Singles & Dating - 16 September 2007

I want to do something to make my ex realize what he is doing to me like, making me jealous, denying that we've been couples and ignoring me. WITHOUT the idea of flirting...

how could i make him feel like a loser and like sorry for what he have done?

2007-09-16 23:20:00 · 34 answers · asked by Pringles 3

ok, well I think this guy is into me, and I like him too. But this girl that he used to like last year is starting to talk to him again. And I dont' want him to start liking her again. So, what are some signs, more so obvious, but not extrememly obvious signs to get the idea of "i like you" across to him??

We're in high school

thank you =)

2007-09-16 23:16:41 · 9 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2

My boyfriend (of one year) regularly tells me of things he got upto with his ex. They used to do loads of good things, things that now we will never do. While I don't talk about the things I did with my ex, I have argued with my boyf as to why I need to hear about all the things they have got upto. For example he will say things like "I'll take you to London, but not to this (specific) restaurant in Brick Lane, as thats where me and ex used to go for romantic meals", or "the best holiday i have been on was organised by ex, it was well cheap and we had a fab time"
When I talk to him about this, he says he is just telling me about the things he used to get upto, and then I feel bad for making a fuss.
So my question is, am I just being "female" in making a fuss, should I listen and not get upset? Or I am justified in feeling how I do? Any advice on how to deal with it??

2007-09-16 22:53:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got a message from him on facebook last night, the first i've heard from him since he cancelled our date last week. It just said hi, how have things been? ok the way i see it I've got 3 options here: 1) ignore it, thereby showing him i think he's behaved badly and i don't want anything to do with him 2) answer in a completely normal, friendly way as though nothing's happened and i'm not bothered by what he did, or 3) ask him what happened, why his tone changed so drastically, why he didn't just say if he didn't want to see me again etc. but I guess it's obvious he's not interested so this wouldn't change things! and it would just show him I cared, which if he's not interested, I don't want him to know! But at the same time my sense of justice tells me he should be told that he's behaved badly! I REALLY don't know what to do! advice please! many thanks x

2007-09-16 22:46:22 · 14 answers · asked by rachel 2

I like this guy and he likes me nd there's a gr8 possibility i'm gonna end up his gf...but i've noticed that he's realllly relating to his ex, asking about her nd misses her all the time and i dont know what. She's out of the country, broke up with her 4 yrs ago i think. He IM her most of the time..........is that normal?!!!!!!

I found out by stalking her account.......................he doesnt say anything bout that to me. He's a shy guy, and he tends to get really nervous around me, even though we've known each other now for 5 mnths.

2007-09-16 22:42:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and my best friend and me always have 3 way convos on msn but my bf msn was not working so i d loaded a new program and sent it o my best friend aswell so we could tak and the 2 of them went into a web cam convo and ignored me do i have the right to be hurt they also kept telling me how good a time they had on cam

2007-09-16 22:38:56 · 9 answers · asked by rosejr 1

Tell me what you think ?

1.) hey baby i bet u can tell i dont wear deoderant !

2.) if u were a poptart id eat u

3.) ur cute can i poke u ?

4.) u remind me of a hamster.. can i keep u ?

6.) my momma said not to talk to strangers but ur really purdy

7.) if u were a raccoon and u liked steal id let u steal my heart

2007-09-16 22:33:00 · 12 answers · asked by Keep Fishin 2

Of all the young ladies that have sex, why do some get pregnant, and some don't? Do the one's that don't get pregnant know something that the other young ladies don't?
Is it simple to not get pregnant if you are engageing in sex? Why does'nt someone tell all the young ladies the secrets?

2007-09-16 22:31:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a guy looks at you, and shakes his head with tears in his eyes.

2007-09-16 22:23:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, well there's this guy I like, and I think, along with everyone else, that he likes me back. He always texts me, messages me, asks me to hang out, etc.

Well, I was commenting/talking to him on myspace.. but then I had to go. I went to his page to see something, and I saw this girl's comments and she was talkign to him, and I think he said something like, "we should hang out"

BUT, thats not what bothers me. It's that the girl was this girl that he liked last year, and they made out or whatever. ... Do you think he still likes her? Or am I just being jealous?

2007-09-16 22:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by Waterworks. 2

2007-09-16 22:14:04 · 14 answers · asked by Prof 1

we have relationship since 3 weeks, I think we love eachother, we are so match and always together, he introduced me to his family and always say I think u r the girl I look for, but here is sth proleblem, I scared of break up and I awlays have stress, for example if we argue i cry alone and when he discovers this he tells me why u become so sad, these problems are in all relationship. we have 2 solve it and i never leave u.
what should I do?

2007-09-16 22:11:35 · 6 answers · asked by asal 2

I met this guy friend a yr ago and he moved to another country shortly after we met. He asked me to travel with him before he left but I couldnt even though I was crazy over him. Anyway we kept in touch by chat & mail and a little bit of flirting now & then. So we arranged that as I was going on vacation to where he lives that we would meet up. He even said hurry up & come over. Right I was so looking fwd to it. Anyhow, we met a couple of days ago & I'm really into him. Hes also attracted. We kissed & a bit more but not sex. Problem is he had arranged his vacation with another guy to leave today & asked me to come..kind of roughing it in a car. I was delighted he asked me! The friend told me to come as well. Guess what? last night he sent me a text 'Listen, it wont work three of us travelling' and that's all. I havnt answered..just gutted! Ok he has a point it would be difficult but couldnt he have said 'be in touch or something? Hes much younger 25 I'm 45 but look 35

2007-09-16 22:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by sonia 1

I really need to get down!!!
Where do you go to have no strings sex??

2007-09-16 22:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by tainted1wolf 1

2007-09-16 22:02:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont consider myself extremely shallow or picky. That's not the problem here. The thing is that girl does not turns me on. But I have just had like 2 dates with her and I think it is too soon to discard her. With other girls I have fallen in love instantly there was just physical attraction and it didn't last for long. Therefore I think that just focusing on looks would be stupid. Anyhow, in the long term she has to turn me on, no matter how good her personality is. I am searching for that. If it comes out, that would be great if it doesn't, well at least I can say I have tried.
I must add, that she's just 5.11 and I am 6 feet tall and she is not the kind of girl that you will normally call hot. But i do not mind about that as long as I end up liking her. That's the main thing here. Apart from that I think that the fact that she is not a hottie will mean that she may have other things that compensate that. I don't know how will it end, but I know I want to give her a try.

2007-09-16 21:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by Trust 1

I am a widow, he is with a woman he has lived with for 15 years. He says they don't have a good relationship. We have not had any physical contact whatsoever. We were in constant contact recently during the course of moving his parents, my in- laws. I really enjoyed being around him and talking to him. He made me feel so good about myself. All I know is this is the happiest I have been and the best I have felt since my husbands death. He tends to be a flirt so I didn't want to read more into it than there might be but once when he called my in-laws he told me that he missed hanging out with me. This has sent my heart and mind spinning out of control. I can not get him out of my head. He's the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing I think about at night, not to mention all day long! Now there is no way that I think or compare him to my husband. They were two totally different people so he is not a replacement for my husband so banish that thought.

2007-09-16 21:26:09 · 10 answers · asked by Sidney 2

I knew this guy through sugardaddymeet.com, and this Thursday will be our first date. We kinda have same hobbies and I do wanna go further with him, but I'm suck at dressing up myself, what should I wear to impress him? I don't wanna be too formal, and not too casual too. plz, guys, help me...

2007-09-16 21:02:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am proffesnal graduate till now i dont have any love affairs i can win any girls in arguments if u have guts u can attack me sure i will win u ok ....take care

2007-09-16 20:55:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night i asked a question " guys, what would you do if you suddenly became a girl for 1 hour" and the answers were like, " finger myself" " take pics and save them for later" " have a lesbian sex" and blah blah blah. ( guys are perv!")

so girls, suppose you suddenly became a guy and you know you are goin back to normal yourself 1 hour later.
what would you do with a man's body?

me? since i'm on a hard diet now , i would simpy go to a chinese buffet and pig out whatever i wanna eat for 1 hour. lol

2007-09-16 20:54:55 · 10 answers · asked by Emily 4

1.Never calls me rarely does, always texts, somehow we text each other every day i dunno why we just do. We have very random convos.

2. Never ever askes me to hang out, but when i do most of the times she says yes.

3. Introduces me to her friends and acts like she is lost of words around me, only at work..but when we are alone she talks like no other, when i compliment her she kinda blushes and goes thanks in a shy way, but not when other ppl do it. but thats no reflection in her personality by all means shes a touchy feely confident over the top type.

4. Lets me in her personal space the first time i met her, she slighty touches my back, grabs my wrist then lets go after a second or so, the 2nd time i met she puts her arms around me, and basically touches me more.

5. She basically ignores me at work, just saying hi, never comes to help me no more, never askes me to go to lunch no more, basically nothing, she just acts really shy and dodgy around me now...

2007-09-16 20:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who, everytime she gets drunk, will hang all over guys and act all flirty without any intention of sleeping with them, then acts all stupid when they expect more from her. (Even though she likes the attention and sometimes they even buy her drinks.) I, on the other hand, will not act flirty towards a guy unless I plan on sleeping with him becuase I don't like the unwanted attention from a guy who I am not attracted to and I only let guys buy me drinks who seem like they do not expect anything from me. She does this all the time. Like she needs to feel validated by a man showing her attention but she does not sleep around.
True, I am more promiscuious than my friend is but at least I dont hang all over any guy who shows me the least bit of attention.
Which behavior do you think is worse? (By the way, I always wear condoms)

2007-09-16 20:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by snowbunny_luv_420 3

Is it possible to be physically and mentally attracted to someone else when you're already in a relationship with another person?
Is it also wrong for someone to feel like this?
Please give a detailed answer.

2007-09-16 19:54:24 · 17 answers · asked by dilligaf7485 2

He's very confident, somewhat flirty. I come to think he's like how he is with me to everyone. He asked to come along with my cousin and her bf for a double date. But later said he had to go to this party his friend is making him go to. I missed his call, called him back.. no response... he was online but didnt msg me or anything.

He suggests we do something next week, but should I play hard to get? he seems to have girls easily... and though id want to spend as much ttime with him as possible.. i dont want him to take me for granted

2007-09-16 19:48:06 · 6 answers · asked by sam3345 1

No details needed, just one simple question :)

2007-09-16 19:46:58 · 4 answers · asked by Dan 1

It is women like me who don't like conflict always has to admit she's wrong even though she's not, in order not to have a huge arguement.

2007-09-16 19:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by Florence J 1

you've been friends with this girl for years and you've secretly liked her but never went for it b/c you thought the chances of being w. her were slim only to find out that after all this time, she felt the same way back - she's the first girl you fell in love but you two decided to stay friends and not rush (if it happens later, it happens) When things were going to get normal again, "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made you two drift apart and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, you two worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew stronger.


the thing is we were both mutual in our feelings. Now that we're cool again, i don't know how he feels (SHY GUY type), so good at hiding things and for me, even if it's been a while and we are starting to be okay again, he will always be special to me and i'll always have strong feelings for him (i'm a "SHY GIRL" type) and like shy guys, i HATE rejection and i want that plan B IF anything were to change. I want to be honest and not hide that fact i care for him YET there's too much on my plate right now that i'd be selfish to him iI want a relationship now. And also, I don't know if he's gotten over me - maybe, maybe not...I want to be honest and show i care YET i don't wanna lead him on thinking i want a relationship

What do you think?

2007-09-16 19:39:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question on other parts of the world, but I was hoping you guys could give me better answers:

http://espanol.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvOJ.Z8YkyhftbwKRJH79XLYEQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20070916221542AAp4mDk

2007-09-16 19:32:34 · 3 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6

Basically I want to know if what happened was a date or friends just hanging out?

So this girl asked me to have dinner and drinks with her and some of her friends. She's an acquaintance, but I've known her for two years, in the two years, I've actually been in the same room with her for maybe 4 hours total...serious....

Anyways, so I go have some drinks with her, around 11, she asked me if I wanted to see a movie, I declined and jokingly said lets drive to Niagara Falls....she took it seriously, and we ended up in Niagara at 3am. There wasn't anything to do, so we got a hotel room, talked a little and fell asleep....well she did, I always have trouble sleeping with someone new.

So we get up the next day, went to the falls, casino, shopping, walking around the whole bit. At the end when I dropped her home, it was just hugs, and kisses on the cheek.

Hmm, was that a date or just friends hanging out?

2007-09-16 19:30:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex bf broke up with me over a month ago saying we faught too much and he needed space. Were together for over a year. Im 24 and hes 22. We has just found an apartment together (which was his idea)and was about to move in, but he broke everything off..I was soo sad over this and still am. I see him at work so when I feel like I'm starting to get over things a little and feel a little better I see him, and just think of all the good times and what could have been. A couple of days ago he told one of my friend's at work that he wanted me back but felt it was too late because I'm talking to someone else. Which is true but we are just friends for now. But I recently talked to him and asked how he was and he looked really sad and said he's seen better days. I try to talk to him occasionally and text him. I feel like I've given him every sign in the book that I may want to work things out, but he hasn't tried to contact me about how he feels. Is he scared of rejection? Should I just moveon

2007-09-16 19:30:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous