12-15 07:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been friends with this guy since I was 14 and he was about 16 or 17. Our friendship of course was online, through distance. As the years went on and we grew up we continued to talk. We became close. Sharing dreams, goals, hopes, experiences, definitely relationship problems. When ever we were single there was always a flirtation between us. But never anything serious.

Here we are now 20 and 23. We've lived decent lives with interesting stories to tell. We're a bit more grown up and mature. Still going through with the struggles of life.

Recently I was talking to him online. He has a difficult day with his job and school so days are stressful for him. When talking out of no where he says he wants me to come visit and soon. All the years weve known each other we have yet to meet. I was excited because Id love to meet him finally.

Since then hes talked about just running away together, livinging happily ever after. Even said 'I want to love you' at a random moment.(cont'd)

2007-12-15 07:27:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok- so this girl that I like, I text messaged her on Wed. and asked her if she wanted to hang out later that night. She responded back that she couldn't because she already had plans, but she said, "maybe this weekend?" So just like 20 minutes ago, I text messaged her and asked her what her plans were for tonight, she said that she's going to a hockey game. So I responded back saying, " Oh nice. Maybe we can meet up after the game." She just responded back with a text that said, "Yeah." That was it. What do you make of this? Should I call her after the game? Or does she not even want to meet up or is she trying to play hard to get or what? Also, we used to date each other and we liked each other a lot. But that was a while ago and we remained friends, but lately she has been wanting to hang out again. Any and all opinions here are appreciated! THANKS!

2007-12-15 07:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by DN1503 4

I am a 19 yr old female in my second year of medicine. I want to be an army medic. I just don't want a relationship with anyone. I've never been raped or had anything traumatic happen to me and I am def straight. I just see myself as single forever and the thought of someone knowing me in an intimate way makes me feel dirty. I also don't think anyone will really truly understand me. Am I not the only one out there, or am I real weird?

2007-12-15 07:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to move on with my life and start a new with someone but once things get serious I get nervous and make things complicated.
I divorced four years ago. I was married for ten years to a guy that everyone liked but he didn't care for me. His family was abusive and he just treated me with total disregard. He says he never loved me. Now that I am trying to move on, I have gotten myself involven intimately on a few relationships, but I get tottaly scared. My ex and I were very religious people and that made the divorce more emotionally difficult. My issue has to do with people dating and rushing to have sexual intimacy. I tried it and it left me broken hearted and more confused.
I see that some relationships work that way, but religious people condemn that and even Doctor Laura says it messes up relationships. How do people do it? people succeed after many break ups? do they just get lucky? anyone know?

2007-12-15 07:17:09 · 8 answers · asked by A_O 2

I ask this question earlier, but maybe i didn't add enough details. okay well i am 14 and i just had my first boyfriend. My mom found out and made me break up with him because I was too young to have a bf. So i broke up with him and now he is avoiding me. Why is he doing that. I know hes not mad at me. A week later his ex girlfriend asks him and out and now they are going out. I'm so jelous. I need some advice. what should i do?

2007-12-15 07:11:59 · 19 answers · asked by mimi 2

what is the first impression you get of me when you look at my myspace...
good/bad girl
nice/mean
innocent/rebellish
pretty/ugly
would i be someone you would like to hang out with. why or why not
fake? or just "me"

just curious
....based on everything you see/read...thanks
www.myspace.com/jjanetj

2007-12-15 07:08:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was sitting in the gym and my friends started aggravating me about my crush and he was sitting next to me.they really try to be nice huh?well what do i do?

2007-12-15 07:07:28 · 9 answers · asked by miley cyrus rox 2

im so sick of beng heart broken. Specially just last week i cried in my room for an hour thinkin about how all of my crushes have never liked me back and ive always been rejected. i have a crush now, and because of the fact that none of my crushes have ever liked me back, i have no confidence that my current one will like me either. im trying to think positive but behind it i kno the truth. hell never like me. please help i need words of advice.

2007-12-15 07:03:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

To all the guys out there: Just in general... why is it that when a girl you approach/call/text/contact first starts reciprocating & suggests you casually "hang out" you back down? I've experienced this with numerous guys & I just wanna know what the deal is, from your POV.

2007-12-15 06:49:51 · 1 answers · asked by Astrogurlie22 2

I have been dating my girlfriend for 4 years. Wow, I can't believe that. I don't think that I love her as a girlfriend anymore. My problem is that over the past four years I have tried to break it off several times. When i try to break up she flips out. And when i mean flips out, it's like she has gone mental. It is that bad. I am afraid she will hurt herself if i did break it off. I really don't want to deal with that again. I should probably also say that I have cheated on her from day one of our relationship. Yeah, im an asshole. Please don't remind me. But how do i break it off without going through this insane tirade.

2007-12-15 06:43:22 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 2

I have this guy friend I really like and we often flirt. In fact he told me one time he was falling for me (after a couple of drinks). Thing is, he never asks me about my love life. Could this be because he is not sure how I feel and this makes him shy? Normally he is not a shy guy at all. Now we live in diff. states as our jobs took us away. But we got together recently and kissed one time and he got very quiet with me at that time. We never discussed it as had to return home the next day. What do you think?

2007-12-15 06:38:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well the women I go with for a start, they keep saying I'm chasing after every woman I meet (I seem to have a nice smile and women keep coming up to say so), what can I do about that? So I wink at a few every now and again, I'm not a monk you know. All I want is a women to look after me, not a jealous woman. How can I assure women of my commitment. Put a hood over my head.

2007-12-15 06:31:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He went to party last night.
Didn't invite me.
His excuse was they went to bars afterwards, and of course he can't invite me because they were going to bars and I don't have a fake.
It is so frustrating... How would he feel if I went to bars without him, and he was the younger one?
I don't know how to make him understand, because he doesn't understand my point at all.
I feel like, if I were him, I would MAKE it work.. I would do something we BOTH could do, you know?
Am I wrong for being mad? is anyone in the same situation?? I'm so lost man

2007-12-15 06:12:45 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend, Justin, have been together for almost 8 months. We are very happy & have always been honest, from what I thought. Well, lately on myspace he's been talking to girls and hes changed his password. Well, I made a fake myspace w/ a pretty girl. So, I sent him a message on this girls account and he started talking to her. I started talking sexually to him and asked him if he'd do sexual things with "me". He said yes. I also asked him on the girls account if he'd like to see a naked picture of her. He said yes, I told him I sent it and he said "Hopefully it's sexy." He even gave Julia, the "girl", him number. He also said they could meet up today at Best Buy (Right by his work) at 4:00 (The time he gets off today). Last night he was telling me about "Julia" but, he didn't tell me the whole truth. He didn't tell me that he gave her his number and I asked him when she wanted to meet up. He said he didn't know. I also asked him where she wanted them to meet up.

2007-12-15 06:10:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i need to kno what we should do so we dont get bored!!

2007-12-15 06:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous