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Basically I want to know if what happened was a date or friends just hanging out?

So this girl asked me to have dinner and drinks with her and some of her friends. She's an acquaintance, but I've known her for two years, in the two years, I've actually been in the same room with her for maybe 4 hours total...serious....

Anyways, so I go have some drinks with her, around 11, she asked me if I wanted to see a movie, I declined and jokingly said lets drive to Niagara Falls....she took it seriously, and we ended up in Niagara at 3am. There wasn't anything to do, so we got a hotel room, talked a little and fell asleep....well she did, I always have trouble sleeping with someone new.

So we get up the next day, went to the falls, casino, shopping, walking around the whole bit. At the end when I dropped her home, it was just hugs, and kisses on the cheek.

Hmm, was that a date or just friends hanging out?

2007-09-16 19:30:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

She texted me at midnight today thanking me for a wonderful time....

2007-09-16 19:33:24 · update #1

22 answers

Hahahaha looks like a cosy little get me out of boredom date lol just friends at 3 am for sure lol

2007-09-16 22:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by kittana 6 · 0 0

Definitely a date. She wouldn't have spent that much time with and shared a hotel room with you if she didn't want it to be a date. If it was just friends, you'd have driven home after seeing Niagara Falls and she probably would have invited other people in the first place.

2007-09-16 19:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

actually i feel it was just friends hanging out together. Atleast thats what i feel and i have reasons for that -
1. you both were out the 1st time
2. you 2 are not involved emotionally with each other
3. you 2 did not make any moves towards each other (physically)
4. you had a good time (like 2 friends would) with no tet-a-tat about feelings, or anything of the sort.
5. through the entire time that you were together, even at night in the same room, neither of you made any moves or give each other hints about any advances towards each other.

All this only happens when 2 friends are together. They have a great time together, like how you did but there is nothing physical to that outing. Also you both were not having any of those thoughts in mind else atleast one of you would have made the 1st move. since nono of that has happened, i feel it was only 2 friends hanging out together.

2007-09-16 19:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It ended with a kiss on the cheek? I would call it friends hanging out. If you didn't make a move to try to kiss her or put your arm around her shoulders or hold her hand, she thinks it was just friends hanging out too. You've only been with her 4 hours prior to this. Take it slow. Try to feel things out before ruining a friendship by asking her out. Try to hang out with friends and her and see if she seems interested. Eventually, ask her to a movie and dinner. If she says yes, then you have a date!

2007-09-16 19:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by gma 7 · 0 0

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2016-11-14 16:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by chatan 4 · 0 0

It sounds like friends hanging out and having a good time. Well that's how it seemed it the beginning. I'd say the last part was definitely a date.

2007-09-16 19:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 6 · 0 0

Sounds like fun, whatever you call it. If you want it to be more than hanging out with a friend, go for it. Like, "How about that movie we never saw when we went to Niagara? Wasn't it Fellini's 'Satyricon' that's playing at the Rialto this weekend?"

2007-09-16 19:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

May be its a date.

2007-09-16 19:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by mahi 1 · 0 0

This sounds like it started out as a hanging out but became a date. Mayeb she just wanted to see how you were after watching you for whiel and not really knowing you. Keep going though, text her back and see if she wants to see another "movie".

2007-09-16 19:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0 0

informal date. she is looking to get to know you better, but she definitely seems interested from the way you put it. It sounds like something you can pursue. Much better than a lot of the "ive been watching this girl from a distance but she has no clue who I am" people. Good luck to ya and I hope everything goes well.

2007-09-16 19:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by burgler09 5 · 0 0

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