Singles & Dating - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 23:33:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 23:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-09-11 23:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Intellithug 3

jenny is pretty and nice, we like each other, sex is wonderful but I cant give her my heart

she has ex boyfriend she is still connected to him emotionally.she hides something to me .sometimes she lies to me not to hurt my feelings but i feel hurt.

she tells me she misses me everyday but I cant believe it..I once told her "I dont believe you, I really want to love you
but I CANT,its very desperate feeling" she replied " I tell you the truth " STILL i dont believe her but we are great in bed.

I say to myself
"If I am happy beside her why do I have to question her
making myself miserable, I know I cant love her without trusting her.but why my heartt needs that kind of trust?"

If my tongue enjoys fine wine why do I v to question its genuine french or not?

humans are fickle , what the hell is trust when it comes to love?

2007-09-11 23:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is a successful dj, he works in different clubs around the country every weekend, he has loads of fans who adore him, most of which are girls. They are all over him when they see him, hugging and kissing him, wearing clothes with his name on etc. it really didnt bother me at first but lately i its starting to annoy me. And its really boring for me if im with him, and loads of ppl are hogging him, i dont usually know anyone so im bored out my face, while he is getting flogged.
im starting to feel a bit paranoid cos there are so many good looking girls who want him. what shall i do ? dont suppose there is any cure for paranoia is there

2007-09-11 23:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by me 1

2007-09-11 22:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 22:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this girl in my class....and well she knows my name and stuff...but we've never spoken
anyways...i wanna go out with her ....and i dont wanna spend so much time getting to know her .....casue last time i did that with a girl...i turned into her best friend.....
anyways....if i just asked her out, out of the blue
wat are my chances?
1%?
10%?
50%?
100%?
i dunno

2007-09-11 22:50:03 · 19 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2

I do not understand the older women younger men dating, and makes you think it is all about SEX.
I think older men and younger women make more sense, and make you think he has MONEY.
People will say why a double standard, here is why.
Most the time the older woman has kids of her own, hopefully a career. Yet they will date a man who is 21, with no career, no life experience. But he has a functional penis.

So you want to say you in 40s have something in common with a 20 year old? Doesn't that comment make you look bad. If men mature slower than women? If that places him in kindergarten as you graduated high school? How sad to be 40 and have common interest as a 20 year old boy?

2007-09-11 21:01:10 · 2 answers · asked by G1rL1nLA 2

I know that she finds me attractive. She is phillipino, and another woman I work with who is phillipino has told me about her and I told the lady that the girl is cute. She is so shy and doesnt speak to anyone. I have tried to innitiate conversation, but she just wants to read her book in the break room. WHen I told the lady, that the girl was cute, later that day she gave me eye contact twice. The next day I tried talking to her but she was only interested in her book. I even tried asking her questions about herself and she just gave me a yes or no answer. How do you get a shy girl to open up? I know that she finds me attractive bc I have seen her looking at me in the corner of my eye a few times, but she wont look at me if I am looking into her eyes. What can I do to get her to open up?

2007-09-11 18:54:43 · 8 answers · asked by Peter P 2

I have heard that American girls are the most easy-to-get for sex. Is it true?I am not sure i just heard it. Is it really true?

http://nomarriage.com/fd.html

2007-09-11 18:52:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey you guys it turns out the guy that i like doesn't like me, but forget about him. How can i be more confident and feel sexy and radiant in myself. He doesn't really have to tell me that he doesn't find me attractive, and he never could. The nail in the coffin was it would be cool if you were a guy, and saying that my friend (big boobs, model walk) and me combined would make the perfect woman. I don't like the idea that to him, i'm not enough. People have told me that i could be a model, but he sees that i'm pretty but nothing in comparison to other girls that he likes. Fair enough, i want to look and feel sexy for me and attract other guys that will acknowledge me as beautiful and sexy, and all the things he doesn't see. I can't chase him anymore it breaks my heart, i cant be the little sidekick that appears desperate for his attention. Does anyone have any tips for building self esteem and sexual confidence, i'm done with chasing this guy for love, theres a whole ocean of men.

2007-09-11 18:48:47 · 30 answers · asked by lotus flower 1

So I prefer to date interracially and so does one of my friends.

She has a body more like Nicole Ritche and I have a body more like Beyonce. We are both black females, both 5'5 and I am lighter skinned.

I notice that black men tend to get upset or give ME more bad looks when we are both walking with white guys.

I think this is due to my body type being more desirable to black men than hers is.

I mean I never hear a black man complain that Nicole Ritche only dates white guys (even though she is mixed) But if Beyonce did it I am sure they would get mad.

2007-09-11 18:44:08 · 4 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2

lately i have been complaining to my boyfriend about his wrong doings..and how i feel he doesnt appreciate me..BUT every single damn time, he finds a way to twist it in a way it seems like its my fault..(like one time i caught him lying..he said why listen to other ppl and hes getting mad at me)..im just so damn tired of the blame always being on me.if i say something, he says something back and says im selfish.. .sometimes i just want him to just say hes sorry or something..im very dissapointed in him and everytime i say something..i just wanan give up now cuz i think in my head..(oh my god, its happening again because im thinking i did nothing wrong..but the blames on me.. am i stubborn? is he?..i really dont know what to do.. our two year anniversary is coming up..and i was very excited.. please help someone =(

2007-09-11 18:40:15 · 2 answers · asked by girl 1

Where have all the cute YOUNG hick boys gone?! :[

2007-09-11 18:00:47 · 6 answers · asked by omfgbeky 2

which do you prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural and why?

2007-09-11 17:57:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, this is not just a momentary crush. This has been an issue for me for for over five years now.

Second, I'd like to admit I was a romantic idiot. In high school, I was completely inexperienced in relationships. I had a crush on one of my good friends that eventually grew into something more. I think I may have exaggerated it in my own mind; I wrote her some really serious letters confessing my feelings. I don't remember exactly what I wrote. We hung out together a little bit after high school, having lunch together and stuff. I finally got up the nerve to ask her out, and she turned me down. We grew apart after that, but we remained friends. I've seen her only once in the past year.

Half a decade later, and I still can't get her out of my head. It's not deliberate at all. But I have recurring dreams and I miss her very, very much. I feel that if I can't resolve this in my mind, it's going to affect my mental health and/or future relationships.

What can I do?

2007-09-11 17:47:59 · 23 answers · asked by Satellite_K 2

From my experience it is the best way to tell how good a person is.Uglier women tend to be more hateful towards the world.

2007-09-11 17:38:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

you live with your mom and dad

2007-09-11 17:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does he think? Does he get freaked out by it? Esp. if the mom is very very good to her and seems like she likes the girl alot....

2007-09-11 17:29:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

women don,t obay like it said when tie the knot,, whats up with that,,

2007-09-11 17:27:04 · 17 answers · asked by rocketman 3

I met this girl on an on-line dating service , and over the course of a month we were talking on the phone a lot and went out a few times. We connect on every level and are very compatable. I knew right away I wasnt overly attracted to her but since all of my past girlfriends were really attractive and they didnt work out, I figured i'd go for the compatability thing. Well, now we've slept together once and she calls & texts me all the time and is making all sorts of plans for us. I really dont know how to handle this, she is super sweet and I know she has fallen for me & I dont want to hurt her. I could probably deal with not being totally physically attracted to her, but I really didnt enjoy the sex. And just so you know, I didnt initiate the sex, but I didnt do anything to say no. Im in my 30's and am triing to have a cautious approach to a realationship, im not triing to play games or sleep around, I just wanted to know all about it. Its not what I want. How can I not hurt her now?

2007-09-11 17:13:06 · 28 answers · asked by CrAzY D 2

I am 17 years old and I go to high school and I must say I REALLY REALLY LIKE my History teacher! he is the funniest, most kindest and caring guy I have ever met! He is just wonderful! I don't find him sexually attractive but I just want to spend a lot of time with him..... he is more than double my age....
is this wrong?
THank you for any help!

2007-09-11 17:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anna G 1

Ok....thiere is this guy and hes not so cute,but really nice and kinda annoying and i really dont want to go to homecoming with him! He asked me and i said if i go he will be my first pick but i tottaly dont want to go with him!?!?! How do i tell him in a nice way i dont want to go with him?

2007-09-11 16:55:06 · 25 answers · asked by lynz 2

ok so i kinda feel like venting a lot about this situation. i called this guy up because we'd been chatting on the internet and i figured he was too shy to call me. I leave him a message saying hey and asking if he wanted to hang out. he calls back and says ya id "love" to hang out , when? so i call him back and tell him when im available but he hasnt callled me back..or even tried to get in contact wiht me. i dont know if its something i did. I even tried leaving hima message on aim but he apparently ignored it... is this guy nuts or am i. is there any explaination for this? so confused/ really annoyed. aagh....

2007-09-11 16:50:06 · 5 answers · asked by snowflake14u 2

I will be turning 16 years old this Sunday on the 16th.
I haven't had a boyfriend, neither a first kiss. >-<
Friends of mine have all had their first kiss, and share of boyfriends. (They started dating what in grade 7-8)
I just feel like the awkward, since I'm the only one of my friends who hasn't dated.
I’ve not rejected anybody, due to the fact I’ve never been asked out.
I think possibly because I’m quite shy plays a part in it.
It’s not like I want to have my first kiss with someone joe blow that I don’t love or care for,
I want to have a relationship with a guy and I want it to be special and meaningful
Anyways I'm blabbering on.

I just think I'm a ‘late bloomer’, I'm just dating-challenged, or I have been cursed because my parents were popular in high school and dated many people. Haha

Anyways,
If I do like someone instead of “the guy approach girl” thing, should I approach guys?
Or
Should I just enjoy the rest of my teen years, and just wait for the right guy to come along?

2007-09-11 16:47:28 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 16:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by trippinggirl88 1

Ok so my friend told me this grl alexa was talking about me and i wanna know if i should confront her or let it go this girl is a complete loser and im so mad....she doesn't even kno me so what gives her the rite to...........ughhhhh this is driving me mad

2007-09-11 16:34:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Dating for 1yr, my girlfreind and I are in recovery. 13 yrs. for her,19 mo. for me. Divorced for most of her sobriety. Recently her ex has also wanted to get clean and sober, and now attends the same meetings we attend. She's very good at helping anyone who is willing to help themselfs. Her ex is part time employed. She offered him odd jobs around her house to help with monies. Her ex does not have transportation. My girlfreind cares for disabled children and cannot leave her house in the evenings. We talk at night via Instant messaging. One night she messaged that her ex was going to stay the night. I replied:" I did'nt need to here that". She asked If I trusted her. YES I do! Next day we go to her mom's for BBQ. She invited her ex , then told me. Later we dropped her ex off. It was a strange and odd feeling to me. Not in anger but now knowing I was upset, I told her that I would have asked her approval 1st if the roles were reversed. She hasn't spoke to me since, but I've tried.

2007-09-11 16:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by david 4

a - successful guy .. but you really dont get along.. lots of fights or arguments.. but he very successful guy.. he can support you and family..

b - not so successful guy.. but you get along .. no fights no arguments.. but only successful enough to support himself and .. you..

2007-09-11 16:20:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous