long story short, i really liked a guy, i slept with him, he didnt really like me but lead me on, we stopped messin around, i still had feelings, he and my best friend hooked up, my feelings are beyond hurt, she never apologizes, i find out from a mutual friend that he is using her. should i tell her or mind my business?
2007-09-09 19:45:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes she knew we slept together, she knew i had feelings for him and she still flirted with him right in front of me. she said it was okay for them to talk because he and i hadnt messed around in a long time. we went thru a rough patch when she told me of the "affair" but we are still best friends. she is totally in love with him and he wont even take her into public and she didnt even get the # to his main cell phone until he was completely drunk one night. i love her and i dont want to hurt her so i am choosing not to tell her because ive witnessed her do this to other girls and i never thought i would be left in her wake but im so sorry to say, what goes around, comes around.
2007-09-09 21:31:36 · update #1
thank u so much for taking time out to respond to me. i have been hurting for a year now and its nice to know that i am not the one in the wrong.
2007-09-09 21:39:43 · update #2
What goes around comes around.
I think it's wrong to date a best
friends man, especially when that
friend knows that you had feelings
for him and he did you wrong.
I say mind your business, and when
she gets hurt, that's what she gets!
If you tell her, she'll just think you're
jealous, and trying to break them up.
2007-09-09 20:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell her u said she is ur best friend and am sure u do not want her to hurt as u ,and someone need to teach that boy a lesson we r not a game to play with
PLS don't make boys rule ur life
email me if u wanna talk more am here for u OK!!!!!
2007-09-10 03:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by SilVeR rOsE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, does your friend know that you guys slept together. And if she did, and you still cherish her as a friend, tell her that he used you and he may do the same to her. If you are a good friend, you will at least warn her. It is up to her to listen. Good luck!
2007-09-10 02:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you could try and tell her, but she may react by thinking you're telling her that out of jealousy. If I were you I would let her find out what a pig he is on her own.
2007-09-10 02:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by becesque 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well are u sure he's using her..ifhe i..let her know..because its better that u tell her and she be mad...at u for a while than her finding out and then blaming u for everything
personally i think its ****** up of both of them to do such a thing to u
good lcuk
2007-09-10 02:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by $_$+*_*+@_@=me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the mutual friend should tell her... otherwise, she'll never believe you and that's pointless.
2007-09-10 02:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eh screw em .. you don't need them .. dump both and be happy. That is one ignorant best friend !!
you don't need them upseting you!!
they are trashy
2007-09-10 02:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a dog! tell her maybe you can salvage friendship
2007-09-10 03:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋