Here it is: Spent most of my money with b/f's dad and him at Las Vegas. Went back to school...b/f and I both work in New Haven labs, but his dad and I got involved...long story short, he's been helping with my rent (his son (my b/f) will never know about us) but his dad's out of town and my rent was late twice...first time my landlord accepted a bribe with a late "call" for drinks and partying, but should I keep up these "lascivious" (b/f's dad's word) favors?
2007-09-15 15:10:46 · 32 answers · asked by Megendrod L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep this up and you'll be racking up a gyno bill for all the STIs you will contract.
2007-09-15 15:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, if you want to think badly of yourself. Keep it up if you don't want to look in the mirror every day. Just keep using your body like a dollar bill. Keep avoiding responsibility by using your body and not respecting yourself. Pretty soon being a call girl won't seem that bad either as long as it's a high priced call girl.
You need to lose the bf and the bf's dad. Sooner than later your bf will find out and who knows what a betrayed man will do. Start taking care of your own bills. Start taking the tough instead of the easy road. In the end, you will become an independant, attractive, beautiful person (inside/out) that a man could respect. You are of much value and not just anyone deserves to be with you physically or otherwise. Remember that.
2007-09-15 15:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Marissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line is this - you are being a prostitute. Is this what you want to be? Is this the kind of person you are?
Evidently, you are having some guilty thoughts about it, so my assumption is that you don't think it's right and deep down, know it's not what you want to do.
I would definitely find another place to live if you can't afford to pay your rent the right way - with a check. Also, if you haven't figured it out yet, you need to cut all ties with the father. Not good. Not good at all. What if it was your b/f and your mom? Not a good feeling huh?
Time to grow up. Be an adult. Be the person you know you can be. Do it today.
2007-09-15 15:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think you should cut that junk out. If you can't make the rent then find a place where you can make the rent. And stop messing around with the father and the landlord. Because when your boyfriend finds out about both his dad being with you and you being with the landlord he is totally going to call you a whore and everything else he can think of. I swear its never worth it to hurt someone you really care for to just try out something new with their family member or to pay your rent. Only makes yourself look cheap and easy.
2007-09-15 15:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the fact that you are asking this question, means that you already know the correct answer........
You came here looking for validation to your bad behavior. You need someone to say it's ok to take what should be a special thing between two committed people and just give it out wherever it makes things easier for you.
Such behavior means that your relationship with b/f is also lacking. You don't hold what you have as special at all!
Now what are you going to do, go down inside and start redeeming yourself. Or our you go to continue to lower yourself with this misbehavior!
The decision is yours, start making some good ones, or all your bosses wives will need put a lock on his zipper.
2007-09-15 16:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really helps with the bills. And if he's good besides, what is the harm? I mean there are only 3 men in your life that you are banging... b/f, b/f's dad, and the landlord. AND you are going to school. I tell you -- brains and a willingness to make booty calls? You are going to go far in this world..
2007-09-15 15:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by traceilicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! See, this makes u a whore! Are u one? U know this is wrong, that's y u don't tell ur man. But u justify it because of rental stuff. Just manage ur money better next time, and talk to ur man. Leave these details out, but please, if u desire ur relationship, and ur health, as well as ur man's...stop with the damn favors and do stuff the honest way. HEre's a sign, ur on here asking instead of just deciding urself!
2007-09-15 15:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to have relationships like this? Do you want people to think this is what they can get out of you? The problem is that you are not going to be feeling very good about yourself and your relationships are going to fall apart with all of the playing around on your boyfriend. You are worth more than this.
2007-09-15 15:14:51 · answer #8 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trash behavior will ruin this relationship.
He WILL find out and hate you and his Dad. You dont love the b/f if you would do that!
Find a real relationship - and act like you would want to be treated - How would you like it if he was bopping your mom?
Think before opening your legs or mouth!!!
2007-09-15 15:16:33 · answer #9 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think we're going to say ? Perhaps you'll get a lot of answers from the 13 year old kids, grow up.
2007-09-15 15:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by luvspace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, if you dont mind prostituting yourself.
By the way the phrase "lasciovious favors" is just a BS alternative for prostitution.
2007-09-15 15:16:15 · answer #11 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋