So there is this girl i met online through my cousin we have known each other online for about 2 years and recently have become very good friends. She is wanting to meet which I really want to as well since we both do have some feelings for each other but we want to meet in person before we make things go any farther of course. My problem comes in for one since I know her so well and even though we are friends I will turn into the person I hate being and thats the shy/quiet me and whenever i talk to her on phone or online I got no problems but i do know when we meet I will freeze up. (reason we haven't met yet live about a hour and half away from each other and just haven't made it happen although soon I'm moving near her.)
So any tips or suggestions how to overcome this basically anxiety because I am holding off meeting her till then because I want her to meet me not the mime I become and I really want to hit it off and see if we can maybe be compatible.
2007-12-15 14:22:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also another question. Would we stand a chance because we both have different interest like opposites im more conservative shes very outgoing. (her interest is like dirt bikes, stuff like that. Mine are more like movies, football ect..) Although I am willing to try new things could it work?
2007-12-15 14:26:01 · update #1
Ah I should have mentioned like until recently she moved back to a whole another state for a while which is one reason we didn't meet. Recently she moved back though.
2007-12-15 14:31:03 · update #2
let her know you may freeze up when you meet (i suspect you wont) --- and then stop procrastinating and meet her --- two years and only and hour and a half away??? --- its too long --- think of her ---- have fun
2007-12-15 14:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Practice talking to yourself in the mirror. (=
2007-12-15 22:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by StephXGamer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋