so i really like this guy, hes really cute and cool and what not. but see, hes not into long relationships. he will ask a girl out but then they will only last like a month or so and he doesnt expect them to be bff's after the breakup. its just the way he is, ya know some guys just dont like relationships. and hes kinda a flirt. but i really like him and im pretty sure he is going to ask me out but i dont want just a 1 month relationship. is there anyway i could make it so we last alot longer? what should i do?
2007-09-16 14:14:50 · 3 answers · asked by Natalia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend went out with him last year [i jsut want to say that i liked him and knew him first...she just kinda took over!!!] and she was totally obsessed!!! he is really good looking and i think that got to her head because she made him a myspace and his headline was the date and his name was like "i love ...." and it was soooo weird!!! and she did this the day he asked her out!!! and then when they broke up she was still like "omg...im so upset hes not talking to me n e more" and we tried to tell her that hes not like that but she was all "well i went out with him i know what hes like!!" and ughhh! hahahaa n e way...so im def not the clingy obsessive girlfriend [of course i kinda am on the inside, like 'omg hes sooo cute!! and hes mine mine mine mine mine!!! lol] but i dont let it show on the outside cause im not like that. and i dont know how his other relatinships went but yeah....so maybe that would help
2007-09-16 14:27:51 · update #1
At your age, and I'm guessing you're pretty young, relationships seldom last very long. You may or may not be old enough to date, but if you are, just enjoy being together for whatever time it lasts. Don't expect a lot, and you won't be disappointed. There will be many boyfriends in your life before you meet the one and only. So just concentrate on having fun, and don't worry about pinning anyone down.
2007-09-16 14:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be different from the other relationships he's had.
2007-09-16 21:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel lik u already no what u r gettin into...if u no for a fact that hes not into long relationships...n u no thats wut u want then i say dont even bother...y..because u r settin ya self up for heart ache...leave him where hes at gurl...dont welcome in problems that can be avoided
2007-09-16 21:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by dasure2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋