I feel like I lost this boy I care for a lot. We got into a fight last night... he bailed out on me and I got very upset. But now I feel like it's all my fault that I even got upset and I feel like I lost him over it. I just want him back but I don't know what to do. I know that he won't come to me in a while... he would love me but he just wouldn't make a move. He won't apologize but I am just so sad and at this point he doesn't even have to. What do I do? I don't WANT to lose him and I dont WANT to find someone else. I just don't know what to do. I called him and he said "I guess" when I asked if we were ok... I don't know what to do... please help. I'm very upset. It took us such a long time to get to a good place and now it just feels ruined. I asked him to see me tomorrow and he said he would if he can... that's a bad answer I know but.. what can I do?
2007-12-15 08:13:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The test of a true relationship is if it can handle spats without falling apart. If he bails after the first fight he has just saved you a lot of time figuring out if hes the one for you or not. If he stays then you know your relationship has a decent foundation to survive future disagreements.
Let him know you are willing to talk it out then see how he responds. No decent relationship will fall apart because of one silly fight.
2007-12-15 08:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Morley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it sounds like you are way more into him than he is into you. Everything you are saying makes it pretty clear, however, that you are even more in love with the idea of HAVING a BF, any BF, than in having anything in particular with this particular person. And if you are constantly needing to obsess about "where your relationship is", it means it wasn't very good to begin with.
2007-12-15 16:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that u want him back and ur sorry
2007-12-15 16:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by someone4me95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋