Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

She is a fren of mine, she likes me but I don't. She calls me very often. I respond to her very casually as a good fren n whenever she doesn't like anything I say, she bangs the phn, which I really hate. Later she calls me ask for forgiveness n I say its ok, but these its not just once or twice. It happens almost every day.

Sometimes back she even asked me if she was bothering me by calling and if she is then she would stop calling me to which I said no, however she did annoy me, but I didn't want to hurt her.

Even now she's calling me, but I don't want to pick up her call.

Please help me!!!!

2007-12-15 20:44:39 · 20 answers · asked by Damn Gudd!! 2

Ok I'm thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend in 2 weeks. 2 weeks because I'm being nice or very greedy. My question is should I? Well i know it's a stupid question. The reason why is she is very sexual deviant and can be very aggravating.. I just would feel bad because she found out her mom has cancer and more stuff. The main reason is why i wanna break up with her is to protect her. Protect her from me( I have a bad temper) and i have very good control over myself. Im scared i wont one day though and it will be her not someone else.It's almost our 1 year anniversary though ive known her for 4 years. Her family hates me. They dont even know my real name i use a fake one. We are 40mins apart also. What should i do? Plus i do love her i just dont wanna hurt her again. 4 years ago we went out and made her life a living hell. She said she'd hurt herself if i broke up with her so now im scared for her. I dont know what to do. Please help and give some reasoning not just break up...

2007-12-15 20:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Blood Lust 2

We're both 18, this is the first Christmas we are spending together and I want to surprise him with a really special gift.

His father told him that Christmas and birthdays are not important -_- but I really want to change that mindset, and make him happy this coming Christmas!

Some people say guys love gadgets but as I am still studying, I don't think I can afford something so expensive... For one, he doesn't like computer games.

Any others ideas would be great, thanks! =)

2007-12-15 20:39:54 · 13 answers · asked by Krystal 2

K so i have been the nice guy my whole life. But it seems every girl i like always ends up sayin i like you as a friend right before she goes out with the a**whole guy. So should i just start bein an a** or do girls really like the nice guy???

2007-12-15 20:21:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are in our 20's and have been bestfriends for 7 years. He wanted me as his girlfriend the whole time and I finally starting having those feelings back. We have been exclusive for a couple months even though we had sex occasionally while we were bestfriends. He never had a problem staying hard during sex unless he was drinking. But now he has this problem all of the time (when not drinking) and my sex drive is way higher than it has ever been. I want it all the time. I don't try to make him give it to me, but he knows that I am ready anytime. I love him and we are considering marriage. I don't want sex to be an issue now that I am finally wanting it, how can I keep him hard or inscrease his sex drive? And I am not at all bad looking so what is wrong, please help me I feel like he does'nt want me anymore. He wants help with this also.

2007-12-15 20:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl i liked, who by the way knew, kept gazing deep into my eyes when she was talking to her friends about something funny and kept laughing. i was like 5 meters away, i could hear them, so im pretty sure she they were laughing at me or anything.... but i also heard she likes another guy shes friends with, and have seen her show interest in him too.anyways do u think she likes me?

2007-12-15 20:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

and please don't tell me things that i already know.

2007-12-15 20:09:42 · 13 answers · asked by ChevyGirl 1

I have been trying to get the girl im head over heals in love with for the last year and have at times sort of succeded but she wouldnt stay away from her ex who knew how to manipulate her using lies. And he would steal her away from me, has happend 3 times. Well the last time, hurting me wieghted heavy on her mind. Leading to problems in there relationship. I was devestated that she could hurt me over the guy who hurt her so much when i had never hurt her.

Well this is the question, should i date her again? she wised up but she had to learn the hardway. She got pregnant, and he reacted horribly and took off. She came back to me wanting forgiveness, i agreed. She wants to be with me. And i want to give her one last chance. I want to be there for her when she needs support, when she is sick, when she goes into labor, and i want to help her raise the child.(raised my brother basically) I love her so i want to make her happy. And hlp her. But im afraid ill get hurt so should i date her

2007-12-15 20:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i went to her house to give her a rose i called her to come out but then she never did.and one of my friends said that she had told one of her teammates that me and her were going help plz help what should i do

2007-12-15 20:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by pedro h 2

yea i am seein thinew girl.. and we both really like each other. she is insecure about her weight, which isnt even there..and she doesnt want to have sex because she feels insecure... what is a way i can get thru this? it would be good for me and good for her as well, but shes too afraid she looks bad but i tell her and think shes perfect.

2007-12-15 20:03:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here I go well umm.. can you guys tell me 18 things how can a girl tell if a boy is intrested . because there is there guy in my class and he always smiles at me and trys to impress me is by him smiling at me does that mean he like me and does that mean he is flirting with me

2007-12-15 19:52:48 · 6 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1

2007-12-15 19:51:30 · 17 answers · asked by Helena 6

this girl i liked, who by the way knew, kept gazing deep into my eyes when she was talking to her friends about something funny and kept laughing. i was like 5 meters away, i could hear them, so im pretty sure she they were laughing at me or anything.... but i also heard she likes another guy shes friends with, and have seen her show interest in him too.anyways do u think she likes me?

2007-12-15 19:50:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 19:48:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to understand something. My ex was into SM. He also said it "wasn't that important" to him. I expressed interest in it but when we first tried it I thought it was too scary. He was very forceful and teased me about ignoring my safe words. He also tried to do stuff that I had told him not to do when I was in a vulnerable position.

This episode really scared me. However, I liked the guy a lot so I told him that he needed to respect my limits and we needed to take things slow.

Ever since then things were "different" and he pulled away from me sexually. He since broke up with me and said his feelings changed over the past few weeks. (Time wise, this matches up with his feelings being different since this specific night I'm talking about.)

I don't know much about SM...was his behavior normal for SM? I thought safe words were "sacred," and not to be joked about. Was I right to feel scared? Why did he reject me after this?

2007-12-15 19:45:56 · 3 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

Mine, although a very fallible decision is Ville Valo. I think he's one of the sweetest men alive. Very poetic.

2007-12-15 19:44:42 · 16 answers · asked by 666 2

She's cute and all and this is the first girl thats ever had a crush on me... what should I do?

2007-12-15 19:41:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend really likes this guy, ever since the stoneage. But he's recently considered himself gay. I didn't really mind because if that's this choice, then it's up to him. But my friend really likes him. What advice can I give her? Just tell her to give up? -which sounds mean- or tell her to keep trying, when she doesn't stand a chance?

Help?

We're 15, by the way.

2007-12-15 19:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ran into my ex at the mall after like 4 years of no communications. After talking she asked me if I would like to out to dinner. I said I would have to check my schedual. What should I do?

2007-12-15 19:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by Chantol๛ ดวงอาทิตย์๛ 4

Im confused. A guy that is always asking me out, &seems to like me a great deal, said he had a question for me. He asked me If i would go w/ him to his works christmas party. I said Id request it off work and told him yes. I drove all the way to the Hyatt (an hr away). when i got there he said there were rules, 1 to be respecful of everyone and 2 hes not dancing. i was like OKAY i already know the 1st one and the 2nd i didnt ask u to dance. Then we were having a good time and I asked him an hour later why did he invite ME. (cuz it was a VERY ritzy party.) He said nonchalantly "Honestly? You were the only one available." I was like NICE. He was drunk and got even more drunk a few hours later. Everyone was heading out to the clubs and i just walked away and waved goodbye to him to go get my car from valet parking. He chased me & asked where i was going? I said Im leaving bye and turned around left. My question is why was he acting like an A***hole to me? I WASNT available the night eithr

2007-12-15 19:22:47 · 8 answers · asked by Fiona 2

I haven't been able to sleep all night. my bf's been asleep since 12 cause he works at 5. but i can't help but o in there and lay with him and hug him and give him soft kisses and whisper in his ear that i love him. i'm worried i'm bothering him, but i just love him so much!!! is this wrong? i only go in there every hour or so.

2007-12-15 19:21:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe it was an older sister, or a neighbor girl or maybe just your girlfriend, but I know that when I was around 12 or so my friends older sister one day put me in a headlock and took me to the floor then sat on my chest. I've also heard from other guys who have told me similar stories. Has anyone else had this happen to them, or does it still happen with regularity? I'm just curious about this.

2007-12-15 19:18:43 · 12 answers · asked by krute 5

can you name what this example is coming from?

2007-12-15 19:11:55 · 8 answers · asked by emmy 2

So after a my school dance where my ex and I danced with numerous people in competition to each other, the stories continued about how he "wants to be friends with me." I've heard these many times from a best friend who is good friends with him, but I can't find a way to let myself talk to him. I feel like I'm over him after I'm with another boy, or doing something fun and grand, but when I see him with another , I feel nautious, like 'didn't i mean anything to him?' and 'i want him to do that with ME again.' How can I make amends with him, and eventually feel better about this. I may have even loved him, I'm just too crazy to deal with this any more. Do I talk to him, or just let go forever and let it be? (we're at the same SMALL school for 3 1/2 more years however)

2007-12-15 19:10:29 · 6 answers · asked by giving. 3

I feel terrible. I am very sad. My boyfriend just broke up with me.

I can't sleep, I am so sad over this. I feel alone and like I have nowhere to turn. I don't know how I will manage because I really was in love with this guy. I feel that there is nothing worthwhile about me. This guy was so sweet...he surprised me with a homecooked meal by candlelight; he asked me out and called me all of the time...and I feel like an idiot because I actually though he felt the same way about me as I did about him...stupid, stupid!! Nothing can ever work out for me...I'm so sad...

2007-12-15 19:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by quirkyfunnyone 1

He has been texting this girl who is programmed in his phone as Sexy Mama when I am only in there by name. He has appearantly driven her to work a few times, that I never knew about, and hung out with her when I didn't know about it. He said that two times when she got out of the car the song Closer by Nine Inch Nails has come on the radio. If you dont know that song.. the main line says I wanna f*#? you like an animal, I wanna feel you from the indide. they have plans to see eachother thursday when he told me he has to work. it did just say hang out and watch a movie.. but i cant believe that after every other deception. what should I do. Should I freak out on him now.. or wait til thursday and see what happens. My heart hurts soo bad. Please help me?

2007-12-15 19:07:25 · 10 answers · asked by SnOwBuNnY 3

Well, there is this girl I know, whom is pretty and very outgoing and fun, she's cool. Lol. But here's the deal, the other day, we we're talking and she pretty much came to me for advice and told me somethings she said she is surprised to tell me, that she would only tell things like this, about another guy, to her sis or best friend. Now I do NOT want to fall in love with this girl, she is too good of a person to have me like her, and maybe later on, not. But my point is I do not want to take it any further than she wants too. I want to respect her. Here;s the bottom line question. How do i NOT fall in love with her, cause slowly, I am!

2007-12-15 19:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by John G 1

I have a co worker who is very, very cute and i find her very interesting. She keeps to her self as far as i can tell, atleast around me i think. She hates when people hit on her or so im told, so i dont say cheesy pick up lines and such, besides its not my thing. But i have occasionally tried to communicate with her, and i heard someone say she hates me. However, we still chat every now and again, and lately i am very intrigued by her. I dont know if shes shy or maybe just not interested in me. we talked once and she brought up never having eaten oysters, and i told her i love them, but before i could ask her to go get some with me, another co worker rudely interupted our conversation, and I couldnt help but feel that she wanted me to ask, but im not 100% on that. Just the other day, she asked my friend if he knew any nice guys, (which i am) and he said he knew one. (he didnt say my name) This is a friend that I am very well known to associate with. Im unsure of what to do...

2007-12-15 19:01:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been suspecting something was up, like shes been with someone and not telling me. Few times my picture in her room has been face down all of a sudden,once i showed up early and she was dressed super nice/ full make up job because she "felt like it" (she never dressed up), acting like someone is around when she calls in the afternoon,+ lots more.Well, I always notice when we go to this gas station by her apartment she never wants me to come in, just says wait in the car i'll be right out.This time I needed something and I went in.The guy working there gets REALLY excited when he sees her walk in "Hey!! Haven't seen you in a while! what's up!!"being extremely friendly, and by some stuff he said I knew they must have talked more than just chit chatting.Same thing a few days later.When we leave, she gets mad at me for coming in, and accuses me of "checking up on her"! I just got a bad vibe about it. She said she just goes in there a lot and he is always working.What do you guys think

2007-12-15 18:46:00 · 3 answers · asked by Jack B 1

im a christian and i want to know what his parents wants for him..i love him..but he broke up with me and tell me he don't love me coz he wants someone like him..what i should do to show him my love

2007-12-15 18:26:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous