Singles & Dating - 9 September 2007

all of a sudden after 4 years he has been telling me this for a whole month....
i wonder what did i do this time..thought we fought a lot in recent months..absolutely nothing made him happy.
He wanted me to lose weight ...i did
i did exactly what he wanted..gave him space..
But still all of a sudden he did this...And i know after sometime he would come back if i call him again..but i want to be strong and not call him.
Still i am not able to understand why he is doing this.

2007-09-09 23:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by gloriosa_20 1

every time i wash it with face wash it keeps gettin oily after 5 mins...help ...i'm 14

2007-09-09 23:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by coolgal 3

yesterday around 8 my ex broke up with me. he suggested to stay best friends but i was too upset and ran away and said no. last night i was crying so hard.
how do i get over this guy?
he was my true love.

2007-09-09 23:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend was talking to me on the phone last night and asked me if it was ok if she went to a dance. We've been dating 3 months and she knows I'm not a dancer. But she said she's willing to teach me. But she didn't even ask me to go to the dance she just asked if I would let her go. You see I don't want to say NO and be a party pooper here, but sometimes I really do not trust her, it's sad to say but I have my reasons. and I worry a lot and get jealous easily. Mostly my fault, not hers. But I don't know what to do. I mean even if I'm not a dancer and wouldn't have gone to the dance, an invite still would've been nice. If she asked "there's a dance coming up do you want to go?" then I would've liked it more cause at least it shows she wants me to go. I really have NO idea on what to tell her. I want her to have fun but then again it worries me when she's out like that... what should I do? She knows I don't trust her sometimes. I need some advice here.

2007-09-09 23:39:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've posted some ?s the last few days about taking my own life. i wanted to say thanks for the comments it really helped me think about alot. i talked with my mom, some friends even this girl i'm really close too. u know the important people in my life. and after all that i've decided that i still want to. my friends don't take me serious and think i'm on something. the girl pretty much is rdy to sto talking to me. not cause i told her anything. i don't want her to think that i'm pulling some stunt cause of her cause it's not. it's more of a all around feeling that i've messed up so much in life that i will never have anything worth living for. when it comes down to it i'm a drop of water in the ocean. sure there will be a few people that will notice but the world wont stop. it will make the ten o'clock news one night and that will be that. another crazy kid in an ever more crazy world. i'm sry to everyone that i will let down. i want to be strong but i'm not. idont want to feel

2007-09-09 22:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

its really simple question,i like this guy a lot,im crazy about him but i still don't know about his side.we just met 3 times.whenevr we meet he ask me to wear dark colours only.coz whenever we met im always in light colour dress.but i m hesitant to ask why he say so all the time.do u have any idea?sometimes he force me to change my dress from light to dark colour.why gals?

2007-09-09 22:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by mandy 1

so
there was this girl. i really liike!
and she was a shy girl. so i ask and i ask ans she finally say ok
we go on the date.

i order for the both of us cuz shea too dumb to order. i tell the servant she couldnt read. and bring her cloth to puta round her neck to keep the dirty away.
and the servant brought her the traditional food of mya country
and we eat from same dinner plate.
and when we eat from same dinner plate i puta my hands on her ear and i say i love you i love you the shakepeare man say it, i love you abd then i try to make a cexy time with her an she say no i shy i shy. but then i make a cexy time when we eat from same dinner and the servant he laugh at me.

hjow do i puncsh out the servant?

2007-09-09 22:29:25 · 12 answers · asked by Alfie 2

my bf and i were kissing in his car and when we stopped I was just sitting there for a few seconds when he goes "why do u have to leave"...it REALLY seemed like he wanted to get rid of me?/
would guys generally do this??

2007-09-09 22:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by kera 2

I am asking this because my bfd and I are Christians of different religious backgrounds. I believe Biblically sex outside marriage is sin and he agree with me on that. But he believes that masterbation is not sin since it is not.He wants to roove it unbiblically which I don`t agree. He wants us to masterbate with each other which I consider it immoral. We have been dating for a year now, and he is relactant to take the next step. Is he afraid to commit or he is satisfy with materbation as he approoves of it? I am fade up of too longwaiting for him to take the next step because I made it clear to him what I want. Instead he want to move in with me as co-habiation short of relation whereby we either masterbate until we legally get married or what I don`t know.I also refused because I can`t move in with a guy before we are married.It doesn`t make sense to me.Can somebody out there help me what this guy is really realyy after?I am confused because I am about to tell him to back off!!

2007-09-09 21:10:12 · 5 answers · asked by SAW 3

been with my bf for 3 years now. we don't live together yet and i have 3 little girls part-time that he loves very much and often babysits for me while i run errands.

we've had major issues in the past b/c i have PMDD and wasn't diagnosed with it up until 3 months ago. i am now taking medication and saw a counselor for 2 months to learn coping skills. this was the first month that i was symptom free and our relationship was great.

about a month ago, we got into a HUGE fight (almost broke up) right before he left to go to his grandpa's funeral in chicago. this was one of many before i got better. he's taken space from me (last time was about 1.5 years ago and we actually broke up for 3 weeks). while he was in chicago-i called him but he didnt answer and i left him a voicemail but sounded angry to him when he checked it so he didnt call back b/c he said he would have broke up w/me. instead he called a girl from work. more below please read...

2007-09-09 20:59:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

l no its wrong but l don't no wht to do .My boyfrnd he is not from my country he says he marrried her to get papers. Am the one whom he does everything with. this weekend l run away from his house cause l don't no wht to do l think we don't have a future pliz tell me wht to do cause am so confussed. and my ex l told you guy about l saw him yestarday he said he want to fix things out .So we decide for him to come and pick me up at my house as he dosen't no were am staying l promised him l will call him but l didn't call him.one more thing l working for my boyfrnd in his business.plesa help me on wth to do

2007-09-09 20:58:26 · 17 answers · asked by holy 2

Guys. I have had this girl for two months now and I cannot just have an erection for more than two minutes even after romancing. She is good but we just cannot do anything and now she thinks I have a problem yet I get an erection by even hugging other girls. What could be the problem? Any way out? For the girls, what is wrong with me or this girl?

2007-09-09 20:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by quorora 1

My bf and i split months ago and i am not yet fully over him. Recently i've been seeing this guy but he sometimes seems into me then others he seems really half-assed and it gets on my nerves and i find myself wondering what he wants from me, as a result it puts me off, as lately i feel nothing but disappointment from guys, i feel like if i don't date anyone anytime soon i'll never get over my ex, and then i am happy to be single too, if you've ever been in my situation before what happened? Should i bother fighting for a relo that is so new already?

2007-09-09 20:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I am a virgin, quiet and will not give them sex till marriage. And also I like to be independent and even a simple act of walking and holding hands annoys me and I feel like doing my own thing. Or even an act of going shopping and having him hanging around stifles my independence. I am not autistic, just used to being independent and doing my own thing. I find men to be pains who try to change me and constantly are after anything sexual. Am I normal? I love my own splendid isolation and men find this hard

2007-09-09 20:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

What does it mean when a girl says..

"I don't know you well enough"?

Well first off all, my friends heart is busted and not functioning properly now. I was there at the moment it happened.. it looked pretty brutal. Hope it never happens to me X_X;;.. But he said he liked her and she replied saying "I don't know you well enough..." Before this happened, i talked to her myself and she said she liked him???!? but then after that she said i don't know you well enough...??

2007-09-09 20:04:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know how everyone says the girls shouldn't cling to their boyfriends and give them space etc. what is the limit to giving boyfriends space? i'm sure there're no definite answers to this but i'd like to hear opinions. (:

2007-09-09 19:48:01 · 4 answers · asked by dinOgaL(: 3

2007-09-09 19:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by Mpiane A 1

long story short, i really liked a guy, i slept with him, he didnt really like me but lead me on, we stopped messin around, i still had feelings, he and my best friend hooked up, my feelings are beyond hurt, she never apologizes, i find out from a mutual friend that he is using her. should i tell her or mind my business?

2007-09-09 19:45:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

(thanks for the help)

2007-09-09 19:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2

if i were to see my ex gf, what should i do? say hi and work our problem out? even tho the girl broke it of becuz of rumors, should i still try and ork things out? what should i say? should i let her see me, but i dont go see her, and see if she calls me or rights to me the same day? or what?

2007-09-09 19:39:29 · 15 answers · asked by DancingInTheMoonlight 2

I have this guy friend....a REALLY good guy friend..he is DEFF. one of my best friends..i sort of like him but here is where the conflict is...he has a girlfriend..WHO IS ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS ALSO! But he always acts flirty..I mean at lunch he always comes to my table, sits next to me and steals food right off my plate lol (his GF doesnt have the same lunch period as us) He always walks down the hall with me..but him and his gf are like PERFECT for eachother and they seem like the happiest couple ever and they have been going out for a while now...but anyways im 12..help me plzzz

2007-09-09 19:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies do you think I came on too strong on her( well actually not came up) because I did this while we chat on myspace!

Well It's been a while since I;ve known this girl we were in a class together But I graduated already she will soon graduate as well!

Anyways we chat almost daily on myspace for hours and then I asked her out (I know it was lame through myspace But I didnt know where she lived or anything that's why I asked there)
And she agreed to go out with me, so then I asked for her phone # and I told her that I didn't want to pressure her into giving it to me If she felt uncomfortable doing so! and I also told her if she wanted I could give her mine that way she would hit me up when she wanted!

Well days have passed and she didn't gave me an answer! and she won't even chat with me anymore!

WhY do you think this is? Did I came on too strong? Please tell me what you think happened! Thanks

2007-09-09 19:24:31 · 24 answers · asked by Vicz101 5

ok everyone kept telling me to let my boyfriend go but if oyu think about it and you let oyur first true love go then you dont know if there going to come back so boys give me a heads up on what to do because guys no what to say.

2007-09-09 19:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by lovergirl_82 1

me and my fiance used to have sex all the time but now that im pregant we stopped its been about 2 months since we have had sex and he was always so easy to get hard and he would stay that way.but last night i was tring to get him hard and it took me awhile and then i did and he got up to turn off the light and he was limp again.but last week i was tryn to get him hard and it was easy.we did not have sex though.is this normal? could he be cheating on me idk i have no clue?

2007-09-09 19:21:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

well im 14 and latley ive been looking at alot older guys, like that are 50 and older. and i thnk there hot, my friends tink i have a weird fetish or soemthing, i feel so horny when i look at guy with either long hair, on motorbikes, wearing tight jeans or even leather, am i disgusting???

2007-09-09 19:20:15 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean sometimes it is but what if you like a guy but he hasn't asked you out on a date yet but still you enjoy hanging out with him, watching movies and talking with him.

(we only made out once but he's tried to finger me. I just like cuddleing with him.)

2007-09-09 19:19:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-09 19:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

she tells u this whole story about her life and this goes on for a month but then she cant lie no more and tells u that everything she said was not true and was just proving a point except for some parts but in the end she feels bad and wants to give the person she did this too a try again but lets him in on the truth would u trust her??

2007-09-09 19:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by bigbrowndikk 1

I look over to see, hair that is not mine, in my BF's brush!!!!
True enough: It's the same color and almost same length BUT this is the incriminating factor........ I wear fake hair, (senthetic hair doesn't have split ends) This hair does!!! WTF?
AND it's curly, (I flat-Iron my damn hair)!, I dont use his brush, and I am positive it wasn't there a few days ago......

We had sex last night, his penis wouldn't even stay hard??? And now I find hair. (is there a connection)?
I asked his resposes were: "It could be my sister's hair." (she stays in Arizona, I doubt if she used his brush, it would STILL be there a month later)
"I Dont know whose hair that is, I got more important things going on, than to worry about whose hair is in my brush." **Rolls over and is now going to sleep**

Am I OVERREACTING?????

2007-09-09 19:11:58 · 15 answers · asked by B.B. 3

well im 14 and i went to the city and i saw this guy with really long hair and i love guys with long hair, and he was wearing a normal t shirt tucked in and tight high jeans, and he looked liek a real rocker and he was abotu 50, and he was soooo hot. the past few days ive been thinking abtout him and me having sex.and latley ive been thinking of having sex with like every hot guys i see, i just want to quit schol and soon a i can and get some friends and rent my own house. i just dream about walking into a bar with a leather jacket on with bikers looking at me then you knwo having a smoke and drinking then been hit on all the time. and im starting to like guys that are oldot older leik i saw a guy on tv that was atleat 65 and i though he was hot. i want to be in a band and as a lead singer when in older. allll my friends tell me im f****** disgusting for liekng older guys but i woudl love to live my dream. do you all think that's a good life?

2007-09-09 19:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous