Im not sure if he ever actually loved me the way I thought he loved me or he was just using our "perfect" relationship so that he can build credibility to other girls out there to show that he is a 'good' boyfriend.
He doesn't even want me to add his friends in myspace. Also I do check his myspace out and I found out that he was asking his friends who are girls to hang out today. When I asked him if he had plans today he said he was going to spend it with his guy friends. He also once told me that this friend [a girl obviously] of ours (who was as close as a sister to him since they've been friends for years, also exgf) just had a boyfriend and he interrogated her boyfriend the other day to see if he was a good guy or not.... DID he really have to do that? Or do you think he has some reserved feelings for her? He is such a lier and he doesn't know how much this is hurting me!!
I am so depressed! My mom grounded me because my depression might cause me to do something horrible.
2007-12-15 10:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What should I do?
2007-12-15 10:07:51 · update #1
I dont want to talk to my friends right now. I need some time to think for myself and just get some outside opinion
2007-12-15 10:17:30 · update #2
Yeah he says he helps some of his friends who are girls out with their problems. I dont want him doing that.
2007-12-15 10:18:37 · update #3
ok well I just talkd to him about it, but I ended up breaking up with him. Do you think that was the right thing to do?
He is now trying to smooth talk things over with me... what to do? I still like him!
2007-12-15 16:02:48 · update #4
well duhh of course I like him.
2007-12-15 17:15:45 · update #5
can someone email me? I don't know I just want to talk to someone from outside my area right now.
2007-12-15 17:16:36 · update #6
Confront him about it. Your next move depends on how he responds to your questions and concerns. Tell him you dont like what he does. Tell him how you feel. As a couple you are a team and you need to work together. So before you make any rash movements, confront him about it first. Trust me, after you see how he responds you'll be able to figure out wether he loves you or not. Dont let him make another girl more important then you.
2007-12-15 14:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Highwind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babe it is hard but seriously if this guy is treating you like this he cant seriously wanna be with you else there would be more effort on his part sorry babe but i think ya betta off with out him if he has not realised what this is doing to you and the effects his selfish behaviour is havin then im affraid ya dont mean that much to him i would not put up with it sorry if im with someone i am there number 1 otherwise im off i dont need to be second best to the person that so called loves me thats the hole point in being together in the first place to have each other xxxxx
2007-12-15 10:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look for a new bf that will treat you better. Hope this helps God bless
2007-12-15 10:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing you.. he is not ready or doesn't want a relationship, so it is time to move on..
2007-12-17 05:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋