Singles & Dating - 16 September 2007

There is this girl who when i was in high schoo in Californial i liked i was in the 12th grade and she was a junior.I wasn't confident enough to tell her by then that i liked her.After high school i moved to a different state where i am now and she is still in California.I recently found her profile on hi5 a site for friends made a friend request and she accepted, she even knew that i liked her i now have her email address and cell phone number two weeks ago she asked me when i was going to come back to California and i said next year, she sounded excited and said she couldn't wait to see me, I felt like maybe she likes me too hence the question.On her profile page i left some comments on it but she wouldn't even give me one comment, to her other friends she leaves comments ,then the last time we chatted online when we finished i asked her when next we will chat and she didn't even reply, so i'm really confused, please help me out and tell me what to do
Thanks

2007-09-16 14:38:02 · 1 answers · asked by niceguy 2

yay the sweetest nicest cutest guy likes me! but he goes to a diferent school and soemtimes he jokes about liking guys...i think he is joking but he likes hannah montana and highschool musical..he plays base ball and his team won the world series (haha yay) but should i be worried?

2007-09-16 14:36:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy i like who goes to another school and is a totally different social circle then me. he likes me (he told me) but at the same time, he hooked up with a girl who goes to my school. i really don't feel comfortable with him coming to any school events since the girl he hooked up with would most likely be there and everything would be awkward. he told me about the hook-up and was concerned when i took it badly... i really want him to be able to come to events at my school, but is there any way for me to avoid a confrontation between him and her?

2007-09-16 14:31:03 · 18 answers · asked by sexychick2009 3

2007-09-16 14:30:54 · 42 answers · asked by Trillian 1

My ex and i were together for 3 yrs. it ended badly, i'm glad we're broken up. but we were best friends....and it's weird not having each other to talk to.

we're trying to keep in touch, to keep the friendship at least. but every time we talk, i get SO irritated.

he will leave me messages online and say hi-- that's it. and if i say anything back, he completely ignores me. just doesnt respond, even if he's there.

or he'll call me and tell me a story quick and then be in a rush to get off the phone-- doesnt ask how i am, anything. he always says "i just wanted to say hi, i didnt want a conversation"

i geuss i get so angry bc thats why we broke up....bc he put NO effort into the relationship. i wanted to maintain a friendship here but is there really any point???

2007-09-16 14:27:47 · 25 answers · asked by autumn 1

I`ve been sneaking sugar into her food, but it seems not to be working as quickly as I`d like.

Can you suggest any other ideas to make her round and porky?

2007-09-16 14:22:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

so i really like this guy, hes really cute and cool and what not. but see, hes not into long relationships. he will ask a girl out but then they will only last like a month or so and he doesnt expect them to be bff's after the breakup. its just the way he is, ya know some guys just dont like relationships. and hes kinda a flirt. but i really like him and im pretty sure he is going to ask me out but i dont want just a 1 month relationship. is there anyway i could make it so we last alot longer? what should i do?

2007-09-16 14:14:50 · 3 answers · asked by Natalia 2

guys what would you think if a girl gave you the lyrics to a song to show you how she felt about you?

2007-09-16 14:04:54 · 8 answers · asked by ♥.blondy4eva 7

so this kid hes in everyone of my classes and when i look at him sometimes hes looking at me. he makes me laugh and we both love to be hyper. he makes me laugh a lot but i think he thinks i laugh at stupid things. he talks to me a lot. what do guys do when they like you? does he like me? advice? opinion?

2007-09-16 14:04:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i have a boyfriend he is 17 and im 12 almost 13. hes really sweet! (sometimes). he says that he loves me and i love him. but he has this friend that told me he likes me and i like him back. im not sure how much though. i cant stop thinking 'bout his friend and i fantasize 'bout him all the time! you know about hugin and kissin him. what should i do?

2007-09-16 14:04:16 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

how is it that when a woman has sex with 10 different guy shes labeled a HOE, but when a guy has sex with 10 different women hes label a PLAYER!!!

2007-09-16 14:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to know from most people. I mean hypothetically and in general. There is nobody who I am dating right now, but I asked this question to some friends of mine. Some told me that I should lie to a woman. Having never dated in my life, something gives me this idea that women how experienced a guy is. If he hasn't dated, then some have told me that she'll take advantage of the guy. Others have said it depends on the girl herself and what she might think. As for sex or kissing, how can one tell if the person hasn't done either? It's not like nobody could learn by watching porn or movies or be taught. Personally, I don't want to lie to one because I feel that it is unethical and that might come to a point where I lead one on and then fall short of expectations. Do women really ask their boyfriends how many women has one guy been with? Personally, I usually think that nobody wants to talk about the past, because they should forget it depending on how they ended.

2007-09-16 13:58:40 · 13 answers · asked by Emanuel E 5

i've been cool with this boy for about 2 yrs. im really starting to like him, i know that he likes me and he's even invited me to his house in front of his friends, i know that this is a big step for some guyz. but anyway im not sure if he is really trying to b with me on that level. what do u think? he often stops me during the day to say wasup and see how im feeling, and everything but is this typical for sum1 who wants to b just friends?
if not how do i make that first m ove, to let him know im interested

2007-09-16 13:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by call me s.hova 2

in love? how does it make you feel?? what was it like...?

2007-09-16 13:55:25 · 18 answers · asked by Afro_Diggy_Act 3

I have a b/f of 2months (we have a very bumpy/friends with benefits/lots of fights/past...though I've known this guy for over a year/he never wanted a relationship with me before). So almost 2months ago he suddenly asked me to be his g/f and then about a week later told me he loves me. Though he can't really tell me why, he continues to tell me he loves me to my face and in texts. I ask him why he loves me, and he says that because I am responsible and he wants to see what he can become with me. (he says I make him a better person) Anyway, a few days after those 3words, he asked me to move in with him. His brother is getting an apartment and he wants me to share the extra bedroom with him. Ever since he has asked, he has been literally begging me to make the decision and live with him. It doesn't feel right at all. I don't even think this guy cares about me. We don't go on dates and I can't even rely on him giving me a call when he says he will, yet he's begging me to take the plunge

2007-09-16 13:49:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He dosn't talk to me, and when he does it's only over the computer where he makes it very clear he no longer loves me. He won't be my friend because after he broke up with me I told him he didn't love me. I have since apoloigized for saying that. We hang out with the same group of friends, wouldn't it just be easier to atleast be pleasent instead of pretending I don't exsist. I hate how weird it makes things when he won't talk to me or join in on conversations that I'm a part of. I know he no longer loves me, not only because he has told me over the internet, but because it's been 9 months since our short 4 month long relationship. Is it really to much for him to just talk to me like a normal person?

2007-09-16 13:48:47 · 29 answers · asked by Simple Love 2

This guy i really like likes me back and he wants to date me but we cant be together cause hes best friends with my older brother and he and i are 3 years apart and parents would flip out so we dont know what to do i need to show him that i really like him and that age doesnt matter but i really dont know waht to do plz help!

2007-09-16 13:48:21 · 11 answers · asked by bshherica 1

a little bitchy but yet confident girl, or a shy, timid and not much confidence girl but yet real sweet?

2007-09-16 13:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1

This girl I have been dating for 3 months (and we get along awesome) came out of a bad marraige. She has told me that it will take her a while to let her guard down, and I cannot blame her for that (I know how she feels). My question is do you think she will ever let me see her interself and turn into that person that I want to get really close to?

2007-09-16 13:46:10 · 15 answers · asked by seldring2000 1

A lot of the time, when my boyfriend and I are watching a movie, we end up making out. And a lot of the time when we're making out, he has his eyes open watching the movie as well. This strikes me as weird. And it makes me feel a bit inferior, like he'd rather just watch the movie, even when he iniated the kiss. He doesn't do this all the time, but enough that it's a tad annoying. Do any of you have s/o's that do this? And if they do, did you say anything about it?

And no, I'm not going to break up with him over this. He's a great guy who I really like and who makes me feel special all the time. I see people on here who suggest breaking up over every little problem. To those of you out there who do that, please think a bit more before answering. Thanks.

2007-09-16 13:45:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know he liked me a year ago,but he had a girlfriend then so i kept my distance.Then one nite i had some stuff happen with my x and I was so sad that i ended up calling(the guy i like now)his bestfriend crying and that night he held me till i slept.ever since that happened he(the guy i like)brok up with his girlfriend and hugs me when he sees me,except for when his bestfriend is around,he acts like he hates me in front of him,why? Is he still interested or did i ruin it?

2007-09-16 13:45:07 · 2 answers · asked by kelly k 1

This Good Question, which came in via e-mail, has been the matter of debate in more than a few households. Who are better drivers, men or women?

2007-09-16 13:44:16 · 20 answers · asked by silvester 2

my bf have nothing to talk about. we dont go to the same school or anything. help?

2007-09-16 13:42:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got a girl friend and she's in my class. I don't talk to her in class but i do talk to her at recess. Is that okay? Because people are telling me i should talk to her in class.. instead of recess.... by the way i got 2 recess periods so i don't know. Help me out. Thanks. I also don't want to talk to her because it will distrube my studying skills and all. But recess is fine.

2007-09-16 13:42:12 · 18 answers · asked by kings c 1

a boy that i have a MAJOR crush on asked me if I would be willing to date a guy that was outside of my religion (we don't have the same religious beliefs). And a few days ago, he asked me what would be oldest guy i would date (he's 7 yrs older than me) and what my "type" of man is like.

What does it mean when a guy asks this? Is it a normal thing guys ask all their female friends?

2007-09-16 13:35:34 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Realistic 2

Ok well i really like him. i was going to tell him i like him. i got really close to telling him. we had the whole thing planned out, when, where and he agreed and promised to everything. but when i my friend went to get him he told my friend "screw you what does she want" i know that he probably didn't want to look like a fool in front of his friends and leave to come talk to me but it still doesn't excuse why he stood me up

he knows i'm mad at him for what he did and i haven't been talkin to him for a while. i do still like him and want to tell him. i'm pretty sure he likes me too because we have kissed before and held each other and stuff like that. the last time we did stuff like that was in like the beginning of august. i'm not sure if he is ready to hear that i really like him yet. should i keep trying to tell him or just give it up? he is sorry for what he did because he told his friend that is also my friend. but he hasn't come to me yet to tell me. what should i do?

2007-09-16 13:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by ♥.blondy4eva 7

My bf and I were friends for 6 months before we entered a LD relationship over the last 6-7 months. We live 900 miles apart and typically see each other one weekend a month. I spent nearly all of July there.

He works alot, sometimes 2 jobs, so the communication during the week is limited (we might talk 3 times a day, 2 minutes here, 5 there, and I am sleep when he gets off at night). July had some highs and lows as I still had to ask for his time, even when he was home!
I have a steady job, so I find myself really missing the connection with him. Lately in the last month, I have been considering breaking up. I love him dearly, but I worry that although we talk about moving, the lack of communication now will continue to be an issue, even when we are in the same state. It's also weird because it seems like his time and communication improves once I talk about breaking up. Is he blowing me off until "drama" or a crisis hits the relationship? What would you do here?

2007-09-16 13:33:49 · 1 answers · asked by Nutzzzzz 2

My baby's father and I have not been together in a relationship, since a few months before my daughter was born. He put me through a lot while he I was pregnant and when enough was enough I finally ended it. He is currently in jail on drug charges. He's hurt me deeply and eventhough I'm healing, I'm wondering if I should confront him with the fact that he gave me Herpes.
I was diagnosed only a couple of days before the birth of my daughter by c-section (to prevent it from being transmitted to her). He and I had been together a year. Before he started getting involved in drugs we had discussed marriage and having a future together, so it wasn't a fly-by-night romance.
I have not been sexually involved with anyone else, but him since we've met. I never had any signs of Herpes before him. There has been one time where I thought he cheated on me, but he denied it. I know he had been with other women in between break-ups at least. Should I confront him about this?

2007-09-16 13:27:51 · 20 answers · asked by Under Construction 1

I am so embarassed. I went up to a guy named Tavin and asked himwhere his friend Mason (Guy I like) was. He said he didn't know. A couple minutes later, he dragged Mason to me! I didn't know what to do, so I randomly asked for his e-mail adress. He said he didn't want to give it out. Then he asked if I had one. I said yeah, doesn't every girl? He said what is it? I said it was long, and he said, I'll remember it. So i told him. and then he said bye and walked away. Why wouldn't he tell me his e-mail!? And is it good that he asked for mine...will he really remember it or just say he did?

2007-09-16 13:20:03 · 1 answers · asked by amanda f 2

So i met this really sweet guy at this club, well u think at first its just another guy, and i say 2 myself okay we will exchange #'s and go from there but then i do something that i didnt think i would do, we hang every single day we had such a fun time 2gether! i really didnt think meeting someone at a club could turn into something so special. I like him but i dont know if its right. I mean should i take him serious? or let him go! ive know him now for a month.

2007-09-16 13:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by and U are 1