i've been cool with this boy for about 2 yrs. im really starting to like him, i know that he likes me and he's even invited me to his house in front of his friends, i know that this is a big step for some guyz. but anyway im not sure if he is really trying to b with me on that level. what do u think? he often stops me during the day to say wasup and see how im feeling, and everything but is this typical for sum1 who wants to b just friends?
if not how do i make that first m ove, to let him know im interested
2007-09-16 13:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by call me s.hova 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel. Then try and hang out as more then friends, and see what happens.
2007-09-16 14:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Katie Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's treating you like one of his friends but if you want him to be more I'd keep treating him the same way just step it up a bit, start flirting more, compliment him, ask him to hang out one on one and see how he responds. If he acts weirded out or backs off then he might just want to be friends but he might flirt back and there you go...being friends is a great way to start a relationship :)
2007-09-16 21:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably wondering the same thing about you. If you know him so weil, then you know what his interests are. Just look for something coming up that is in his interests and say, "I saw that there is a ______ coming up next Sat. I was thinking of getting us tickets. Would you like to go with me?"
2007-09-16 21:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally just had this happen to me!! It seems to me that he really is interested, so all you have to do is flirt back. Ask him over to your house, or ask him to go to the movies with you. That's what I did, and it worked out great. I hope all goes well for you!!
2007-09-16 21:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Stilts1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this Homecoming Dance season? If he asks you, then there's the answer to your question. You could drop some hints (like, "are you going to Homecoming?")
2007-09-16 21:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give him a kiss on the cheek, or if ur not like that then tell him that you like him. if that is still too much ask his friends what he thinks about you.
2007-09-16 21:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
weeelll... uhmm. that sorta SORTA happened to me and i really messed up cuz i got my friend to tell him i liked him and after that i got her to tell him its over and then i went up to him to tell him i only said it was over cuz i didnt want to ruin our friendship and then he's like i dont like you. so whatever you do, dont get someone else to do it for you. and abt the first move. do it casually like if your sitting on a bench alone then bring it up like.. we've been friends a while..and yeahh....
2007-09-16 21:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's being freindly, but maybe he likes you, just not as much yet. give it a little more time, then make the first move if nothing happens
2007-09-16 21:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
boyfriend, if he's a great friend this is the way it should be if you cant be friend you will not belovers
2007-09-16 21:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by scoob48413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like flirty and if he flirts back he likes you.....
2007-09-16 21:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋