Singles & Dating - 15 December 2007

Would you say that you as a person, want to have a lot of sex?

This question also applies to virgins. A person can be a virgin and still have a strong desire to have ALOT of sex, but isn't.

So state what your sex drive is like and whether you've had sex.

2007-12-15 10:46:39 · 17 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

Do we have it harder?

I mean you see ugly guys with pretty girls all the time. I myself have fallen victim to that more than once in my life.

Is it a swagger thing? Because a guy with good swagger can easily get a pretty girl even if he's not the finest guy but the same thing (in my opinion) can not be said in reverse.

2007-12-15 10:45:34 · 16 answers · asked by {*Kiterya A.k.A Ms Caramel*} 5

Hello yahoo..ive recently started to like this girl.. we've been close friends for about 2-3 years and im wondering if i should go for her.. we talk mostly on msn but we have been together just the 2 of us on 2 or 3 different occasions but it felt like an eternity<3. ive been told that i loved this girl by the way i talk about her to other guys but ive been having second thoughts.. i catch her in the hallways, i barely talk to her in the school. since its so crowded usually hang with differnt people but i still consider her as a close friend. she's always a very jolly girl and always see her happy emotion. ive had thoughts of her having some interest in me and sometimes i feel like she doesent give about me. anyways my thought is if i did tell her my feelings it might ruin our friendship. which i charish. and if i doo go for it ill be very happy. i occasionally flirt? also i know some other girls are after me but shes the only one i want to be with. sry for the long post

2007-12-15 10:41:49 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you're like going to class around the same time? :)

2007-12-15 10:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by lol 2

How important is sexual compatibility to you and your SO?

How vital is it to have similar sex drives? How about liking the same techniques and positions? Compromising over sexual inhibitions?

Sexual compatibility to me is a vital part of a relationship, and something that at least needs to be talked about in depth, or preferably, examined through safe monogamous premarital sex.

2007-12-15 10:33:26 · 9 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

my bf (boyfriend) is saying he wants a streak of his hair purple that i don't mind that but he said if he liked it he wanted it all purple or tons of streaks I don't want it all purple but it is his hair...*worried*

2007-12-15 10:31:41 · 21 answers · asked by ZoloFreak 2

2007-12-15 10:31:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

..me and my ex were close,very close then when we split up he started hanging around with people who smoked.took drugs and he cloaned into them ! i was with him last night and i could tell what bits he said were he & what were them,ive told him & he denies it saying "i havnt its all in your head" i dont want to watch him turn into him,hes one of the only decent lads ive met he didnt need to change! what do i do ?

2007-12-15 10:31:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because I hear about people like confessing their love for someone or something like that. So does a drunk mind speak a sober heart?

2007-12-15 10:29:29 · 5 answers · asked by Eugene's Girl 2

Lately it feels like our relationship is not a priority to my boyfriend. I know he is busy and focused on work and stuff, but he made time before. I do not know if hes not interested anymore or if he is just busy, my gut tells me its bad news,
but then i cannot tell if i am just over reacting or not.
help!

2007-12-15 10:27:27 · 2 answers · asked by starryeyed 5

how do i tell her

2007-12-15 10:25:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I went to a dance with my b/f Peter- we've been together for 7 months now. He's a sweet heart and I love him to death, although...stuff like this tends to rub on my nerves. I don't know If I'm wrong...or, if He's over reacting.

Anyways, I went with Him, and my best friend Chels- to help make Chels feel more "not-awkward" I guess...I told Peter to dance with her, and while he was dancing with her, I went and danced with some random dude- (OH< AND THIS WAS JUST SWING DANCING! NO DIRTY DANCING AT ALL!) anyways, I never want our realtionship to exclude people, so I always try and include people-(ex. dancing with other guy friends) I know he gets annoyed with it...but honestly...swing dancing? Come on...am I right? Or is he right to be mad at me?

2007-12-15 10:25:07 · 6 answers · asked by christine P 2

One of my ex-boyfriends and I were together for almost a Year. When we broke up, it was really really hard on me..But it seemed like he was able to move on really fast. We haven't been together for nearly a year, but we still frequently talk and hang out and stuff...I'm happier when i am with him then i have ever been with anyone else. And conversation just comes naturally. We can talk for hours on end without running out of things to say. He says he still really likes me, but he doesn't love me like he used to, and he said he probably couldn't love me as much as he used to...But yet i'm still here. Going back to him. Every single time. Am I stupid for doing something that I know I shouldn't? Or is it just something that every girl goes through. I've told myself over and over that I was done. That i never wanted to talk to him again, but what makes it even harder is that he's one of my best friends. Be straight up and blunt, and don't tell me what I WANT to hear.

2007-12-15 10:18:10 · 24 answers · asked by x0sinfulxtears0x 1

My mate's GF just dumped him coz he was out last night and a girl kissed him on the cheek. Apprantly 2 of his mates were talking to this girl, but he wasnt really followin the convo. She kissed them both on the cheek and asked him if he wanted one too. He said to not appear like a rude tw*t saying no, he said "OK". He mentioned it to his GF today and shes dumped him, theyve been together 2 years.

Do you think he is in the wrong?

2007-12-15 10:15:29 · 46 answers · asked by Matt B 2

I have been in a relationship with this man for 4yrs and recently he cheated with a protitute. Not only did he lie about it at 1st but he made me feel like I was being rude for asking where he was at 4am (we live together). We both have 1 child each from a seperate relationship. We both work, tho his job is not as lucritive as it once was. I am so angry and hurt and think about this everyday. He has said he was sorry and it would never happen again, but why did it happen in the 1st place. I have been in serveral relationships and marriage in my life and ALL have ended poorly after many yrs being devoted to working on things. I am just lost right now and don't know if we would be better off together or apart or how to forget it and move on. A while back we talked about marriage, but when this happened I threatened to leave and he is now not talking any marriage. I dont want to die an old miserable single hag.

2007-12-15 10:11:58 · 23 answers · asked by Confused 1

she wrote me letter saying "Hi Travis I've been watching you for a while now and now I'm starting to really like you. You're sexy and I always wanted to tell you that but I'm scared to tell you.Meet me at the gym at 1:30pm, bye baby! love your secret admire. XOXO" That's what the letter says that she let someone pass to me with out me knowing it was her. I kind of knew it was her because she was staring at me for like 10min


After when I went to the gym (we were both alone) she came up to me and kissed me while I had my hands on her butt. We both kissed for a long time and I back up after 2 mins. Then I went back to class. I am really shy but I really really like this girl though.

2007-12-15 10:08:24 · 42 answers · asked by travis 3

Im not sure if he ever actually loved me the way I thought he loved me or he was just using our "perfect" relationship so that he can build credibility to other girls out there to show that he is a 'good' boyfriend.

He doesn't even want me to add his friends in myspace. Also I do check his myspace out and I found out that he was asking his friends who are girls to hang out today. When I asked him if he had plans today he said he was going to spend it with his guy friends. He also once told me that this friend [a girl obviously] of ours (who was as close as a sister to him since they've been friends for years, also exgf) just had a boyfriend and he interrogated her boyfriend the other day to see if he was a good guy or not.... DID he really have to do that? Or do you think he has some reserved feelings for her? He is such a lier and he doesn't know how much this is hurting me!!

I am so depressed! My mom grounded me because my depression might cause me to do something horrible.

2007-12-15 10:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 10:03:49 · 31 answers · asked by j_emmans 6

well it really does feel wrong but i have felt like this for about 9 months and my love for her has grew its just undescribable it really is. she is like my best mate well she is my best mate but in some way i think that she feels the same, but i really want her to no but i am worried that she could take it the wrong way , but in some way i think she would be okay with it because she is a real good mate . it is real love because i cant stop thinking of her i love her more than words can describe . how can i tell her?

2007-12-15 10:02:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I worked for a few months at a deli this past summer. I met a younger guy there. he is 20. There was a chemistry there. But then I quit 4 months ago for personal reasons. Since then I have seen him maybe 5 times. He is always sweet and talkative but never asked me out or for my number- Should I just let it go and chalk it up to he's just not that into you? Or should I just man up and ask him? I dont know if him being 5 years younger than me is intimidating to him or if he is just being nice when I come there and we talk. I am really attracted to him but I also dont want to make a fool of myself. sometimes fantasies are better left fantasies, but in this case i dont know.....

2007-12-15 10:00:47 · 1 answers · asked by sheerah 2

I cant tell if this guy likes me or not. We talk to eachother and joke around with one and another but im not sure if he likes me as just a friend or more. What are some signs I can look for to tell if he likes me or not?!

2007-12-15 09:46:50 · 8 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3

there's a guy in my class &after school i was walking around &saw him from about 20 feet away w/ his gf. i glance over&he realized i was walking by. he looks at me&then kisses her quickly. they were having a normal conversation as far as i cud tell b4 i came along. she didnt kno i was there cuz she was facing away from me. i was talking with my friend about this later she told me he hardly ever kisses his gf and he tries to make girls he likes jealous. but wud he really be trying to make me jealous when he has a gf? i catch him looking at me & get the sense he wants 2get2 kno me better cuz of the usual signs of when a guy likes a girl. (always looking at me in class&trying 2 find an excuse to talk to me)

guys:do u think he cud have been trying to make me jealous?
if u had a gf and u liked someone else wud u pursue her or try to make her jealous or anything?

2007-12-15 09:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im really shy and I can tell guys are interested because they stare a lot, but i never get approached! please help me out!

2007-12-15 09:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf got kicked out of school for a really stupid reason. Im going to miss him so much i really want to stay with him what do i do

2007-12-15 09:35:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you didn't know her?

2007-12-15 09:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Planning 2 chat to this girl on Monday but the last time i spoke to her was once and when she got lost and showed her were her class was. What do i say to her? I have never really spoken to her before. Should i make a joke on if she needs help finding her class.

2007-12-15 09:25:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

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We broke up one week ago, her decision. She wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the get go, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

She has been hanging out with her guy friends and will take vacations with them this holiday. She wont even spend Christmas with me, instead it will be with someone else whom she calls a friend, an the unknown gender, due to information, when i spoke with her three days ago. In doing no contact and will try to heal my inner wounds.. hope i will be okay and over her soon. thx for reading.

2007-12-15 09:25:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

cause around school ive seen quite a few guys look at me like that, and i dont even know them! why would they do this?

2007-12-15 09:23:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

JUst thinking that christmas is coming , new year's eve is coming and I don't have a bf to be with makes me feel very sad !

Unfortunatly the only guy that I like is going to his country during all this ( and I'm sure that he is going to see his ex girlfriend because she lives in his country)
Believe me I feel so dippressed right now , I need a guy that will be there for me , that will take me out , make me happy and give me gifts . So my ex boyfriend called me 2 days ago that he wanted to talk to me ....so I don't know if he could replace this guy for this period because I need company , even though my ex is a jerk sometimes .

What do you guys think I should do????? By the way this is the only place where I can express my feelings and where I get good advise .

2007-12-15 09:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 09:21:30 · 20 answers · asked by suspicous C 2