Ok i am 14 and this guy i really like seems to like me?! What do i do!!
>he is always turning around in his seat
>he stares at me during choir sometimes
>he gives me some of his candy
>he is constintly stealing my stuff in a teasing way
>he tilts his head backwords to look at me during class
>he is always turned sideways during class with his arm on my desk just a few inches from mine
>he gives me high 5s in the hallway
>he was talking about me at his friends house
>all his friends say he should go out with me
>all my friends say i should go out with him
2007-12-15 08:05:28 · 48 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, all your friends say go out with him, has he asked...???
All his friends think he should, why hasn't he asked???
Your are 14 what are your parents rules on going out, can you go to school things, group things supervised by someone your parents know?? an afternoon movie??? You don't give any clue as to what things would be considered going out or what your parents allow......
If your parents allow, and he does not ask you first, asking him to join a group of your friends at the mall or what ever your parents allow. When a girl is making a first move, asking a guy to join something with others is always acceptable, how else would he know about it if someone doesn't ask him to come....
I think you are reading the signals correctly, he is at least interested in you, he may have parental restrictions also and at 14 someones parents need to provide transportation so figuring out how to spend time together other than at school maybe what is going on....it is the Holiday Season, so many guys don't start a date thing so close to a time of "might have to give a gift" and I don't have money wouldn't know what to get and so on....Many youth centers, schools, and familys have New Years Eve gatherings, what are you and your friends doing, besides babysitting to make big bucks so older folks can go out and get Partied.....????
Is there anything coming up that you would both be going to anyway, you might just kinda pair off a bit at that time.... so many questions,??? but the important thing is yes I think you have every reason to think he does like YOU.... ; )
2007-12-15 09:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Judy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no, sounds like a familiar situation like most 14 year olds. (lol i'm 14).....uhhh......my friends always tell me that i should go out with this certain guy.....or i look "cute" with him or whatever. but it really doesn't matter what other people say. if u like him a lot go for it! it not just hold back and maybe your feelings will recede. maybe he'll even ask u out! it's possible u know....i think that miracles and dreams do happen. u just have to believe. good things come in mysterious ways. good luck.
2007-12-15 08:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♦♣Black Jack Queen♥♠ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he has a very serious crush on you. I was like that when I was 14 too. He's trying to see if you like him too. But did he asked you out yet? If not, he my be to shy or scared of being rejected. If that's so, let him know that you like him too. That will give him the guts to ask you out. Or just tell him that you know that he likes you and you like him too, or something. don't worry, you can always reject further dates if you don't like the outcome of the first.
good luck
2007-12-15 08:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I am not going to tell you what you should do, so a guy seems interested in you, if you have to ask everyone what you should do, then you want people to tell you what to do , try this, make up your own decisions. Don't do it because your friends say to, you need to do it because you like him, not because your getting attention. You can get attention from a pet, if you really want attention. DO it because you want to.
2007-12-15 08:10:06 · answer #4 · answered by krennao 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he sounds as if he's very interested in you. But you're the only one who can decide if you want to go out with him or not, don't start dating him if you're only doing it because your friends say you should.
2007-12-15 08:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by farmgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to wait for someone to invite you out or you have to ask them out. Why not invite him along with some of your friends and his friends for some activity? Then you can have a chance to talk to him directly.
2007-12-15 08:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by fdm215 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He definately seems into you. But go out with him if you like him also, otherwise it'd just be a waste of time for both of you!
2007-12-15 08:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by thimpkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him. It sure seems that he likes you. Also, don't tell any of your friends how you feel about him....they will run and tell him and then he won't like you anymore.
2014-12-09 18:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ahitraa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you should go out with him, but first maybe talk to him and ask him if he likes you and if he does then ask him out
it does seem that he likes you
So good luck and i hope u 2 go out :)
2007-12-15 08:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by caitlen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you like him, go out with him. It sure seems that he likes you. Also, don't tell any of your friends how you feel about him....they will run and tell him and then he won't like you anymore.
2007-12-15 08:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋