Singles & Dating - 16 September 2007

She was a former co-worker that I had interest in (she seemed equally interested, but we never talked about it) and we've reconnected recently on line. She's married and I'm single. We went out for lunch and it was really nice, but it felt like a date I would go on with a single woman. She said she would like to make these lunches a regular thing, every week.

Okay, I'm attracted to her, so I'm not sure if I'm reading this right. I need perspective. Is this an innocent friendship? I mean, given that she's married and I'm single... it seems awfully dangerous to me, for both of us.

*I was married before and my wife cheated after we became so distant. It broke my heart, but I understood she was lonely. We divorced, in a mutual arrangement. I'm worried that I may not be giving her enough credit, but I'm also worried that she's pursuing an affair.

What do you think her intentions are by what you've read - I'm not interested in sermons about fidelity... I can make up my own mind on that.

2007-09-16 19:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-09-16 19:14:37 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been divorced for 5 years. she has been with 4 other guys since we were apart. now she wants back with me. and we both love each other so much. but how do i get these guys out of my head? i know its the only way way we are going to make a go at this, which i so much want. we have been together for 25 years. high school sweethearts. but i vision her having sex with them. i just want it to work....for us.

2007-09-16 19:04:41 · 13 answers · asked by floridacat22 1

2007-09-16 19:03:16 · 17 answers · asked by jcf_92 1

Or am I the only luck fuqer?

2007-09-16 18:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 18:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

first of all we're on long distance relationship but we talk on Messenger enough to feel really happy and comfortable.he always tell me what he did at the end of the day and tell me details about his family.so.. that encourged me and i hope its agood sign for both of us because we are falling in love.i can feel him from his reactions and words..so you think we had reached to the final stip or what?

2007-09-16 18:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by crazy_lover 2

See.. i dont know if this happens to everybody but, if i shave my legs the night before, the next day my legs arent that smooth,, i remember my bf hated it, which i could understand, but why they make such a big deal about it, Is not that my legs are hairy, its that the freaking hair grow in less than 24 hrs.. hahahha.. Any commentS? hahhahaha :P

2007-09-16 18:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by SweetSecret 2

I want all the skills that whores have, but without being a hoe

2007-09-16 18:45:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have never been on a date in my life. I guess i focused more on my school than anything. Now there is a girl that i really like, but don't know if she likes me. I am a really shy person and am afraid she will say no if i ask her out. it would really help me out if someone could help me. preferably a girl. Im in the 12th grade.

2007-09-16 18:43:55 · 3 answers · asked by jose g 1

just few days before she called me as 'brotherly like' i just switched off my cell for two days. then i switched off my cell after 2 days. then she messed me what happened? i asked her seriously what happened to me? i too was in serious mood and asked her 'what's our relation?' she said 'a friend'. i remembered her what she told before then she told she was just joking. i said strongly that i am really serious about relations make it clear. then she said 'we are friends. are you happy now?' what does this means? could anybody explain me that 'is she playing with me?' or 'i am getting fooled?'.

2007-09-16 18:41:41 · 13 answers · asked by kumar j 1

First of all my huspend has cheated alot and now claims he wouldnt ever do it again but he still keeps his email wich ends in the word motel he continues to talk to women he has had relations with and when other women are around he cuts me out of the conversations he still goes out and not only doesnt tell me when he goes but is constintly cought in lies when asked were he was or what he did. i have confronted him on these things even told him how insucure these thing made me fill and all he does is get mad and act as if im attacking him and like asking him to change these things is just selfish and untrusting help me i love him we have children and i wont nothing more then to save my marriage.

2007-09-16 18:41:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 18:40:04 · 5 answers · asked by dinOgaL(: 3

Hello,
I am in a relationship with a young man. I like him very much. Lately I've been worried because, ever since he asked me to be his girlfriend (and I said yes), he hugs/kisses/holds me and I get a little nervous. I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him, so if that was what he was looking for, he should just move on to another girl, and he replied that he wasn't dating me for sex. Why is he so aggressive? Is he lying? Or am I just overreacting? This is my first relationship, and I'm scared of getting hurt.

2007-09-16 18:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 18:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by Amani D 1

Secondly the term 'male chauvinist' is absurd since men have always been more advanced, so it should only be called as humanist.

2007-09-16 18:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He works where I work. He has no idea that I love him. He appears to be 10-15 years older than I but that doesn't matter. He is young for his age and certainly would be interested in an old fashioned gal such as myself.

But many think that he is a gay because he has not had a woman in his bed and he is his age. Others think that he is a loner with no future. Yet there are those that feel as if he may be a predator, creeping towards young women. None of that rubbish could hold a tank of water. I love that poor fool, fool in love.

I love him and that's all that should matter. He'd never harm the one that loves him. Sometimes he feels persecuted but that doesn't make him a paranoid schizophrenic. I love that poor fool, fool in love.

How do you tell the one you love that you don't mind that he appears to act like a predator?

2007-09-16 18:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just want to know what others think about this particular routine my girlfriend and I do.

I get off work earlier than my girlfriend, and whenever she comes home from a long day at work, she gets undressed completely, except she leaves her bra on. The she goes to check her e-mail.

However, before she sits down, I have to sit in front with my back facing the chair, and I lie the back fo my head on the chair and relax.

She then sits on my face, and checks her e-mail, myspace messages, blogs, etc... this whole ordeal may take from 45 minutes to an hour. So in the meantime she's sitting on my face. The weight on my face is heavy, and it's warm, but it's bearable. I can breathe through my nose, but barely, since my nose is wedged between her buttocks.

After she's done we go about the rest of our day doing whatever (watching TV, reading, going out to dinner, movies, etc.).

I just want to know your opinion on this; if you think we're a weird couple or what. Peace

2007-09-16 18:19:07 · 47 answers · asked by Warren Peace 1

2007-09-16 18:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by Kiana Kisses! :p 4

2007-09-16 18:12:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 18:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by olly 1

2007-09-16 18:09:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm so frustrated My current boyfriend is so confusing he says he loves me but he knows i have problems with his ex and he hangs out with her anyway? He won't let me go to the parties he goes to.He will sit there and lecture me on things i already know but an hour later agree with me.He doesn't see me for days at a time.When his friends are around it's like i'm not even his girlfriend.He knows I don't have alot of money and so i ask him to pay for dinner sometimes he gets huffy and seems to expect something in return. I am insane for thinking somethings wrong with this picture? help!

2007-09-16 18:05:13 · 12 answers · asked by witcheshonor 2

She works where I work. She has no idea that I love her. She appears to be 10-15 years younger than I but I know that she is of age. She is mature for her age and certainly would be interested in an old fashioned fellow such as myself.

But many think that I am a gay because I have not had a woman in my bed and I am my age. Others think that I am a loner with no future. Yet there are those that feel as if I may be a predator, creeping towards young women. None of that rubbish could hold a tank of water. I am who I am, a poor fool, fool in love.

I lover her and that's all that should matter. I never harm those that I love. Sometimes I feel persecuted but that doesn't make me a paranoid schizophrenic. I'm only a poor fool, fool in love.

She can kill with a smile, She can wound with her eyes, She can ruin your faith with her casual lies, And she only reveals what she wants you to see, She hides like a child
But she's always a woman to me.

Love hurts! But does it have to?

2007-09-16 18:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 25, and I see some girls from my high school class that have gotten married. Based on my evaluations, I doubt 75% of them are mature enough to handle marriage. A lot of them, I think married because one partner has money or because they have family that think people should have certain things done at a certain age. I don't know, maybe it's a small-town thing.

Is this why most marriages in America turn for the worst?

2007-09-16 18:02:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

These are all options. 50/50...Not that I'm saying that the men would all do these things, but that it could be acceptable for them in our society.

No longer the bread winners.

Take care of appearance.

Stay at home studs.

Wife might be successful.

Takes care of children.

Women approach equally in asking the opposite sex out.

Women are just as aggressive.

Equal distribution of power.

Perhaps he's the affectionate one; cuddles; softer personality (when desiring to be).

And other things you could add....

Why the heck not??????

Let's turn it all around why don't we?????????

2007-09-16 17:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 17:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Heather 4

i told someone i didnt want kids, he butted in the conversation and asked why i didnt want them, i said i dont like the process of having kids, i think its nasty. he said its nature and got defensive, then two days later, i wasnt talking to him yet again , he got in the conversation when i said i didnt want kids, he said he didnt want them either, yet these empolyees come in and holds their babies and looks like he enjoys it, then one day i was telling a coworker a dream i had involving a baby and he butted in again and said he thought it was about abortion, he said hes going to be an abortion doc and open his clinic up b/c he said some people shouldnt have kids,

i dont understand this guy he freaks out b/c i said i rather adopt and i wasnt even talking to him yet says he doesnt want kids, yet holds them like hes in love with the kid and..then says hes opening up an abortion clinic..wtf?

i'm 20 and this guy is 24 -we work at a restaraunt together..but im curious whats his deal?

2007-09-16 17:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by pink 1

2007-09-16 17:53:35 · 22 answers · asked by Zakko D. 2

As a guy, sometimes I would ask? Why get married if you can have sex with girls around and even get them pregnant?

"I can have all the sex i want and not have a single responsibility?!"

If you have a daughter whom you love very dearly and she's growing up very fast.

...of course, you want her to have a good/happy life and a happy married life as well.

....but Divorce Legal Separation & Annulmenthere here and there is what you see.

2007-09-16 17:52:53 · 22 answers · asked by jace 4