Singles & Dating - 12 September 2007

I fell in love with this really sweet girl. Everyday I find myself missing her more. She's really far away from me, like across the country far away from me. She's only 2 years younger than me, but shes very mature. Grew up quickly. Anyway..how can I minimize these feelings? I wanna be with her so bad =\

2007-09-12 21:16:17 · 9 answers · asked by m1i9k8e8 2

2007-09-12 21:07:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been a good guy all my life. Always shown respect to women. Always tried to be sensitive to their needs, and respect them as people and partners. And I've got nothing but crap for it. Women don't respect me. I always lose them to the @ssholes anyway. So, I'm a bad guy from now on. I'm going to sleep with as many women as I can, and use them any way I want.

2007-09-12 20:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is a very sweet guy, this is what attracted me to him, but on occassion i notice that he lets his daughter get away with murder. I dont know if this is out of guilt or what by i know that him allowing his daughter to manipulate him and our realtionship is driving me nuts. The girl is only eight, but very smart. Our relationship has drifted somewhat because of her and i have asked him why he allows this and sarcastically he aswered, "because i am spineless and a whimp", i just nodded my head in disbelief. What makes this situation so bad is that he is caring, loving, and wants to make sure that u are happy, but deep down something is not right. His daughters mother left her with him to raise and he has sole custody. I know his daughter does not want me around. My boyfriend knows how i feel about her and i know that he feels torn and does not want me to leave, but what do i do?

2007-09-12 20:44:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 20:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by pc 2

My friend whom I have a crush on was sending me home and in the car while driving, he smacked my thigh cos I said something funny but rude. I pretended like it never happened and continued talking about something else because I didn't want him to know I like him by keeping quiet after I was touched...

I don't want him to smack my thigh, I was hoping he would touch my shoulder to usher me into a cinema or some place - you know, THAT kind of touch. Is he toying with my emotions? Because I really like him but I don't think he likes me that way... What can I do about this guy?

2007-09-12 20:04:27 · 20 answers · asked by LindK 2

who would you rather have as a lover a dorky guy who thinks with his heart and has little experience, or a sexy hunk who appears to be a good lover, and also thinks he is one too?

2007-09-12 20:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it you can like a bunch of girls, but not feel anything 'special' about them but, although some girl you will think is special. Kinda hard to put in words, i'm just wondering, I like this girl because shes pretty but I cant stop thinking about her, unlike any other girls, what separates her from the rest?

2007-09-12 20:00:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is my new job and in only fourth month I am facing jealousy and issues please advice. My co worker came to me today and started fight for no reason. let me explain we both are new at our jobs and our supervisor is her relative and best friend. I am simple direct hard working and popular at working due to my helping nature and people find me pretty , gorgeous & sophisticated. we are working on high level marketing. Please advice how do I inform my boss about what’s going on at work as I think they both are teaming up to complain about me to by boss false complaints. I over heard them in rest room . She is never at work and she goes on holiday without informing HR department and shows as remote working hours. She also makes fake prospects customers and none of them go through . As they do not exist . I work day and night to get one client or relation . she does not like that and try to pick up fighting with me on every thing in every meeting. she told me I am younger 30yrs from her I better keep that in mind.

2007-09-12 19:56:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have no mutual friends so when we hang out, it's just the two of us. Problem is, it's been two years and I like him more than a friend and I'm pretty sure he doesn't see me that way. To him, I'm just a small lady who says funny things and I'm one of his odd friends whom he enjoys conversing with.

How can I make him see that I am "date-able?" Are there things I can do so that I appear more attractive to him so that he'll see me differently but in a more positive light? Please help.

2007-09-12 19:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by LindK 2

I was with this guy that I know through a friend the other night . It was completely out of character for me, I usually make guys wait a long time before I will sleep with them but anyway part of the reason why I slept with him was because I'm on the rebound. The next morning he asked me Who was Derek (my ex fiance's name) and I told him he was my ex and asked him why he asked that. Then he said I was calling out his name while we were..well you know. I felt so bad! I mean why didn't he tell me when I was doing it. I didn't even know I had done that. Now, I'm so embarassed. I can't even look at him anymore. Plus, I told my cousin and she told all of our friends about it and they were laughing at me! It's like they have nothing else to talk about it! How can I make them stop and maybe make it up to the other guy?

2007-09-12 19:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently met this guy online (through a dating site). We have gone on a couple dates and everything seems to be working out fine. He has said in the past that he wants to get closer to me and has introduced me to some of his friends. However, we tend to hang out only when he is free and available. Is he just taking me along for the ride or is he interested? At our last date, we went out and held hands for the first time. His emails are confusing and I just want to know if he is interested. His profile is still active online so is he holding out on me? Soo many questions!

2007-09-12 18:53:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl not sur eif she married or not or boy friend ,i want to ask her out,i no i no just ask what can she do, well im kinda shy and just dont no what to do i wish i was diffrent but im not,she works at a store in town i go there to but cloths just to see her stuff i dont need,if i dont hurry up il go broke,,no jokes please just some useful help thanks

2007-09-12 18:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, i have a date with my girl in my room, we're gonna watch a movie, and i just want to know what i can do to make her fall in love with me since this is the first time that we finally are gonna be alone, (her brother is always around cause she can't go no where if he's not going, so this is like the first time we'll finally be together without worring about others). i know this may sound weird, but i don't want to have sex with her yet, cause i think its too soon... please help me to make her fall in love with me!!!

2007-09-12 18:44:12 · 6 answers · asked by Ben 1

I know, it sounds like a really ridiculous question and I'm sure my case isn't any different from the rest, but I still don't know how I should go about this.....

I've only been dating my boyfriend a few months but I've noticed that I don't really like him anymore and have started to like other guys. The problem is that he's really way more into the relationship than I am, is too clingy at times and is very open with how much he adores me. Also, we share all the same mutual friends so breaking up is could cause a lot of tension.

Finally, I really don't want to hurt him. I know at this point its unavoidable but I want him to realize that he didn't actually do anything wrong- he was an amazing boyfriend- and that I'm so, so, so sorry it turned out the way it did.

So.... what do I do?

2007-09-12 18:41:41 · 26 answers · asked by maui wowie. 4

what is your reaction when a guy tell you that
1. he misses you
2. he been thinking of all this time
3. he need you more than anyone else

2007-09-12 18:20:53 · 35 answers · asked by •°¤*♫*¤°•fisco 2

i wanna tell a person i know i like her we are not to close but we flurted last year and this year i wanna go out with her but i dont wanna be rejected cause i liker her soo much what should i dooo i dont wanna lose the one thing that keeps us talking but i wanna make the things talking kiss each other

2007-09-12 18:19:44 · 14 answers · asked by go_pali 2

I, for the first time, just confronted my ex-boyfriend about being gay. He has never come out to me and I decided to ask him if our relationship was a lie. He flat out told me that he had no feelings for me. Why was I so blinded by all of this? And why am I so hurt about this now? Please tell me of any thoughts that you have so I can let this past relationship go!

2007-09-12 18:13:57 · 12 answers · asked by Trista 2

My friend recently broke up with her boyfriend deren. For the past couple of weeks ALL she talks about is deren and what hes been saying to her, and this new guy she likes colin.
I'd try to change the subject but she always brings it back to colin and deren.
If colin isn't online when she is, she'll sit there complaining that he isn't on, and talking about how great he is. If he is online, she will hardly talk to me, and when she does it's about wat colin is saying, or shes pasting parts of their conversation into our convo for me to see.

She wont play tennis with me because colin will be there n shes embarrassed. She wont come to the beach with me cos she says she has study, but she doesnt study. She just sits on msn talking to, or about, colin.

I dont want to tell her to stop talking baout it. How can I hint to her that I would like her to go back to how it used to be>?

2007-09-12 18:03:04 · 20 answers · asked by jeska102 1

We have been in love more than two years.We both pray 5 times a day. But recently we have some great mistakes.We have seen and touched each others very private parts of body. Have we done an unforgivable mistake in the view of Islam?Now we are adament not to do that again before we are married.We have not committed sexual intercourse with each other yet.

2007-09-12 18:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by tomal e 1

I have a friend who is extremely problemed emotionally is paranoid can be an addict,but is also very accomplished-good body, intelligent,a good musician etc....If they do go for these types of men,why?

2007-09-12 17:52:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the past 3 years I have had a serious crush on a neighbor who lives around the corner. Usually I spot him in the neighborhood with his son. I never was 100% sure that he was involved with the mother because I rarely ever saw her, maybe 3x in 3 years while I would see the dad daily.
I am a single mom myself and our kids play together. I know he is attracted and I think he knows that I am too.

Today I mustered up the guts and walked up to him and made some small talk and I asked "I always wondered....are you in a situation.?" He said "Situation, what do you mean" and I went on to ask him if was together with his sons mom." He smiled and said"Yeah..." and I said well I didn't mean to disrespect your situation that but I always wanted to know'"and then we parted ways.

Did I handle that properly.? For some reason I feel rejected and ashamed I wish I could stay inside forever. I NEVER did anything like in my life!

Please advise. Thanks in advance

2007-09-12 17:50:21 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Brookyn 4

I have been reading posts here about love without sex, etc and i always come across the same answer, "its always better without sex." Why? How come? Why is it more romantic, why is there more love if there is no sex? Just the sentence "If there is no sex then its Way Better, its true love, etc." i don't have any idea why people say a relationship is better without sex, do women detest sex so much? Why do you see a relationship without sex is better? I hope my question is clear.

2007-09-12 17:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a month ago, I started dating this guy. We hit it off immediately. He's sweet, smart, funny, nerdy, mature, and cute. Why on Earth would I have a problem?

Well, as things have become more serious, he's become much...um...mushier. Instead of getting along like before (talking, laughing, relating), almost everything he talks about relates to "us." How much he likes me, how happy he is, how much he can't wait to see me next. And always with the cuddling!

Okay, I know. I sound like a complete ingrate for even asking this. But it's not as if I don't like him; I like him very much. Believe me: I hate that this makes me so uncomfortable. It's just that all this over-sweetness and super-closeness is kind of stifling.

So is this just something that comes with a new relationship? Will he back off a little and go back to normal once the "newness" wears off? If I know that we can get back to relating like we did in the beginning (without so much mush), I'll be the happiest girl in town.

2007-09-12 17:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 17:43:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this boy named isaiah and i have liked him since the 3rd grade but now were in 6th.he has a gf and has had her for 3years.but i really wanna go out with him.how do i make him like me?we have alot in common!

2007-09-12 17:43:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 16, and my boyfriend is coming over while my parents are not home tonight. I've done it with him before, but never during my period. Will this be bad? What will happen? Tell me everything, and please soon!!!

P.S. He knows I'm on my period, but says he doesn't care, he just wants me now.

2007-09-12 17:42:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do guys like it when girls tell them how they feel about them? A friend of mine said a girl should NEVER approach a guy and I'm wondering if all guys feel this way?

2007-09-12 17:39:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 17:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by kat 2

2007-09-12 17:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Tony D 2