opening up???

Question

okay i have a really hard time opening up to ppl cause im so afraid of what they will think of me, and judge me, even if what i tell them is the truth. there is this guy at work that wants me to tell him about myself, and i dont know how to. im so sick of covering up who i am to be "approved" by other ppl. i honestly dont know where i should start in telling him. i also want to play a 'hard to get way' so dont want to give him tooo much info. anyway, im so afraid to open up and have no confidence!!!!! help!!!!!

Answer 1

There your a TERRIBLE candidate for a intimate relatinoships SLOW DOWN!!! Please, for your own sake. And take these things to heart.


1. When someone geniune likes you, cares for you, or respects you, you can't say anything stupid enough to push them away. Find comfront in this above all things. Because its THIS fact that actuall test how good a relaitonship is. If you can't be honest with them, then they don't care for you, and therefor you should care for them.

2. You need to get away from caring about what people think about you, and instead care about what people think. NOW that doesn't mean you take everyones opionins to heart, there like ***holes everyones got them, they all stink. So realize that you have to take into account the PERSON giving the opionin before you actually believe IN that opionin.

3. Also don't make the same stupid mistake our peers make, if you can't be comfrontable talking with that person honestly about how you feel, you don't need to be in a relationship with them....