she wrote me letter saying "Hi Travis I've been watching you for a while now and now I'm starting to really like you. You're sexy and I always wanted to tell you that but I'm scared to tell you.Meet me at the gym at 1:30pm, bye baby! love your secret admire. XOXO" That's what the letter says that she let someone pass to me with out me knowing it was her. I kind of knew it was her because she was staring at me for like 10min
After when I went to the gym (we were both alone) she came up to me and kissed me while I had my hands on her butt. We both kissed for a long time and I back up after 2 mins. Then I went back to class. I am really shy but I really really like this girl though.
2007-12-15 10:08:24 · 42 answers · asked by travis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww, well she obviously likes you too, so tell her! dont be shy, she already made the first move. Ask her out to the cinema, if your shy there wont be much talking, or if you want to get to know her more, out for a meal or bowling. Good luck!
2007-12-15 10:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you're a dude and you're into this, but it doesn't sound like you're past 9th grade or so. ...I say you should ask her why/if she likes you. People think only guys try to hook up with good looking girls. Girls try to hook up with people they just started liking because they're lonely, and all their friends talk about their BF's, so they want to too. She could get VERY clingy and needy, seriously, and that could ruin a good relationship.
You should hang around her some more without going much farther than you already did, and focus on HER, not what you want to do with her. Get to know her, otherwise you'll end up being one of the list of boyfriends she had because she was lonely and just trying to find a guy to keep her company for a while before she meets someone new. If you hang with her some more, she might come to the conclusion that YOU are the guy, not someone to keep her company for a while.
2007-12-15 10:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Janelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, how old are you? i don't think it's a terrible thing that you did, beside the fact that you were in school while you did it, and YOU know that it's against the rules. wouldn't u have rathered had your first kiss from her outside on her porch, or on the street in teh rain? something more romantic than ur school gym? it's okay if you're really shy...it's awesome if you actually made your move if you're a naturally shy person. go you... u got her.
2007-12-15 10:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also use to be shy with girls. But just ask her out maybe movies or over to your house get to know her more if u dont already. And you already know she likes you back so just make a move and just plain and simple ask her to go out iwht u
2007-12-15 10:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by balla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes you and you like her ask her out on a date through a letter then see what happens
2007-12-15 10:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by kuilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should go out, there isnt anything wrong with being shy, everyone is shy or nervous about something in life so there isnt anything you should be worrying about.Go for it!
2007-12-15 10:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, the chances of cooties are slim to none.
Seriously though, sounds more like infatuation than anyhting else. Go slowly with her.
2007-12-15 10:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Skunk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her to go out with you on a dae[movies and then grab somethin quick to eat closeby] write her a note too if your shy...and tell her if she wants to go..the movies wont make it seem so awkward since yor wacthing the movie...and if the date goes well ask her to be your gf...
good luck e-mail if u need more help! bye
2007-12-15 10:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your question?
Sounds to me like you already have the girl. Just keep talking to her.
2007-12-15 10:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Showers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you need help with exactly? I mean it sounds to me like you guys have something nice going on already, just go with it.
2007-12-15 10:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋