Singles & Dating - 15 September 2007

heres the facts: hes 9 years older im 23 hes 32, has a GF of 2 months, he works at a resort (where they basically get paid to flirt) however, we really hit it off we hung out after he got off work hanging out at the resorts bars, talked all day while he "worked", on his days off he invited me to a beach, and his pickup football game. i shrugged it off cause i figure oh its his job,to talk and be friendly. but i found myself really falling for him...hes so humble and sweet and kinda shy. He would walk me back to my hotel room every night to make sure i was safe,a few nights because i probabally wouldnt have made it back without his help, i kissed him good night on the cheek a few times and there were hugs exchanged but he never tried anything. My last day i met him at his car and he had tears in his eyes, it took all i had not to ball my eyes out (im not that kind of girl) i miss him so much and moving there wouldnt be horrible for me but i dont know if i should for a guy i just met

2007-09-15 17:14:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

If went out with this guy for about two months. I was his first girlfriend and we are both in our late 20s. He is a pretty shy guy and doesn't have alot of self-confidence. I got really upset back in August and I ended things with him. Mostly because he liked to play a lot of "online games" and he was talking with another girl from a million miles away and he told me upfront about it and he also told me that she had plans to come visit him in September.
Well apparently she was out here last week and her "boyfriend" or "ex-boyfriend" found out and he broke into her myspace account and I guess he left some really "mean" and "threatening" things on his myspace.
Anyway, yesterday I get contacted by this guy I dated. He was asking me if I had been fooling around and sending him messages, breaking into his account, etc. He was pretty nice to me. Of course, I responded with a HUGE no, cause I had no idea what he wanted.
So, after meeting her why is he now contacting me? innocent?

2007-09-15 17:09:51 · 2 answers · asked by jadamoonstarlovesu 1

I am 28 years old and yes, I have never had a girlfriend and I do not believe in sex before marriage so I am also a virgin. Also, I have not even experienced my first kiss. I just haven't had the opportunity yet with the right person. I have had chances to "fool around", God I hate that term, but I turned them down because it didn't feel right, plus a part of me wants to see how long I can keep up my uber-vigin streak! Lol, it's kind of funny I think. But my friends and even some people in my family are starting to suggest that I should start dating. I have gone on maybe 3 in my life and I hated them, they were so awkward. My family members suggest only dating, but my friends go even further, telling me to think about the future. I don't think I want to get married or have kids. The friends say I will die a lonely old man. I am not married or in a relationship now an

2007-09-15 16:56:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 16:56:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 16:50:15 · 1 answers · asked by fourtyplus 1

So here is the scenerio,

I like this person and he just started Dating someone else :0(

I need to get him out of my head!!!. I have prayed to Jehovah already, but i feel like i need to to my part in trying to forget him as well. my friends are pretty much tired of me talking about this person so much so i dont want to be a burden on them anymore then i already have regarding this topic

Does anyone have any advice on how to not like a person anymore? im tired of going to sleep thinking about him eventhought i know he is dating. it really hurts me that i still think about him even thought i know he is dating someone else. :0(

2007-09-15 16:49:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with this woman (not in my department). We've gone out a couple of times and we take the same smoke breaks. Two nights ago, we've talked on the phone for about 2 hours, shared a lot of laughs, etc. And one time, we actually kissed.
Now all of a sudden, things have changed. Whenever I walk by, she ignores me. Whenever I step out to have a smoke, she quickly walks back in, regardless if she just lit her cigarette or not. Whenever she's around our mutual friends and coworkers, she quickly cuts her eyes in my direction and suddenly I'm getting the cold shoulder all around, and I'm thinking that she may or may not have said something bad about me.

I know I'm probably gotta get in trouble for saying this but WTF???! I could deal with her just telling me to shove off, but this passive aggressive crap is pissing me off. Is it something I said or did to her directly or indirectly? Or is she just taking the "hard to get" role to a whole other level?

Somebody...anybody...HELP! l LOL

2007-09-15 16:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by Prince_of_Storms 2

ok this guy that has been talkin to me for like 3 weeks asked me out to the movies. which is great and all but then my parents want to meet him.. he says ok and then the day before he is all like~
why do ur parents want to meet me??
i was like~ IDK they just do
He was like~ well ok i just wanted to make sure that u didnt think we were dating or gonna date.!!

WOW what am i supposed to do??? do i still talk to him and try to hook up with him? or do i just completly iggnore him from now on???

everyone told me that he likes me and he knows i like him.... im soooooo confused!! can u please help me!

2007-09-15 16:33:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

a male friend of mine says 98% of the females he asks,put out by the 3rd date.

2007-09-15 16:11:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

with a guy or girl? long time ago like one year or tis year or witch month, day

2007-09-15 16:10:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been asked out with IM's and texts, and broken up with in an email. Whenever someone wants to ask me out, they always do it electronically. I have no idea why. Any thoughts?

2007-09-15 16:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 15:51:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys!
I am just wondering if you are more interested in Mexican women or American women??
Thanks so much! =]

2007-09-15 15:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by November Rain 2

Does anyone know where they are? Are they Non exsistant?

2007-09-15 15:30:04 · 27 answers · asked by Mindi 2

2007-09-15 15:20:11 · 10 answers · asked by Jack 2

guys i have dated are all jerks cause the base there relationship on a one week process......i think the gurls are jus here to be a show off toy to your friends is that true?!?

2007-09-15 15:11:45 · 1 answers · asked by A7X fan 2

okay i have a really hard time opening up to ppl cause im so afraid of what they will think of me, and judge me, even if what i tell them is the truth. there is this guy at work that wants me to tell him about myself, and i dont know how to. im so sick of covering up who i am to be "approved" by other ppl. i honestly dont know where i should start in telling him. i also want to play a 'hard to get way' so dont want to give him tooo much info. anyway, im so afraid to open up and have no confidence!!!!! help!!!!!

2007-09-15 15:11:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here it is: Spent most of my money with b/f's dad and him at Las Vegas. Went back to school...b/f and I both work in New Haven labs, but his dad and I got involved...long story short, he's been helping with my rent (his son (my b/f) will never know about us) but his dad's out of town and my rent was late twice...first time my landlord accepted a bribe with a late "call" for drinks and partying, but should I keep up these "lascivious" (b/f's dad's word) favors?

2007-09-15 15:10:46 · 32 answers · asked by Megendrod L 1

we went through a lot of drama last yr. & i think he's afraid of getting hurt again. if we did go out though, we'd have to keep it secret from my friends.

do you think i should ask him out if he's too shy to do it first? also, how should i do it?

thanks!

2007-09-15 15:07:55 · 23 answers · asked by bella♥ 5

So I told this guy that I like him... I did like him but now I dont and he thinks I like him still.. If I tell him I don't like him or if I do something that may seem "rude" (like ignoring him) he will tell everyone bad things about me.. HELP! What can I tell him to show him I lost interest in him?

2007-09-15 15:04:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend just got a tanning package. I don't even tan. I told him he doesn't need to tan, he looks fine, but he insists on doing so.....What do you think?

2007-09-15 15:03:02 · 9 answers · asked by kris10dice 4

I think little things that a guy does or doesn't do are important in a relationship. My guy loves me very much, but sometimes he's just so clueless. I know he's a guy and guys aren't perfect, at ALL...but some things he does make me sad and he doesn't realize it. I try to casually mention them but it's hard.

2007-09-15 14:57:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok 18th bday and he has everything he wants already.what could i possiby get him?

2007-09-15 14:55:16 · 1 answers · asked by dmjara 1

I seriously need one right now.I need one that will make me mad at him instead of wishing I was still with him.What could I listen to?Please help!!!!!I have been crying for 2 hours and I want it to stop!

2007-09-15 14:50:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We start going out for 3 months he told me w e are going to fast he kind of broke up with me but still want to see me and text me almost evry day!!! what should I do??

2007-09-15 14:49:07 · 1 answers · asked by Maria 2000 1

I am so afraid that I will never find the RIGHT guy....... So I never comitt
Any advise?

2007-09-15 14:45:42 · 7 answers · asked by Mindi 2

Okay Last night i went skating. My friend told me to meet her there cause she wanted me to meet her boyfriend. I met him. Im skating with my friends and someone goes "Oh look. Trevor's here. " I was like WHERE!!! (Trevor is the guy i have been crushing on for a while) I saw him, and you know how guys say hi by like doing a head knoddy thing, well he did that and got his skates on. I tried making conversation but the more i talked the more stupid things came out of my mouth and the more weirder he looked at me. But anyways. I was in line talking to my friend cause we were about to get a drink and he skated towards me and he came up behind and slapped my butt and i was like "Im gonna get you back. " He turned around so i could slap his butt and i did. Then hes like I shouldnt of came here i could of been at the movies making out with this girl named Holly so I skated off. but we had a good convo after that. Idk if he likes me or not cuz after that he was flirting with these other girls.

2007-09-15 14:22:06 · 21 answers · asked by Rachel N 3

Do you like a good girl? Besides answering the question, can you also write how old you are. Please be honest.

2007-09-15 14:20:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl named C.C. She is very beautiful and im kinda fat and have never been liked by a girl. She asked personal questions like if i have a girlfriend. if i liked anyone. if i had anyone to go to homecoming with and who would i take. This is shocking to me as i have NEVER been asked these question. At first i never thought of her as a possibility of who i would ever go out with. But after i kinda got confused. First i cant tel if shes sending hints or just being curious. what should i do to

Find out if she likes me.
See if she was just asking.
What i should do to approach the situation

She still talks to me. She is very pretty and i will get all sick if i were to eventhink about asking out. She is not my type because she is so outgoing and flirtatious and i have always been interested in shy girls but ilike her so can someone help me out. I asked a similar question but im trying to get as many answeres as possible cause i have no past experience whatsoever

2007-09-15 14:18:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone is crazy over my cooking, but my ex-boyfriend didn't like a home-cooked meal.

2007-09-15 14:08:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous