Singles & Dating - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 05:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

A good friend of mine joined Yahoo Personals earlier this year because of a dating rut. Well, she met someone on there and they have been casually seeing each other from time to time. She says they have good chemistry and I have met him and he seems like a good person. Here's the issue: Now, she says they haven't been nothing more than good friends getting to know each other better and she thinks that he is the "one" but doesn't want to rush into anything. When she decided to check out her personal's account the other day, she noticed that he had been active in last 24 hours. She was a little sad, thinking that maybe he only considers her as nothing more than a friend and was still searching for his right "one."
As a friend I told her not to read to much into anything. They have built a good friendship out of it and nothing romantic has been done, so I do not seem the harm in him continuing to use the service. Was I wrong to say this or do you think she should look elsewhere?

2007-09-11 05:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by Tag 2

I was currious about your reactions ladies... If you had or do have Hairy arms, and if a random guy would walk up to you and say something like... "Wow your arms are nice!" or "I like your arms, they are hairy" or something along those lines... what would you say to that man?
And if he asked if he could feel your armhair, what would you say to him?
Is there a polite way to do this?

2007-09-11 05:11:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
My BF and I recently watched the movie Octopussy. Seeing all those women in sarees filled him with various thoughts. He now wants me to wear a saree, so that he can undress me, and we can make love. I find it bizzare. I am chinese and have never worn a saree. Some women look ravishing in a saree but I can't imagine wearing one myself. I don't mind trying out a sarong or something familiar. And all of it for just enough long time for him to undress me...I love him and want to accommodate his wishes. What do I do...

2007-09-11 05:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and I really want to break up with him. But I have a problem.....I'm not good a sweet break-ups. Normally if I want to break up with a guy I just tell them it's over or pick a fight and never answer their calls again. I don't want to wait for this guys to do something wrong. I just want him to leave me alone.
He hs never been married has no kids and my good money. I have 3 kids and make okay money ( enough to support me and my kids). But everytime we do anything or I take my kids somewhere he wants to go and i end up paying his way. He borrows money from me. He will act like he has left his debt card at home or something and will ask if I can pay and he will pay me back when we get home. I NEVER get it back.
And now that I'm looking for another house he is kind-of hinting around that he wants to stay with me....NO WAY. I know I'd end up taking care of the bills.
So, I can I tell him to screw off in a way the will actully work.

2007-09-11 04:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by okay,okay....i give up 1

I just cant seem to get along with the dog. I think it is because it continues to cost me so much money because she insist that he have the best of everything and he destroys what he does have. I swear I have spent more on the dog than my own children in the past few months. That is another issue. She says the dog is just like a child. I can honestly say I do not see for anyone who has children (she does not) to feel the same way about an animal as they do they're kids. Maybe like she says, " it's just you, most everyone else feels the way I do."

2007-09-11 04:52:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 04:40:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am going to be 50 next year. one of my partner is about my age, and the other one is 35 . we are working on week days, so our sex life was only on weekend. otherwise end up late at office the next day.should i have more frequent sex with them?

2007-09-11 04:38:17 · 3 answers · asked by hamzah b 2

ook this is very serious, so i met a guy around a month ago through a mutual friend and we have been talking on the phone for around 2 weeks straight now and he seems like a pretty nice guy so far. so yesterday we were on the phone and he was like he wants to see me and stuff and he said how he has expectations for the first, second, and third date. and i asked him what it was and he was like "well im sure u wont agree cuz most girls ive been with dont agree" and im like "just tell me" and he was like okay and he said that on the first date he wants the girl to show him her breasts, then on the second date he wants the girl to give him head, then on the third date she goes over to his house and its bang bang( u kno what that means)..anyways i definately do not agree with this and i told him that..but now i dont think i trust him anymore cuz he sounds kinda fishy..what do u think or how would u respond if u heard this? advice please..thanks

2007-09-11 04:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

most girls i know seem to deny they ever masturbate... i find this very difficult to believe as both men and women and incredibly sexual beings....anyone think why they would admit to it less?

2007-09-11 04:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by llamarse 2

i was twice dumped by two different boys once earlier in 11th std and know in 14thstd second one too and the reason is another women in their life.... so i have decided to be a flirt like every other boy behaves and dump boys too and then lastly get married to my parents choice person m,i rt to take such decision ? coz, know i can,t trust boys and fed up of this things. or else friends suggest me another option to move on.......

2007-09-11 04:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by pari 1

hi everybody I'm really crushing this guy that's really close friends with my cousins the thing is that he's only all over me when he's drunk. When he is sober it hi and bye conversations but when he has some alcohol in his system he dance up on each other and have the best time ever! I remeber on new years I went up to him and said happy new year and he wasdrunk and he french kissed my shoulder..lol Like what the hell? It was hot but was kinda weird I guess..lol Also when he's drunk he tells me how i'm his favorite and stuff...is it the alcohol or does the truth come out when someone is totally wasted? he'll never admit any of this!

2007-09-11 04:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 04:26:35 · 2 answers · asked by callawaygolf31 1

Whenever I help someone out, they obviously say thank you and I feel weird about it as if I don’t deserve being said that since I’m only doing what I like to do…. I’m confused…..=/

2007-09-11 04:24:45 · 2 answers · asked by ღ 5

2007-09-11 04:13:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

some people on this site give a long megillah of answers to simple short questions ?

2007-09-11 04:12:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been hurt twice in love and it took me years to recover from my broken heart both times and now i've been alone for couple of years and feel happy on my own. I just wanted to ask, is it abnormal or weird in todays world to be alone and not want to have a romantic partner/sexual partner. I am happy but i don't know what others feel about this.

2007-09-11 04:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty 2

Where do you live?"
I say she is really asking " What is your net worth?"

What do you think?

2007-09-11 04:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

going out with some one does that mean your not single ?

2007-09-11 03:46:56 · 31 answers · asked by random.princess 4

today nearlly the whole school knows me and this boy is going out and the teachers are even making jokes how could i hide my embarrassment please help i'm even like scared to talk to him i'm to shy! please help me thx xxxxx

2007-09-11 03:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by random.princess 4

or lots of heartacre .

2007-09-11 03:33:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been asking questions about the current girl I'm dating. some times she's all over me, telling me she's so attracted to me, she thinks i'm great, and asking me deep questions about marriage. then on the other hand she's telling me she's not ready for anything serious. I'm like OK. then yesterday she texts me something and i couldn't respond for 3 hours. she text me 3 hours later and said did i say something wrong? I said no, i was just busy. like she might be upset that i wasn't talking to her. then last night i get this long email how she's not into me as much as i'm into her (huh?), she doesn't know what she wants, she enjoys her freedom, and she just wants to be friends. I texted her this morning and said "look i have enough friends, i don't need anymore. I appreciate the offer but i don't want to be just your friend. i need a confident woman who knows what she wants" she went back and forth like a yo-yo. it drove me nuts. what the hell does she want? she seems scared.

2007-09-11 03:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by survivor 1

Just tell what you think, maybe you know somethings i dont know about.

2007-09-11 03:30:24 · 12 answers · asked by carib flower 2

Is this normal?

2007-09-11 03:25:36 · 47 answers · asked by lala 1

so my school is haveing a homecoming dance this year for the1st time but its girls ask guys!!! and theres this guy that likes me and i like him 2. but he has a girl friend i hate her to death should i ask him to go with me or would that be mean cuz he has a gf. she told him she was not going to ask him. and in the halls when we talk she gets mad and talks **** about me with who ever she is with but its funny cuz they all ways tell me what she says.lol!! he always tells my bf that he likes me!!!! what should i do ask him? or not?

2007-09-11 03:25:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant seem to have a normal conversation plus i find it hard to control my urges....like i make suggestive comments before i even tell the guy that i like him. I am insecure too and i'm unable to love myself. I think i'm ugly and stupid. Ive a lot of hidden resentments and anger as i was raped when i was 8. I'm so depressed and i cant go on like this anymore.

2007-09-11 02:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

so last november i met a female online and was a over the road truck driver at the time so i decided to meet her in person.we met in tulsa ok and i ended up moving to missouri to be with her.well its now 10 months later and she flipped out and left me and called me every name in the book when i got a payday loan to compensate for the money we did not have one payday.i was hurt at work and couldnt work full time anymore physically and she was working at the church of scientology making around 40 dollars a week.anyways i didnt tell her about the loan and she ended up finding it when she was snooping through my email.she flipped out and broke up with me..said every possible mean thing she could and now not even a month later is sleeping with some other guy she just met.she had one date with him and slept with him the same night.she keeps asking me for money because financially she cant do it alone and i still love her.what the hell should i do?go back to ca and forget about her @ss?help!

2007-09-11 02:56:30 · 6 answers · asked by menzel_damain 1

Really, I just dont understand it! Most of them like playing mind games and I can never really get a for sure answer whether or not they are interested...What do I need to do to bring forth the answer a little quicker? I met this girl that is very flirty and always gives me a hard time...nothing serious but more of a flirty hard time...Is this a sign?

2007-09-11 02:53:11 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my gf and I first met we discussed (foolishly) our past sexual histories. I had been with 5 women total in 4 years while she had been with 27 in 2 years (not including oral only). At first this did not bother me but as we dated sometimes she would blurt stuff out that I really did not want to know, like, "I used to kiss all the guys in the club, I had sex in car parked at a busy gas station, I "messed around in a porta-potty" and now I'm having trouble getting these images out of my head. What really troubles me is that I found a letter she had written in which she said the thought of me with the other women made her want to puke but made no mention of her past except "she didn't like to talk about it but sometimes it slips out". Later in the letter she says she must learn to get over it. I think she has an easier time because mine were in the context of relationships and not drunken oneniters. I do know she had low self esteem before she met me but I don't know what to do.

2007-09-11 02:48:03 · 17 answers · asked by poison_memory 1

Is it cute? Or is it annoying? Why?

2007-09-11 02:42:14 · 14 answers · asked by jeska102 1