my friend just asked me back out. we have went out 2 times before this. he broke my heart both times. this time when he asked me out i still said yes. was that a good answer?
2007-12-15 14:19:28 · 31 answers · asked by brittbritt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he broke your heart twice...no offense but he probably will do it a third time.
2007-12-15 14:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why and how he broke your heart is not told to us--so basically you are asking for the same treatment again. Any guy should be showing you respect, courtesy and fun on a date at any time. He has definitely NOT shown you what you should be getting. I would say NO and not have to explain why--it is your right to say NO just because of the past treatment. There are too many nice guys that do not treat a date like dirt. There are too many guys that know how to be nice--so look for those nice guys and give them a chance. Just expect to be treated properly at all times. YOU are in charge of how you get treated. Happy holidays
2007-12-15 22:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't go out with you "Friend" because he has already broken you heart twice. I think he is taking you for granted because he knows or at least he thinks he knows that you will always take him back. And if he was really your Friend i dint think he would be playing these kind of games with your heart. But you also need to realize that maybe you have been giving him the message that he can just ask you out whenever and you Will agree.Stand up for yourself girl and dint let this guy think you are his toy. However if you feel that this time things will be different then go for it!
2007-12-15 22:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by duckling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it was not a good answer. If you have gone out with him already and he broke your heart why take the chance of him breaking your heart again?
2007-12-15 22:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Inyego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to any of us on Yahoo! to determine if it was a bad decision or not. What matters is if YOU think it was a good decision. By going out with him again, you're risking getting your heart broken by him a third time, but sometimes relationships need breakups in order to last.
2007-12-15 22:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by mpittman@live.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends ---i have an on and off relationship with this guy for 4 yrs straight----we're still passionate in love ---sometimes we hate each other to a hug intensity when we get mad ----its a fiery relationship--and it stops for a while---but we always find that we get back---its hard not to! --we're too drawn to the drama! we go on and off b4 its finally in sync and we totally understand each other...
you can't really tell if its a good answer if its like an on -off relationship thing (but where both ppl actually do care alot bout each other's thoughts and feelings)
if he really cares bout u ---he wont break ur heart this time ----he'll be considerate bout what ur thinkin---if he does again--u shud move on ---rmb there's plenty of fish in the water ^^
2007-12-15 22:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least one of you is getting what they want from the relationship. Did you broach this subject with him before saying yes? Tell you what, if it works out this time, we all owe you a coke. If it doesn't work out, you'll know which answer to give him the 4th time around.
2007-12-15 22:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk it depends cuz i was in the same boat as u....i went out with this boy named zach for a month but we got back to gether the next week and we went out for a month he broke up with me and broke my heart he still called me and everything but he asked me out again i said yes and we went out for 3 months that time but he broke up with me and went out with my best friend....he tore my heart in two but it really depends on how much u like him and how much u trust him i thought i could trust zach but i guess i was wrong all u cant do is follow ur heart and see where it takes u, it will break a million time befor u find the perfect guy but u will find him sooner or later.......trust me
2007-12-15 22:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...the way isee it is he's "broken" your heart twice, its probable he'll do it again. there is also a chance he wont. What do you think is more likely? If he does it again, i wouldnt hold your breath on him not hurting you again. Once guys start, sometimes they dont stop. maybe call him before you guys go out so your sure enough that he wont stand down or something.
2007-12-15 22:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why he broke your heart. If he cheated on you twice, then ..I don't think that should've been a good idea. You already gave him a second chance, and he blew you over..
2007-12-15 22:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by StephXGamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cant hurt if you dont like anyone else. Just this time be prepared for him to hurt you again and if he doesnt maybe you could go out with him more. Best of luck :D
2007-12-15 23:12:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋