i was twice dumped by two different boys once earlier in 11th std and know in 14thstd second one too and the reason is another women in their life.... so i have decided to be a flirt like every other boy behaves and dump boys too and then lastly get married to my parents choice person m,i rt to take such decision ? coz, know i can,t trust boys and fed up of this things. or else friends suggest me another option to move on.......
2007-09-11 04:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by pari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
those who dumped you were not for you. each failed relationship teaches its lesson,whether we admit it or not. try to recall everything that happened in a non emotional analytical way and recognise ur own mistakes, even if they were not deliberately made mistakes. write them down on ur yahoo notebook. go through it often,and try not to repeat these mistakes. love ur self first and treat urself as you like to be treated by others,especially ur boyfriends. read some good books on relationships,Men are from mars and women from venus. its a good book. it will help u prepare for next relationship.And if you are not a flirt by nature,u'll only hurt urself by trying to be one.Good luck
2007-09-11 04:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't gonna happen.
That is why you are saying I broke up, when you break up something, things are no longer the same. Something is in pieces. It's broken.
Pick up your pieces young lady and move on, you will find healing down the road.
And if you think that doing what has been done to you is going to make you feel better, you are in for a rude awakening! Remember the golden rule. You cannot possibly behave like others because of what happened to you, that is not your destiny you far better than that, can't you see that is why there has to be something broken? Detached, because things were not compatible!
I know the feeling, you can't trust anybody but there is one you can trust and forgive and that is you. Love yourself and treat yourself like a Queen if nobody will. You don't need a man to treat your self like a queen!
Pick up your broken pieces and walk down the road, you will find healing. Hang out with eagles, high fliers, people who don't want to keep flying and not bring brought down by every weight.
2007-09-11 11:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think you are hurt and want to hurt others as well, then i see its not fair.. because you were hurt by those two boys from 11th and 14th stds not others. no one is same; everyone is not good, everyone is not bad either, so now its all up to you and your decision of feeling free or hurting other by being hooked in the relation.
and since even you want to get married to your parents choice later in future, then why do you want to destroy your and your family's image in future.. people may say, 'oh this girl had so many boyfriends.. so we won't let our son marry her'.. so come on if they dumped you, then its not the end of the world. you are in 14th std. and you got lot to do in life, just study, let things flow and be successful in what you want to be... then just see how happy you will be and who knows you will get someone whom you never want to dump!
anyway good luck Pari!
2007-09-11 11:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by GHOTANE_ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find contentment and wholeness in yourself while remaining single first before seeking another relationship. Some boys CAN be trusted. There are good ones out there. Give yourself some time. Find freedom in joy within yourself, not just relationships.
2007-09-11 11:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to understand that every boy is not going to act the same! everyone is different and eventually someone will want you as much as you want them!! its like my parents use to tell me, keep being the way you are and eventually someone will appreciate you and what you bring to the table!! so my advice to you is dont change "you" because of past relationships! be yourself at all times and eventually that rite person will show up on your door-step!!! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-09-11 11:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dman #4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY....I have not a clue what you just wrote!!!
2007-09-11 11:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2007-09-11 11:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Clarissa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋