why wud a guy do this?

Question

there's a guy in my class &after school i was walking around &saw him from about 20 feet away w/ his gf. i glance over&he realized i was walking by. he looks at me&then kisses her quickly. they were having a normal conversation as far as i cud tell b4 i came along. she didnt kno i was there cuz she was facing away from me. i was talking with my friend about this later she told me he hardly ever kisses his gf and he tries to make girls he likes jealous. but wud he really be trying to make me jealous when he has a gf? i catch him looking at me & get the sense he wants 2get2 kno me better cuz of the usual signs of when a guy likes a girl. (always looking at me in class&trying 2 find an excuse to talk to me)

guys:do u think he cud have been trying to make me jealous?
if u had a gf and u liked someone else wud u pursue her or try to make her jealous or anything?

i think he wants to play cat and mouse or something. maybe i seem hard to get or something. does he want what he cant have? i think he is trying 2 figure me out or test me or something

Answer 1

The guy is a cad. Stay away from him!

Answer 2

First of all, this is not a cell phone, so proper spelling would be appreciated, and it makes it look as though you are uneducated and no one is going to want to attempt to read your question. There is also a spell check. Is it cud, like a cow chewing it's cud, or is it could? is it wud, or would? It doesn't take that much longer to type a couple of extra letters.

Secondly, he is a player and he wants to have his cake and eat it too. I would stay far far away from a guy like that. If he's with you, what makes you think he won't do the same flirting with other girls?

Thirdly, perhaps you are too young to date yet, since you can't see, that a guy with a girlfriend, that is flirting with other girls, is a player, and if he gets his hands on you, he will most likely tell you some lame line to get you to sleep with him, and then he will dump you like a hot potato, and move on to his next victim.

Answer 3

Don't even give him the time of day! Any guy who uses a girl to get the attention of another is weasel.

What he might be trying to do is make you go to him. Don't do it! He might be really cruel and humiliate you by telling you that he already has a girlfriend. Then you're gonna feel foolish.

Obviously, this guy is EXTREMELY immature, and should be kept at a distance. Think how the girl he's kissing would feel if she found out that her boyfriend is kissing her in the hallways in order to attract attention from passersby?

Don't get involved. Wait for a guy who's direct and straight forward. He'll come to you and ask you out without playing childish games. And you won't have to ask others what to do or what his intentions are, because they will be clear.

In the meantime, stay focused on what's really important...honesty!

Good luck in all your relationships, and happy holidays.

Answer 4

I think that if making people he likes jealous is part of his personality and that he does it very often, he could've been trying to make you jealous because he likes you.

I know that people think that if a person has a girlfriend or a boyfriend, they wouldn't try to pursue another person they are attracted to. But sometimes it happens. Perhaps you were unavailable at that time or he hadn't known you when he hooked up with his current girlfriend. Maybe he likes you now rather than her... I found it quite odd that they don't share intimate kisses often if they're supposed to be in a girlfriend/boyfriend situation (unless one of them prefers to do it in private rather than in public).

I know I'm not a guy but he could've been trying to make you jealous for some apparent reason. Plus, I think if you liked someone other than your current girlfriend/boyfriend, you shouldn't try to do all of this behind his/her back.

Good luck on finding out, though, whether he does like you or not, or he's just being weird (ahaha...).

Answer 5

if this guy is trying to make other girls jealous while also having a gf.. he's not worth your time
what do you think will happen if you get together with him.. he'll start using you to make other girls jealous just like he is now

don't get dragged into that.. trust me been there done that

Answer 6

Don't even bother trying to figure this guy out. Keep walking. He's a player and once he's played you, he'll keep right on moving. Just ignore him. He's not even worth the glance you gave him.

Answer 7

Ignore the guy and get a life. If he is playing a game, would you really want to be with him? How would you know you weren't part of a game he was playing with another girl?

Answer 8

He probably does like you, but if I were you I'd think long and hard about dating a guy like this. A guy who likes to play with girls' emotions. Just remember if he is doing this to one girl now, you could be that girl in the future. On the otherhand, he could be a nice guy? Good luck and trust your gut. =]

Answer 9

hmmm, just from the fact that he's always looking for excuses 2 be with you, I conclude that he is smitten. But maybe, you're making him think the feeling is mutual cause most guys won't be quite so open about their feelings as hard as it is to believe

Answer 10

I think he wants you because you have amazing typing skills.

But now that I'm with my boyfriend no other guy seems attractive. So, I guess I do not be helpful with this, but if I liked someone while with him I wouldn't try to make anyone jealous or try to pursue them with him.

Answer 11

my ex did the same to me bfor we got together he did almost anything to get my attention. thier afraid to make the first move so they try to make us jealous by kissing thier gfriend.some guys just have a gfriend for that .thier afraid to make moves like us .be the 1st to make little moves so he knows that you like him too and after a little while make a big move. you'll be satisfied by the results