Singles & Dating - 15 September 2007

i've been going out with my fella for 6 years,we've a healthy sex life,we like trying new things. we did try anal sex a few times before but i've found it extreemely painful and uncomfortable... now recently he's been asking to try it again and when i refuse it's sure to end in a row. i've tried to explain to him but it never seems to get through. i feel i'm not able to satisfy him any more. has any body ever had this experence and could you please tell me how you delt with it.

2007-09-15 23:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by ashanti 1

My boyfriend overheard 2 women talking at the deli counter (I was not with him) One was talking about not being able to get enough work, in the particular area I am hiring in. OK. so, my problem here is this, we have a new home phone. He said he didn't remember the number, which is conceiveable (I don't) although I have had him tell it to me before when I had to give it to someone. He does however know my cell phone number. But her gave her HIS cell phone number. Is this an issue? I am asking you, because I need an unbiased opinion, because I am aware I have a jealous nature. When stems partially from past expierences. But he also knows, or should know I would be uncomfortable with this. We are supposed to get married in 2 months. I don't like him giving his number to some other woman. Even if it was supposed to be for my buisness. But, he did tell me about it. Give me your opinions please. Thanks everyone

2007-09-15 23:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by OhWell (Kiss my cute furry feet) 5

Hi guys,

I have been with a girl for a few months now and we have started to have sex and i stop early (after 3min) before i ejaculate because i feel it coming on and i dont wana embarress myself. Any cures for premature ejaculation that will actually work?!

Thanks

Ben

2007-09-15 23:19:57 · 8 answers · asked by Ben S 1

It is like they relish this and have fun with this. Why do they like girls who can give them a rise?

2007-09-15 22:56:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 22:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by postive_thinker 1

2007-09-15 22:38:47 · 2 answers · asked by Ice Age 1

i have had 3 real boy friends! all 3 cheated why? im still good friends with them and they all tell me that i was the best girlfriend that they had and they wish it was diff... so why did they cheat? with the 1st he was my 1st kiss and every thang i was 16 and lived all on my own i work and cook every night my house was always clean and we never got in to a fight! in tell he sleep with some one! it was over after that her told me what i dont know aint going to heart me! i always thought that was how thang was! the two other guys was about the same way i would be with some one and it would always end in them cheating! i dont even know if i know any guy that has not cheated! im friend with mostly guys and i hear them talk but they well never tell me why they are that way! i just want to know why!

2007-09-15 22:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by dorothy b 2

im now in Afghanistan in the british army.the other week my girl friend told me that she got wasted and someone took advantage of her and slept with her she can not remember a thing had to ask her friend if he used i comdon or not. we say we love each other and she does this what do u think i should do?

2007-09-15 21:58:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the US, you are an adult the day you turn eighteen. If you have sex with someone who is 18 and you are 17-- the 18yo is said to be "raping" you. Even if you consent, the person is good to you, and they never forced you or hurt you-- they still go to jail because of something you agreed to.

Shouldn't consequences be decided on a case-by-case basis instead of being black and white? I mean, if someone is 16 and they decide to date someone who is 18 of their own free will, shouldn't they be allowed to? Shouldn't it depend on maturity levels and all the other factors instead of being decided solely on age?

I've seen some pretty immature 25yos, and some very mature 15 yos. So should age be the only deciding factor between consent and rape, or should there be others?

2007-09-15 21:52:53 · 12 answers · asked by mathaowny 6

experienced people,

2007-09-15 21:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica H 1

Text girl I don't know real well(but am trying to get to know her), but see frequently at a store where she works "Hey you work too much! You need to take a break!" She replies "I know I work to much but your always in here tho"

Does this seem like a slam on me for being in there or more like a green light?

2007-09-15 21:49:21 · 10 answers · asked by The Anonymous 1

But then we both broke off our datings because were gonna be long distance and were gonna end up getting hurt..but then he still ask's me out to dinner and movies..I go with him srtictly as a friend but Im soo confused now! That old flame just builds back up for him.. Theres so much mixed signals! Is he leading me on?? please help me find out where we stand.. Thanks in advance!

2007-09-15 21:45:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

well first of all my name is brittany (duuh) and my bestfriends name is kayla and her boyfriends name is greyling but we call him grey for short. well before kayla met grey she had NEVER benn kissed before and she hadent had a boyfriend in 5years. well me and her went swimming one day and we saw him and kayla said he was ugly and i thought he was cute and nice well later on they talked and they started going out. she had already told him about her love life and he has already given her kisses ans stuff like that..but what he dont know is that IM INLOVE with him. i mean im older then kayla.. im thiner,im prettier. and i have a begger and better personality. and he is already inlove with her but im inlove with him and she always talks about how they are a perfect match when i get him better then she does.. she even thinks hes cute now.. but what do i do if im inlove with my bestfriends boyfriend? im too scared to tell him how i feel cause im scared of crying myself to sleep every night..

2007-09-15 21:38:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is so good about dating?

2007-09-15 21:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do I move out? I have left in the same place since I have moved in a year ago. I confronted him about it and he laughed it off, but never denied it. What should I do?

2007-09-15 21:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by ms.O 2

Not sixpack beer, Lol sixpack abs

2007-09-15 20:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4

I talk to a girl online that is 1 grade below me. I havent seen her sincee last year and i really like her. I wasnt to know the perfect way to ask her out. I really want her to be mine. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-15 20:42:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 20:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by grh322005 1

me and this girl have been dating for 3 years, and a few times we stop talking because we got upset at each other, but finally she accepted being my girlfriend, now i know she doesnt love me as much as i love her. my question is, once you are bf and gf, is it ok to show more affection, cause i always hear that men should hold of and not smother a girl with affection, but i want to cause i'm in love with her, but if that is bad strategy or will scare her away i dont want to do that, any advice on this, and if this is not the way to go, what can i do?

2007-09-15 19:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by jack a 1

i've been going with this girl for 2years, a few days i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes, but i think she is still talking to a previous friend who she went out in the past and like 3 months ago got reaquainted, which i saw on her email. before i asked her to be my girlfriend the guy asked her if she would be her date for a wedding, and he was emailing her saying your beatiful, thinking of you etc., and yesterday i saw him ask again about the wedding, now that she is my girlfriend, and she responded, maybe, i'll let you know. i cant confront her with this, cause i went to her email, but then i cant stop thinking about it. should i just let it go and take it now that she she is my girlfriend see what happens? i know she cares about me else why would she accept to be my gf, i told her that there was no obligation for her to say yes,but if she thought we had no future just say no, and at least i could move on,but she said yes.p.s. no lectures on me checkin her email.

2007-09-15 19:55:37 · 1 answers · asked by jack a 1

im datting a guy on an IM and he is only 3 months older than me and i know what he looks like really in real life. but the thing is should i keep dating him even if we do both love each other or not

2007-09-15 19:45:04 · 35 answers · asked by kthairfield 2

and we'll fill in the missing colors of each other's paint by number dreams."

Do these women still exist? Is it too late for me to find her?

2007-09-15 19:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Chazman1347 4

2007-09-15 18:57:36 · 25 answers · asked by hengly98 1

last year he said he didn't like me...
this year he acted weird.
i've changed alot and everyone even the unexpected peeps said i'm pretty...
he playis b ball with me...
and we traveled with our team...
I decided to ignore him and pretend to like another guy so I starred at this other cute senior guy...
he was starring alot of time ...
my friend told me he was starring.
his friend said that he liked me.
but he continued to say no.
he starred for alot of time.
watched the girls bball game and looked at me..
he said to my friend "she doesn't like me so I shouldn't watch the game"
he starred and we laughed together about funny things that were told by people on the bus...
and my friend...
he came without a shirt after the shower and was walking through the corridor...I didn't recognize him but it was him...
and was starring.
then when we came back on the bus to retourn me and my friend sat close to him and his friend..
he came closer...we had a stop at the autogrill..

2007-09-15 18:48:02 · 12 answers · asked by kdat 1

2007-09-15 18:43:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its my boyfriends 18th birthday soon and i need gift ideas. I'm thinking of making a big box containing 18 things he likes in it (one thing for each year). I've gotten him a t-shirt already and i was thinking of a bumper sticker for his fav band, a chelsea soccer shirt, and some lacrosse gear for him.

Any other ideas? What sorts of things do guys like?? And please don't say "hide naked in the box" or some stupid crap like that! Thanks!

2007-09-15 17:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i thought im the only one who experience slept with her when i knew (she told me when i ask her), eventually she admit that she slept with all of them when they were her bf. I couldnt believe that as i know i was already her bf when she has another 2 bf. i just knew that she has slept with all of them. now she told me it was past thing, i know she tell the truth, i was picked out from the 3 bf she had. but now i know what she has done while she was with me, and it shock me, hurts me. i just want to know, should i continue this relationship, i got all her love but the past story really haunted me, i couldnt slept with her anymore, and i dont want to. i swear i wont touch her anymore until we marry. Please i need some light. my head is terribly mess.

2007-09-15 17:45:57 · 10 answers · asked by xc 3

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2007-09-15 17:45:32 · 6 answers · asked by Obama's GF's BF 1

It's quite interesting to me... not that I've ever had a significant other who held my hand.... but I was just wondering...

2007-09-15 17:35:06 · 21 answers · asked by Kelly 4

im a worthless piece of crrap...i feel lonely , i have a lot of friends and they always introduce me girls, but im a **** shy and always ruin it. im 17 and havent even kissed a girl . i CANT do anything right , im a clown. also, i cant have sex! i have phimosis,cant retract my foreskin. IM DOOMED. there is no remedy in my life.

2007-09-15 17:32:38 · 23 answers · asked by moimaesrase34 m 1